Kodi mukudziwa chikondi? Mungathe kuyankhula za izi mwamuyaya, ndipo, mwinamwake, aliyense akumvetsa kumverera uku mwa njira yawo. Ichi ndi chowoneka, chokwera, chosasunthika, champhamvu, chokumana ndi mutu ndikugwira aliyense m'magulu awo. Mwinamwake, chokopa ichi ndi chifundo chachikulu kwa anthu.
Shakespeare adati: "Chikondi ndi chizunzo chimene aliyense akuchifuna, ndipo atapeza, amayamba kuchita chidwi. Ndiyeno akuphwasula, ayamba kuyang'ana kachiwiri. Kukonda anthu sikungakhale kwamuyaya. Ndipo, zikuwoneka, kupha anyamata awo. "
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti anthu omwe amakamba za chikondi chawo, nthawi zambiri amangomva mmene amamvera: chikondi, chikondi, chikondi ndi kugwirizana. Chizolowezi chobweretsa anthu pamodzi chimabweretsa anthu pamodzi. Chothandizira chikuwoneka, chomwe anthu nthawi zambiri amalakwitsa ngati chikondi.
Kodi munayamba mwadzifunsapo kuti ndi zotani? Mayankho a funso limeneli akhoza kukhala osiyana kwambiri: osaganiziridwa, okhumudwitsa, ogwirizana, osatha, odetsedwa, osadetsedwa, ndi zina zotero. Pakhoza kukhala mayankho ambiri, koma zolondola kwambiri zidzakhala "zosiyana". Ngakhale izi, tikupempha owerenga athu kuti adziŵe bwino ndi "chikondi". Mwina, powerenga nkhaniyi, mudzakumbukira momwe munamvera ndipo mutha kuwonetsera kuti pali mitundu ina yomwe ili pansipa. Kodi mungathe, kodi ndinu a mtundu umenewo omwe simunayambe mwakhumudwapo? Pachifukwa ichi, nkhaniyi idzakhala yanu yaing'ono. Chirichonse chomwe chinali, "mitundu ya chikondi" yomwe ili pansipa ndi yoyenera, ndipo chikondi chilichonse chili chosiyana ndi njira yake.
Chikondi-masewera
Nthawi zambiri timamva chikondi chowonetsa. Kawirikawiri, chikondi choterechi chimayambira paunyamata, pamene thupi laling'ono likufuna kukhala ndi maganizo amphamvu, ndipo wokondedwa wake ndi chifukwa chokha. Kawirikawiri pamilomo ya okondedwa awo pali mawu: "palibe", "kosatha", "ndikulonjeza", "kwambiri", "madly" it.p. Amapangitsa anthu kukhala openga, kugwedezeka, kukumana ndi nsanje, kumayambitsa mikangano ndi kusokoneza ntchito zosaganiziridwa. Zikuwoneka kuti chirichonse chiri cholimba komanso chabwino, koma kwenikweni, ubale wotere umathera mwadzidzidzi, pamene kupatukana kumapweteka kwambiri . Chikondi mu ukalamba ndizochitika zoyambirira kuti tikhale ndi maubwenzi olimba pamene tipenda zolakwa zathu zonse.
Chikondi-chidani
Zokongola ngati zikhoza kuoneka, chikondi chikhoza kukhala chidani. Ndi pamene "munandibereka bwanji (a)", "sindikufuna kukuwonani" akufuna kunena zambiri kuposa "ndimakukondani". Pamene mukufuna kusonkhanitsa nokha chirichonse chomwe chimatuluka ndi kutuluka, kumanena kuti "chotsani moyo watayika" ndikuyang'ana molunjika kwa mtima wokondeka wa munthu. Izi ndi mikangano yopanda malire, maitanidwe omwe amasowa, madzulo amakhala okha pawindo ndi maganizo a wokondedwa ndi ndudu omwe amamva ngati ndudu. Ndi nthawi ya chaka chatsopano chomwe mukufuna kuti musakondenso wina aliyense, koma m'maganizo mwanu momwe mungathetsere "matenda oda pinki" awa. Chikondi-chidani chimabwera pamene abwenzi sangathe kulenga mgwirizano mu ubale. Mwina izi zikuchitika chifukwa chakuti anthu awiri, omwe ali ndi mphamvu, samangodziwa kuti ndi osiyana kwambiri.
Chikondi-ubwenzi
Kuyambira pomwepo, maubwenzi amenewa amamangidwa pa kumvetsetsa ndi kukhulupilirana, kutsimikizira kuti mumakhala bwino komanso mumasuka. Palibe nsanje, zowonongeka, zochitika, kupatula mikangano yaing'ono yapakhomo. Ubale wokhazikika ndi woyerekeza, womwe pokhapokha ukalekana, iwo amangokhala zidutswa. Ubale wamtundu umenewu ndi wabwino popanga banja ndi kulera ana. Monga 2% kefir, zimakupatsani kukhala wathanzi ndikukhala bwino m'mawa. Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kuti tisalowe m'nkhani yotere mwachinyamata pamene mukufuna kudziperekera kuti muvomereze.
Chikondi - ufulu
Mwachitsanzo, amakonda masewera, nkhani zozizira, nyimbo zovuta, makampani akulira, gitala lamagetsi ... ndipo iye amakonda nyimbo zachikhalidwe, melodrama, masewera ... ndi iye. Amakondana monga chizoloŵezi, chilakolako, monga kulima ziweto zonyansa. Anthu oterewa amatha kukondana, pokhala paubwenzi wabwino. Adzakhala ndi moyo wosiyana, kukhala osiyana "Ine" ndipo sadzakhala amodzi. Nthawi zina anthu amachita zinthu motero, adathawa mozizwitsa pangozi yachikondi. Amazoloŵerana mumsinkhu wa anthu, kumwa mowa tsiku la Valentine, kawirikawiri ndi mabwenzi abwino ndikuwombera mwamsanga pamene mawu akuti "Ndimakukonda" atapachika pamwamba. Ubale woterewu ndi wofanana ndi matenda a hepatosis, pamene munthu akuzindikira kuti izi ndi zolakwika, koma amayesera kuzichotsa kunja. Kenaka amasankha kusiya zonse monga momwe ziliri ndikudikirira mpaka zikhazikike zokha. Apo pakubwera nthawi pamene mabala a mtima akale ali ndi nekrotvotochat ndipo moyo uli wodzazidwa ndi malingaliro atsopano, monga mpweya wa mpweya wabwino kapena madzi ozizira pambuyo pa chilala.
Chikondi-chameleon
Maganizo amenewa ndi osamvetsetseka komanso osakayikira. Othandizana amadziwana, koma osati kudziwa zomwe angayembekezere wina ndi mzake mumphindi wotsatira. Amakangana, koma sizingatheke. Pamene ayesa kufotokoza chifukwa chake ali pamodzi, sapeza mawu olondola. Iwo samamvetsa chomwe chimamangiriza iwo palimodzi, koma komabe, iwo akuwopa kuswa kugwirizana uku.
Tikukhulupirira kuti powerenga nkhaniyi, mwadziganizira nokha. Kodi muli pachibwenzi? Kodi mungatenge mtundu wanji?