Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi kudzidalira kwanu. Nthawi ndi nthawi muyenera kukumbukira kuti ndinu mkazi wapamwamba kwambiri, osati aliyense amene angakhale nanu. Mwamuna aliyense amayenera kukhala ndi inu. Nthawi zambiri pachiyambi cha chibwenzi, amai amalakwa kuvomereza ndi okondedwa awo mu chirichonse. Izi sizingatheke. Ngati mwakhalapo pachibwenzi kwa nthawi yayitali, musawoloke, musalole kugula nyumba yogwirizana, kufikira atapanga chisankho. Mwamuna ayenera kukhala ndi chilimbikitso choonjezera chiyanjano.
Musati mupeze chikwati ngati simukuchidziwa bwino. Chovala choyera, chodyera ndi limousine - ichi, ndithudi, ndi chabwino, koma muyenera kudziwa munthu wa maloto anu. Mukamakumana nawo, zozizwitsa zambiri zingakupangitseni moyo. Ubale ndi wovuta kumanga, komabe, ndikovuta kwambiri kugawana chifukwa cha kusagwirizana pang'ono ndi amene anakhala mbadwa. Yang'anirani zinthu zamtundu uliwonse mwa zochita za amuna. Musamamvere zomwe akunena. Monga momwe chiwonetsero chimasonyezera, ngati munthu akunena kuti sakonda ana, izo sizikutanthauza chirichonse. Mwana wanu akadzawoneka, ngakhale amuna oopsa kwambiri amakondana. Choncho, zonse zomwe akunena zokhudzana ndikuti amakwatirana patadutsa zaka 30 zokha, kuti sakonda ana, kuti amasankha blondes nthawi zonse ndi maximalism, yomwe idzatha.
Amuna sazengereza kukambirana za momwe mkazi wake angakhalire. Inu mumangomvetsera kwa iwo! "Mkazi wanga adzamenyana tsiku ndi tsiku," "Sindimulola kuti azivala zovala zachifupi" - izi ndizoti mwamuuza nthawi zambiri kuti mumavala mini ndipo simukufuna kuphika. Kodi mukuganiza kuti zikutanthauzanji kuti sangakukwati? Ayi, si choncho. Izi zikutanthauza kuti sazengereza kukamba za zabwino zake, ngakhale ngati simukugwirizana nazo.
Musamaze kukayezanso izi. Ndiuzeni kuti muyenera kuyesetsa kugwira ntchito panyumba, kupeza zambiri komanso osamwa mowa. Lolani pomuchaetsya ndi kulingalira, ndipo ngati chirichonse chiri choyenera mu ubale wanu. Ngati muli ndi mfundo kapena chofunikira kwambiri, onetsetsani kuti mutiwuze za izo. Amuna amasintha kwambiri mosadandaula, kotero muli ndi mwayi wina wopezera chikondi chatsopano.
Sikofunikira kukomana ndi mnyamata wa nkhanza kapena zolinga zapamwamba. Pachiyambi choyamba, posachedwa simudzamulemekeza, ndiyeno musasiye kukonda. Kachiwiri, kumbukirani, kulonjeza ndi kupatsa - ndibwino kuposa munthu wotetezedwa. Ndizosowa omwe amakhala mtsogoleri pa 25, choncho musafunse zonse mwakamodzi. Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndi chakuti akufuna kuti akwaniritse chinachake pamoyo wake mwiniyo.
Komabe, ndinu ofunika kwambiri. Komabe, kodi mnyamata wanu amadziwa za izi? Taganizirani zomwe akuwona? Kodi mumayang'ana mndandanda tsiku lililonse ndikukonzekera chakudya? Ponyani mwamsanga. Ndine wotsimikiza kuti mumatha kuphika ndi bwino. Muzibwera mofulumira ndi zokonda zomwe zidzakhala zofunika kwambiri. Iwo ali ndi nsomba ndi mpira, kusaka ndi magalimoto. Kumbukirani, ndi liwu liti lomwe likuti "ichi ndi chopatulika." Lolani komanso mutha kukhala "olimba katatu pa sabata - ndi yopatulika." Mwina, adzadabwa kuti mukamakangana naye, mumapezabe nthawi yokhala ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndipo musamamwe mukamwa.
