1) Perekani zolinga.
Inde, munthu aliyense amakonda. Wina amakonda ma blondes okha, ndipo wina wochenjera, wina akusowa mkazi wachuma, ndipo wina amakhala mkazi wamdziko. Koma tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti kufunafuna maloto kungatenge zaka, ndipo panthawiyi atsikana ambiri adzadutsa, zomwe zingakhale zenizeni zenizeni. Pofunafuna mkazi yemwe angakhale mkazi, simukuyenera kuganizira m'mene mumamvera potsata galimoto yatsopano. Munthu wamoyo sangakhale ndi magawo omwe sangasinthe ndi nthawi. Palibe anthu opanda zoperewera. Ngati munthu adziwa osati ake enieni, adzalandira zolakwa mwa mkazi wokondedwa popanda zonena. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti munthu uyu ali ndi mwayi kuyang'ana zinthu ndi ubale.
2) Gwiritsani ntchito nzeru.
Banja lamphamvu sichichitika popanda chikondi. Koma chikondi chimodzi sichiri chitsimikiziro cha chimwemwe. Kusankha bwenzi la moyo, sankhani poyamba ndi zofuna zanu ndi mfundo zanu.
Ngati muli ndi chiyembekezo chabwino, munthu wokondwa amene amasangalala kwambiri, mkazi wosasungunuka sangachite bwino kwambiri. Mmodzi wa inu adzaseka, wachiwiri adzakhumudwa ndi nthabwala, kuti mtendere ndi kumvetsetsa sikungowonjezera.
Ngati mumayamikira chitetezo m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, ndizomveka kuyesa maluso a mkazi. Sichiyenera kukhala wophika wamkulu-pambuyo pake, ngati mukufuna, mukhoza kuphunzira chirichonse, koma chilakolako chake ndi chikhumbo chokonzekera moyo, kusunga dongosolo ndi ukhondo ndizofunikira zomwe mukufunikira.
Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti abambo ndi amai akhale ndi lingaliro lofanana osati pa moyo wokhawokha, komanso pazinthu zakuthupi makamaka. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna amachitira akazi ulemu, amadziwa ufulu wawo wogwira ntchito ndi kupambana, mwamuna amazoloŵera kudzipezera yekha ndi kuyamikira ufulu ndi kudziimira mwa anthu. Sizingatheke kuti iye angakonde mkazi yemwe angakane kusiya ntchito zamalonda kuti azisamalira banja, ndipo munthu wotereyo amasowa mwamsanga. Ndikofunika kuyerekeza malingaliro anu ndi ndalama. Ngati wina akuwotcha, ndipo wachiwiri spender, izi zidzakhala chifukwa chachikulu chokangana.
Palibe banja lingakhale lopanda opanda ana. Ndi ana omwe amagwirizanitsa mwamuna ndi mkazi, apange iwo amodzi. Choncho, nkofunikanso kuti maganizo okhudzana ndi ana komanso kulera kwawo azigwirizana ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi wake. Sichiyenera kukhala chimodzimodzi, koma ndibwino ngati inu nonse mumamatira njira zofanana pakubereka. Komanso, ngati wina alota banja lalikulu, ndipo wina ndi mwana yekhayo ndi katundu, ndiye kuti kukangana pa nthakayi sikungapewe.
Imodzi mwa njira zogwira mtima kwambiri zotsimikiziranso zokhuza kwanu za amai ndikumudziwa bwino banja lake. Amanena kuti kuti mumvetsetse mtundu wa mkazi yemwe ali ndi zaka 20, muyenera kuyang'ana amayi ake. Awa ndi mawu olondola. Inde, musaganize kuti mkazi adzakhala mayi weniweni wa amayi ake, koma timasintha mwakhama khalidwe la anthu omwe akukhala nawo ndi kumanga banja mu chitsanzo chimene adachiwona kuyambira ali mwana. Choncho, munthu amatha kuona ndi kumvetsetsa zambiri, atayankhula ndi achibale a wobwezera kumanja ndi mtima. Njira yomwe banja lawo likulumikizana, kuthandizana ndi kuthandizana, zidzakhudza ubale wanu.
Koma poyesera kusankha mkazi wabwino kwambiri pa dziko lapansi, nkofunika kuti musaphonye zomwe zingakhale kutali ndi maganizo anu pa zomwe mkazi wabwino kwambiri ali nazo. Sikuti nthawi zonse n'zotheka kuwerengera chilichonse padziko lapansi ndipo zimakhala zovuta kufotokoza momwe ubale wanu udzakhalira patatha zaka zambiri. Pakapita nthawi, timasintha, malingaliro athu ndi zofunikira zathu kusintha, kotero musayese kufunafuna phindu la nthawi yaitali, monga muli mu sitolo. Ngati mumakondana, muli ndi malingaliro ofanana pa moyo ndi zinthu zofunika mmenemo, ngati muli ndi malingaliro ofanana za tsogolo ndi zolinga zomwezo, ndiye kuti muli ndi mwayi waukulu kuti mudzasangalala. Pamapeto pake, nkhani zimadziwika pomwe mwamuna ndi mkazi anali otsutsana kwambiri, komabe anakhala pamodzi mwachikondi ndi mgwirizano kwa zaka zambiri.