Kugwera mu chikondi, mumadziponyera nokha m'nyanja ya zilakolako, kuiwala za dziko lozungulira ndi kuona, ndi amene angakonde nthawi zonse ndi masiku ndi usiku. Zikuwoneka kuti izi zidzakhala nthawi zonse komanso nthawi zonse, kuti mphindi iliyonse mukhala ndi wokondedwa wanu pafupi. Ndipo kuchokera mu lingaliro ili, mtima ndi moyo zodzazidwa ndi chimwemwe ndi chimwemwe.
Koma ambiri a ife tiri ndi mphindi mu moyo pamene maubwenzi sali ofanana ndi omwe analipo kale. Nthawi zokhala ndi chimwemwe chokwanira komanso chikondi chimayambira kumayendedwe kawirikawiri. Umenewo umayamba kuyamba. Mukusiya kumvetsa wokondedwa wanu, mumayamba kukonza. Zinkawoneka ngati nthawi ina yapitayi, kukonda kwambiri komanso kowala kwambiri m'mitima kumayamba kufota ndi kufota ngati duwa lomwe silinatuluke kwa nthawi yaitali.
Inde, chikondi chikhoza kufanana ndi duwa, lowala, ndi fungo lokoma. Koma aliyense amene amachigwira m'manja, amadziwa za spikes. Ngati duwa limagwiritsidwa mosamalitsa, popanda kuliphwimitsa pamtunda ndi manja anu, ndiye kuti zokondweretsa zokhala nazo zidzatsala. Ndipo ngati mumapachika, minga imapweteka manja anu molakwika. Kotero chikondi sichikhoza kuyimbidwa mwamphamvu, ziribe kanthu momwe izo zinaliri amphamvu.
Kupatukana, mukuganiza kuti izi ndizochitika nthawi zonse.
Mwadzidzidzi kukana kusintha kwa mkati, mumayesa kuiwala mnzanu woyamba.
Koma ngati pangakhale malingaliro enieni pakati pa anthu awiri, ndiye chikondi chidzamveketsa ndi kubwereranso. Ndithudi lingaliro lakuti mwadzidzidzi ngati mutabwereranso pokhapokha kuti musayambe, kuti ululu pambuyo pa kubwezeretsedwa kwa ubale ukhoza kukhala wamphamvu kwambiri kuposa momwe zinaliri poyamba kusokoneza. Kuti mubwezeretsenso chikondi kachiwiri, khulupirirani, mumulandire wokondedwayo ngati akuwopseza. Koma musakhale nokha kuti musamve kalikonse, osati kuti mtanda wa kukhala nokha sikumva ululu waukulu?
Nthawi imachiza mabala, nthawi yozizira imakonda koma kukhala moyo wochuluka kotero kuti ikhoza kulipira iyo siyoyenera kwa ife.
Chitsitsimutso cha chikondi chimayamba osati chowonekera. Ndiye chithunzi chowopsa chidzagwa pamaso, kenako zinthu zidzakumbukira wokondedwa. Mukuyamba kuganiziranso zonse zomwe zinalipo kale, mikangano yonse, nthawi yomwe, pambali pa wokondedwa, panalibe kusowa kwa wina aliyense. Lingaliro la iye kapena za iye silileka kuchoka pamutu panga. Tonsefe tili ndi udindo pa maubwenzi athu ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosavuta kuzipulumutsa kusiyana ndi kuzipulumutsa. Kawirikawiri timachita mantha chifukwa sitingadzikhulupirire tokha. Tikufuna kukhala odzikuza komanso olondola pazinthu zilizonse. Tikufuna kusonyeza kuti ndife apamwamba kuposa okondedwa athu. Ndipo n'zovuta kuzindikira kuti simungakhale woyamba mu chikondi, simungakhale pamwamba pa theka lanu. Mu chikondi muyenera kukhala osangalala!
Ndipo mu mphindi imodzi mumayamba kuganiza kachiwiri ndikudabwa. Kodi iye amaganizira za inu, zomwe amachita, zomwe amachita? Patapita nthawi, mumayimba ndi kulankhulana.
Kupita kuntchito mwangozi kukumana ndi maluwa atsopano akuphulika ndi kununkhiza. Koma fungo lake ndi lowala komanso lamphamvu.
Chikondi chenicheni cha mmodzi wa iwo chingalepheretse chitsitsimutso cha chikondi cha anthu awiri. Ndiyeno, ziribe kanthu momwe chikondi cha chikondi chimakhalira cholimba, osati kuti chimachokera. Musayese.
Mukhoza kuyesa kusintha, kusintha zonse zomwe zili m'njira. Koma chinthu chovuta kwambiri ndikusintha nokha. Ndipo ngati izo zikutengera nthawi yayitali bwanji? Kodi mukufunikira kuti musinthe?
Chifukwa cha chikondi, ndikofunika kumverera, kukhala omasuka komanso otetezeka, kuti musakhale osiyana ngakhale pali kusiyana kwa khalidwe, chikhalidwe. Kuti ndinu amodzi wothandizana. Inde, chitsitsimutso cha chikondi cha anthu awiri chimadalira paziwirizi, osati pa chimodzi.
Chitsitsimutso cha chikondi cha anthu awiri ndi sakramenti, ndipo chikhalidwe chofunikira kuti chikwaniritso chake chikhale chololedwa. Mutu mu chikondi, zochita, zochita. Kulandira ulemu, ulemu ndi kutentha.