Kawirikawiri, pamene mkazi akufunafuna kukopa kwake, amavomereza kulakwitsa kwakukulu. Amangoyerekezera kuti akufuna kuchita chinachake, koma kwenikweni akufuna kuti am'kumbatire chibwenzi chake ndi kusunga ma tebulo tsiku lonse. Mwachidziwikire, mkazi amatha kugwira ntchito yake pa nthawi yabwino, choncho musadabwe kuti posachedwa adzayamba kuseka momwe angapulumule sabata ngati momwe amachitira masewera olimbitsa thupi ndikuponyera kunja. Muyenera kupeza moyo wa bizinesi, lolani kukhala ntchito kapena kudzipereka, ngati mukusangalala nawo.
Mutatsimikizira kuti ndinu ofunika, mumadzilemekeza, musiye ngakhale kukakamiza ukwati. Ndicho chifukwa chake anthu amagwidwa. Perekani kupereka kwa mkazi yemwe angathe kukhala moyo popanda iye - ndilo loto lawo. Amuna ngati akazi omwe ali osadziwika, odzidalira komanso okhutira. Musangogwera mu nthiti ina ndipo musakhale mwamuna muketi. Pitirizani kukhala okoma ndi okonda, ofooka ndi ofatsa, kuti akhalebe olimba muwiri.
Inde, akazi ambiri lerolino amatsimikiza kuti kukwatiwa si cholinga, ntchito ndiyo chinthu chachikulu. Komabe, patapita zaka zingapo, tikuwona amayi onsewa akusangalala mu lamulo losatha ndikusamalira nyumba. Chinthu chonyansa kwambiri ndi chakuti iwo omwe sanafune kukwatirana okha anachipeza. Koma atsikana omwe ali chete omwe amaganizira za banja lalikulu, amakhala okha motalika kwambiri.
Ngati ndinu mkazi wodalirika ali ndi malipiro abwino, ndiye kuti simukufuna zonsezi. Komabe, mwamsanga chikondi chenicheni chikapezeka, pali chilakolako chenicheni cha kukhala nthawi zonse ndi vezderyadom. Ndipo popanda bungwe loperekedwa la uyvas lidzakhala chabe kukhala "cohabitant."
Choipa kwambiri ndi pamene msungwana akunena kuti akufuna mwana, koma sakufuna kukwatira. Musamuwuze wina aliyense: Choyamba, ngati mumakonda ana motero, bwanji simukufuna kukhala ndi bambo? Chachiwiri, ngati munthu wanu amva, akuyang'ana mosiyana. Simungadzilemekeze nokha kuti munthu akupatseni mwayi wochepa woyembekezera, koma sanapange chopereka. Kuthamanga msangamsanga, mwamsanga pamene kuyesa kwa mimba kunapereka zotsatira zabwino, ndipo iye anati, ife tidikira mpaka "chomwecho." Pali zinthu ziwiri zokha zomwe angasankhe, adzachoka ndi kubwerera, adzachoka ndikubwerera ndi mphete. Simukusowa zosankha zina, mumadzilemekeza.
Zotsatira zomaliza za nkhani iliyonse ndizochita. Cholinga chanu chachikulu ndikukhala osangalala, chifukwa ndizo zomwe anthu onse akuyesera kuti akwaniritse. Kufunafuna munthu yemwe adzakupyoza, chifukwa chake iwe udzakhala mnzake wokondedwa ndi wodalirika kwa mkazi wokondedwa wako. Mwa njira iyi mukhoza kukhala moyo womwe mumalota.