Kotero, momwe mungapezere munthu wa maloto anu mu zaka 13? Choyamba, dziwani komwe mungayang'anire.
Yankho liri lophweka - pa intaneti. Pali malo ambiri ochezera, malo ochezera, komanso "VKontakte", ndithudi, komanso. Choncho, lembani pa malo ambiri ndipo paliponse musiye zambiri zosangalatsa zokhudza iwe mwini. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, payenera kukhala zithunzi zambiri zozizira. Afunseni kukujambula kuchokera kwa amzake. Zithunzi ziyenera kukhala zosiyana: pamsewu, kunyumba, mu gulu. Tengani zithunzi mu zovala zosiyana, muzosiyana zosiyana. Ngati palibe amene angakulepheretseni, musawakwiyire. Zithunzi zabwino kwambiri zimapezeka ngakhale mutadziponyera nokha. Mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito foni. Maganizo abwino ochokera pamwamba. Ndi momwe maso anu amaonekera, ndipo anyamata amakonda kwambiri atsikana omwe ali ndi maso aakulu. Komanso, yesetsani kuonetsetsa kuti milomo yanu yayamba. Zithunzi zimasinthidwa bwino mu Photoshop, kuwonjezera zotsatira zosangalatsa.
Zithunzizo zitakonzeka, ziyikeni pa ma blogi onse, muzocheza, podziwa. Nthawi zambiri, yongolerani ma Album ndikuyesera kuwonjezera zithunzi makumi atatu panthawi imodzi. Choncho anyamata amakuyamikirani komanso amazindikira kuti mumakonda kujambula zithunzi. Ndipo ndi zabwino kwambiri ngati mtsikana ali ndi chizoloŵezi. Musamayembekezere kuti wina akulembereni. Tayang'anani pa mbiri ya anyamata, sankhani omwe akuyenera kuti muwalembere nokha. Pamene mumalemba kwambiri, mwayi waukulu wopeza wokondedwa wanu. Ndiponso, mukhoza kuwonjezera anyamata kwa okhudzana nawo. Inde, pezani omwe akukhala mumzinda mwanu kuti mutenge mwayi wokwana. Musamamvetsere awo omwe adzakana ntchito. Iwo ali ochepa chabe, anthu osakhudzidwa omwe sangakhoze kudzitama ndi kutchuka pakati pa atsikana. Ndipo chithunzi pa avatar, mwachiwonekere, sichilinso chenicheni. Mapulogalamu amakanidwa ndi akatswiri ophunzira omwe amangomvetsetsa kuti alibe mwayi wokumana nanu.
Onetsetsani kuti mukhale pazokambirana. Ndipo ndibwino kuti musakhale nokha - kumeneko mukhoza kupeza munthu wa maloto anu. Mudzipangire nokha dzina labwino ndi laulere, chifukwa anyamata amakonda atsikana okongola, aakazi a kavainyh. Tchuleni nokha "chokoma chaching'ono," "dzuwa lokoma," "nyashnaya chaka" kapena chinachake chonga icho. Zikondwerero zoterozo zidzakopa chidwi cha anyamata oyenerera. Yankhani chilichonse chimene anyamata akulembera. Inde, musaiwale kuti muyenera kuwona zithunzi zawo. Mukufuna mnyamata wokongola, mwinamwake, ndizomveka kukomana naye. Musagwiritse ntchito khama lalikulu lomwe mtsikanayo sanaganizirepo ndi mipira zana. Onetsetsani kusiya mauthenga apamtima kwa anzanu atsopano kuti athe kukuthandizani. Ngati muli ndi mafoni am'manja, lembani manambala onse kuti musaphonye. Ngati mnyamatayo anasiya nambala yake, simungakhoze kuyembekezera kuitana kwake, lembani ndikudziitanira yekha. Anyamata amakonda chidwi, ndipo amakondwera kuti mukusangalala nawo. Onetsetsani kuti muvomereze ku misonkhano yonse yomwe achinyamata amakupatsani. Kotero iwe ukhoza kumuwona mnyamatayo mu moyo weniweni ndi kuwona ngati izo zimakukwanira iwe. Mutha kukonza misonkhano ingapo tsiku limodzi.
