Mzere Wanu
Njira yophweka yopanga banja ndi munthu kuchokera ku bwalo lanu. Kufanana kwa chikhalidwe, maphunziro ofanana, malingaliro ofanana pa moyo amathandiza kupeza chinenero chimodzi. Ndizosangalatsa kulankhula ndi munthu wabwino amene akumvetsa kuchokera ku theka-mawu. Zikuwoneka kuti munatha kukhazikitsa awiri abwino pazinthu zonse. Komabe, ngakhale kugwirizana ndi nthawi kungakhale kochepa kwambiri. Chitsanzo chochititsa chidwi ndi banja la anthu olemekezeka komanso olemera omwe sakhala osangalala.
Chikondi ndi ulemu
Simungathe kulamulira mtima. M'dziko lamakono lotseguka, maubwenzi nthawi zambiri amamangirizana pakati pa anthu osiyana kwambiri. Kulimbana kosalekeza pakati pa fizikiya ndi oimba nyimbo kumapezeka m'banja. Wina amavomereza ballet ndipo amawerenga ndakatulo, ndipo wina asanatengere ndalamazo ndikuyesa bajeti, ndipo madzulo amaletsa crossword puzzles. Kodi mungapeze bwanji nkhani zomwe zimagwirizana pazokambirana? Kodi mungauze bwanji zakukhosi kwanu? Kupyolera mu chikondi, kuleza mtima ndi kulemekeza maganizo a wina. Pezani kumvetsetsa mu ubalewu. Kuti mukule banja lokongola, mukufunikira nthawi. Poyamba, zizolowezi ndi zilakolako za munthu wina zimatha kukwiyitsa komanso kudabwa. Koma inunso muli ndi "chips" zanu, zachilendo kwa osankhidwa. Musati muphunzitsenso wina ndi mzake, khalani nokha. Pitani ku zojambulajambula kapena muwononge malo ogulitsa ndipo mukhoza ndi anzanu. Ndipo ndi nsanja yanu, mutengere chinthu china, choyenera kwambiri kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Zosafanana ndizophatikiza
Ndizosatheka kupeza munthu yemwe adzakhale chiwonetsero chanu chonse. Padzakhala nthawi zina zosagwirizana. Choonadi chimangobwera kokha pakutsutsana. Pamene anthu amaganiza mofanana, sangathe kuthetsa ntchito zovuta. Amatha kuphonya mfundo zofunika zomwe zimawonekera kwa anthu omwe ali ndi maganizo osiyana pa moyo. Ndikofunika kuyang'ana zinthu ndi zochitika kuchokera pazosiyana. Koma kutsutsana sikuyenera kukhala mkangano. Kuphatikizana ndi chinsinsi chokhazikitsa awiri abwino.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo adanena kuti maanja amene akhala pamodzi zaka zingapo akusintha zofuna zawo. Anthu mosamvetsetsana amasintha wina ndi mzake. Thupi la moyo limasintha, zatsopano zowonongeka zimayamba, ngakhalenso gastronomic predilections amasintha. Kwa aliyense m'banja, pakapita nthawi, dziko latsopano limatsegulidwa. Poyamba - zachilendo ndi zodabwitsa. Ndipo pambuyo - zosangalatsa, kupulumutsa kuchokera ku chizoloŵezi. Zoonadi, moyo umatsitsimutsidwa ndi abwenzi atsopano ndi abwenzi, mabwenzi atsopano. Kulowa mu ubale ndi munthu wosiyana, pang'onopang'ono timatsegula mbali zambiri za moyo wake. Moyo umakhala mndandanda wochititsa chidwi, wotambasula kwa zaka zambiri, komabe umakondweretsa komanso umakondweretsa.
Chimodzi mwa zinsinsi za banja loyenera ndi kuyerekezera malingaliro anu mtsogolo. Ndikofunika kudziwa zoyenera, zolinga ndi njira zowonjezera. Pezani maganizo anu pa banja, kupumula, moyo, kunyumba. Kodi chiyembekezo cha akatswiri ndi chiyani? Kodi maloto anu obisika ndi zina zotero ndi ziti? Kumvetsetsa zolinga ndi zolinga kudzakuthandizani kuthandizana wina ndi mzake komanso kulimbikitsa zolinga. Ndipo ndi bwino kukhala ndi zolinga zofanana. Mwachitsanzo, tenga gulu la ana, kumanga nyumba, kudzala munda. Muyenera kusiya gawo la zolinga zanu chifukwa cha maloto odziwika.
Maganizo a achibale ndi abwenzi
Kawirikawiri chifukwa cha mikangano sichikugwirizanitsa banja, koma mavuto a achibale ndi abwenzi. Tsoka ilo, makolo nthawi zambiri amachitira nsanje ana awo kwa wokondedwa wawo. Anecdotes za apongozi awo ndi apongozi awo adzakhala oyenera nthawi zonse. Pachifukwa ichi, udindo waukulu umawonetsedwa ndi chitsulo cha mtsikana (kapena chibwenzi), omwe makolo ake amayamba mikangano. Msungwanayo ayenera kunena momveka bwino kuti izi ndizo kusankha kwake, ndipo sadzalekerera kusokonezeka kwakukulu pamoyo wake. Ngakhale ngati ndi kholo kapena bwenzi lapamtima. Inde, kusankha kotereku sikungatheke kuthetsa vutoli. Makolo amalingalira ana osadzifunira komanso ali ndi tsitsi la imvi. Koma mnzanuyo adzawona kuti amatanthauzanso zambiri kwa inu. Nthawi zambiri mikangano yotsutsana imathetsedwa ndi kuseketsa ndi chisomo.
Pangani banja loyenera, musakane makolo, achibale ndi abwenzi mwanjira iliyonse. Yesetsani kupeza chiyanjano osati mkati mwa anthu awiri okha, komanso m'madera ozungulira.