Ana.
Ambiri amakhudzidwa ndi momwe ana amamvera atabadwa m'banja lomwe makolo sali okwatira. Ambiri amakhalapo ndi ana omwe akukankhira pulogalamuyi ku ofesi yolembera, ena ngakhale sangathe kuvomereza kuyika sitampu pa pasipoti.
Tiyenera kudziwika kuti ana obadwa m'banja laumwini ali ndi ufulu wofanana ndi ana a makolo omwe amalembedwa mwalamulo. Chinthu chokha chomwe chidzasiyana ndi ana ake ena ndi chakuti wina m'banja lake ali ndi dzina losiyana, kawirikawiri mayi, popeza abambo nthawi zambiri amapatsa ana awo dzina. Izi zingachititse mavuto ena - pamene muli mu sukulu kapena sukulu, mafunso kwa makolo ndi mafunso ochokera kwa anzanu. Kwa ambiri, kuti dzina la mayi silofanana ndi la bambo ndi mwana lidzadabwitsidwa ndi chikhumbo chokayikira, ndipo ana sakhala okonzeka kuyankha mafunso amenewa nthawi zonse.
Ngati makolo a mwanayo akukwatirana, abambo samangokhala atate, monga mwa mabanja achikhalidwe. Paternity ayenera kulembedwa kudzera mu ofesi yolembera, kotero otsutsa kupita ku kampaniyi mwanjira ina adzayenera kudutsamo. Ndondomekoyi ndi yofunika osati chifukwa chakuti mwanayo amalandira bambo wovomerezeka, komanso chifukwa chakuti ngati atatha kusokonekera, amatha kulandira chithandizo kuchokera kwa bambo ake, ndiko kuti alimony.
Ngati abambo sanakhazikitsidwe pa nthawi, ndipo makolo amasankha kugawidwa, ndiye kuti paternity iyenera kutsimikiziridwa kupyolera mu khoti. Tsopano abambo amakhazikitsidwa mothandizidwa ndi mayeso a zamoyo, ngati abambo amakana kuzindikira mwanayo. Ngati abambo samaganizira, chilolezo chake n'chokwanira. Pambuyo kukhazikitsidwa kwa abambo, mwanayo adzalandira alimony, koma sadzatha kuyendera maiko ena popanda chilolezo cha abambo, chomwe chidzapangitse mavuto ena, makamaka ngati makolo ali olakwika.
Accommodation.
Nkhani yachiwiri yofunika kwambiri yomwe imadetsa nkhaŵa anthu kusankha chisankho chaboma ndi nkhani ya nyumba. Kodi ali ndi ufulu wofanana ndi nyumba zomwe adazipeza, momwe angazigwirizane ngati kuthetsa chiyanjano ndi momwe angazigwiritsire ntchito bwino?
Ngati m'banja mwakhama chirichonse chiri chosavuta kwambiri komanso katundu wogula ali ogawanika pakati, ndiye muukwati waumwini pali zina zosavuta. Mwachitsanzo, ngati malo ogula amalembedwa kwa mmodzi yekhayo, ngakhale pambuyo pa zaka zambiri zaukwati, wachiwiriyo sangakhale ndi umboni wogula nyumbayi. Palibe umboni wa oyandikana nawo ndi achibale umene mwakhala nawo kwa nthawi yayitali munachititsa kuti pakhale nyumba yamba ndipo palimodzi iwo apulumutsidwa ku nyumba sadzakhala ndi phindu lililonse pagawilo la nyumba. Pofuna kupeŵa mavuto oterewa, nyumba iyenera kulembedwa ndi mamembala onse omwe ali ndi chiwonetsero chenicheni cha magawo awo. Izi zikhoza kukhala magawo ofanana kapena magawo ofanana ndi amene adzagulitse pogula nyumba. Mgwirizano woterewu udzaonetsetsa kuti pakhale kusiyana pakati pa malo ngati kuli kofunikira.
Malo ena.
Kwa zaka zomwe anthu amathera m'banja, amapanga katundu wambiri - ndi mipando, zovala, magalimoto, zodzikongoletsera ndi zina zotero. Ngakhale banja liri bwino, palibe mafunso okhudza zomwe ndi a ndani, koma mavuto atangoyamba, okwatirana amasankha momwe angagawire zomwe adazipeza. Muukwati wovomerezeka, okwatirana ali ndi ufulu wofanana ndi katundu woperekedwa muukwati. Chikwati chaboma chimapatsa ufulu kwa eni ake. Choncho, ndikofunika kusunga macheke onse otsimikizira kuti kugula kwakukulu kapena kofunikira kwa inu nokha, ndibwino kuti mukhale ndi zolembera ndalama ndi chiphaso cha malonda. Mungapeze njira ina. Pofuna kuthetsa mikangano yomwe ingatheke, sizolakwika kuganiza mgwirizano muukwati waumwini womwe udzasintha maubwenzi anu ndikudziwunikira, ndani, ndi pansi pazifukwa ziti. Mukagawaniza katunduyo, idzakupulumutsani kuti musamakangane.
Mosakayikira, maubwenzi apamtima amapereka chitsimikizo chowonjezereka kwa mamembala onse, koma zina zimawoneka zopanda phindu. Aliyense amadzipangira yekha ngati amaika timapepala mu pasipoti yake kapena ayi, koma n'kopindulitsa kudziŵa kuti ndi njira yabwino yothetsera kugwirizana, sikoyenera kukhala mwamuna ndi mkazi wovomerezeka pa izi. Nthaŵi zina inshuwalansi mwazovomerezeka ndi zolembera ndi zabwino kuwonjezera pa kumverera ndi kudalira, ndipo zimathandiza kulimbitsa ukwati.