Sankhani malo omwe ali pafupi kuti musasokoneze nthawi yambiri yosamukira. Mwa njira, ndibwino kuti mudziwe bwino anyamata omwe ali akulu kuposa inu zaka zingapo. Iwo ali anzeru, odziwa zambiri, amadziwa zomwe akufuna pamoyo wawo. Musamamvetsere anthu omwe sali a mtundu uliwonse, makamaka ngati ali ndi zaka zoposa sikisitini. Pa nthawi ino, mukufunika kusankha zochita pa moyo wanu, ndipo ngati akudziona kuti ndi wamba, n'chifukwa chiyani mukufunikira izi. Munthu yemwe akulota maloto ayenera kuti azichita zina zomwe zingadzitamandire ena: kukwera masewera kapena kuthamanga njinga, kusewera pagulu, kuchita parkour.
Komanso, muyenera kudziwa bwino anyamatawa. Inu mukudziwa kwenikweni, kumene mumzinda mwanu muli ana ambiri okondweretsa komanso odziimira. Choncho pitani kumeneko. Kambiranani ndi anyamata omwe mumakonda, alankhulani nawo, mutenge mafoni ndipo onetsetsani kuti mukuitanitsa. Ngati akunena kuti palibe nthawi ndikupempha foni pakapita nthawi, bwererani, koma osaposa theka la ora. Ndipotu, mnyamatayo sali wotanganidwa, amangofufuza ngati muli ndi chidwi, kapena mumasiya mosavuta. Mukhoza kutchula ngakhale usiku, chifukwa ndi bwino kudzuka kuchokera ku liwu la bwenzi lanu.
Inde, muyenera ndithu kupita ku magulu. Ndi kumene mungakumane usiku umodzi ndi anyamata ambiri. Ngati makolo akuletsa, musataye mtima. Mukhoza kupeza njira yothetsera vutoli osati kuwalola kuti asokoneze moyo wanu. Inde, mwatsoka, amayi ndi abambo sangamvetsetse mavuto anu. Choncho, ndibwino kuti iwo asadziwe chilichonse. Awuzeni kuti mumakhala ndi chibwenzi, mutengere mnzanu ndi mchemwali wake kapena mbale kuti mudziyerekezere kuti ndinu mayi ake kapena bambo ake ndipo mupite ku chipinda chabwino. Valani bwino kwambiri momwe mungathere. Yesani kuyang'ana kuti aliyense akuyang'anirani. Mwa njira, usaiwale kuti kampu ikhoza kuoneka ngati zovala zodziwika. Palibe munthu wamba yemwe amamvetsera msungwana yemwe sakudziwa kuvala modabwitsa. Mu chipinda muyenera kuyenda nokha, kotero kuti atsikanawo asapikisane. Koma ngati mukuwopa chinthu chimodzi, tengani munthu amene akukukwanirani mokongola. Mu kampu, mochuluka momwe zingathere, khalani pavina kapena pafupi ndi bar. Ngati mnyamatayo akukugulitsani - musakane. Anyamata samakonda anthu odzichepetsa.
Khalani nthawizonse oyambirira ndi okondwa. Ganizirani nkhani zokambirana, kambiranani momwe mungathere, kusangalala, kuseka. Ngati mumakonda mnyamata - njira yonse ikuwonetserani kuti amakondwera kwambiri kwa inu. Ngakhale simukudziwa zomwe akunena, mukugwirizanabe ndi mawu ake onse. Ngati mumagwira ntchito zonse, posachedwapa mumapeza munthu wokongola komanso wabwino kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi. Ndipo zaka 13 mukhoza kupeza wokondedwa wanu!