Ndipo bwanji ngati mukukayikira chikondi cha theka lachiwiri?
Zikatero, timachita mwanjira yathu. Wina amayamba kutsata theka lawo, wina amangokhala chete mumatcha "rag", ndipo wina amayesera kulankhula ...
Kawirikawiri, theka lachikazi la anthu sali otsimikizika la anthu omwe amakonda, chifukwa amuna amatha kugonana mozama! Amuna mwa iwo okha amangokhalira kukayikira umunthu, ngakhale ali ndi "pakati pa miyendo yawo." Kulimbana ndi amuna, kusadziwika kwawo sikukuyesa kubisa chibwibwi mu chiyanjano ndikudziwonetsera mopanda pake komanso zosafunikira (nsanje, ndikusintha kumanzere ndi kulondola, musapange mphatso zomwe zimalandira panthawi ya chiyanjano, komanso patatha zaka zambiri mukukhala limodzi). Gawo lachimuna liri lachikazi kuti ilo liwopsyeze. Amakayikira chikondi cha theka lachiwiri ndikudziyesa okha.
Mungathe kulingalira zomwe zikuchitika mukakayikira chikondi cha theka lina ndi mbali inayo. Nchifukwa chiyani pali kuwonongeka kwa amuna ndi akazi? Akazi ndi amwano komanso ofanana ndi amuna omwe simungathe kumuuza mwamuna kapena mkazi. Pankhaniyi, msungwana (mkazi) ali ndi deta yomwe mwamuna wamwamuna aliyense amasangalala ndipo pali kusintha kwa makhalidwe ena.
Tikuopa kupititsa patsogolo kunyada kwathu, pamene ndikofunikira ndithu, tikakayikira chikondi cha theka lathu lachiwiri.
Munthu aliyense ali ndi zoyenera zake. Kodi zimakhudza bwanji kufufuza kwa theka lanu lachiwiri? Kodi timayamba bwanji kufunsa kuchokera ku theka lathu zomwe taika muyeso lathu? Inu mukhoza pambuyo pa zonse kupanga zosokoneza. Kawirikawiri chifukwa cha kuuma kwake ndi kunyada, timayamba kutsutsana, kufunafuna zinthu zopanda pake. Pambuyo pake, palibe chidaliro mwa wokondedwa wanu, ndipo simunakayikire chikondi chake.
Ngati tiyang'ana m "mene mwachitsanzo, zotsatirazi zikuchitika: mnyamata ndi mtsikana akuganiza zokwatira, ndilo tsiku loyembekezeredwa kwa amayi ambiri, koma nthawi zambiri anthu akamaganizira izi, amatchedwa" kuswa "! Izi ndizo chiyambi cha kusatetezeka mwa inu nokha, musakhulupirire wokondedwa wanu ndi zina zotero.
Zikatero, ndikuganiza, zofanana ndizofunika kutsimikiza kuti ubalewo ndi wotsimikiza kuti simukukayikira chikondi cha theka lachiwiri. N'zotheka kuchita izi m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Pali pulogalamu yamapulogalamu yakanema ngati "Mtengo Wokhulupirika", koma ambiri kumeneko amakhala ambiri. Ngati mukufunadi kutsimikiza, ndiye kuti mukhoza kupita kumeneko. Chofunika cha mapulogalamuwa ndi chakuti wokondedwa wanu amakonza cheke. Mwachitsanzo, uyu ndi mtsikana. Mumakambirana naye za msonkhano pa nthawi inayake pa hotelo, ndipo pamene nthawiyo ifika, itanani ndikuti mudzakhala kanthawi. Mwachibadwa, mtsikanayo amakhalabe ndipo akupitirizabe kukhala mu cafe. Patapita kanthawi, mnyamata wina yemwe ali pulogalamu ya pa TV yam'mbuyo akukhala patebulo ndipo iwe uli muofesi ndikuyang'ana zomwe zidzachitike.
Ndipo pali kusiyana pakati. Ngati mtsikana samamwa chilichonse, ndiye kuti akhoza kungopeka ndi wina watsopano ndikumupatsa nambala yake ya foni ... Sizowopsa kwambiri, komabe akafunsidwa ngati ali ndi mnyamata ndipo amayankha "Ayi" ndiye chirichonse chimakhala chowonekera, ndipo ndikuganiza kuti mtsikanayo sangapereke mayeso. Pali zovuta kwambiri pamene mzimayiyo ayamba kulankhula ndi mnyamatayo, ndiye amayamba kumwa, ndipo amavomereza kuti asapereke nambala yake ya foni, koma amavomereza kuti akakumanenso ndi munthu uyu, ichi ndi chinachake chimene nthawi yomweyo amavomereza naye, mwachitsanzo, kuti amuchezere.
Choncho, chifukwa cha mapulogalamu amenewa, mukhoza kuyang'ana mnzanuyo ndikukhala ndi chidaliro chonse, pokhapokha ngati zitatha ndi zotsatira zabwino). Simudzakhalanso kukayikira chikondi cha theka lachiwiri.
Ngati mumaganiza kuti ndiza mtengo wapatali kuti muwonere TV, ndiye kuti mukhoza kusewera nokha.
Ziri zophweka mosavuta: mutumiza mnzanu wabwino kuti adziwane ndi bwenzi lanu, ndipo muli pafupi nawo, ndipo penyani mwakachetechete zomwe zikuchitika!
Ine, mwachitsanzo, ndikukhulupirira kuti kudalira ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri pamoyo pamodzi ndipo simukukayikira chikondi cha theka lina. Koma, monga momwe amachitira kale, muyenera kupeza chikhulupiriro chanu, ndipo sizili zophweka!
Choyamba, muyenera kudzionetsetsa nokha ndikusankha zomwe mukufunikira pamoyo uno, ndiyeno mufunitseni maganizo omwewo kuchokera kwa okondedwa anu! Zakhala ziri nthawi zonse ndipo zidzakhala zofunika. Yesetsani kuyankhula kawirikawiri kwa okondedwa anu za momwe mumamvera, pitirizani nthawi yambiri, ngati simukugwirizana ndi inu, nthawi zingapo patsiku, pamene mukulekana, mukufunikira!
Kotero, abwenzi okondedwa! Ndikukulangizani pachiyambi cha ubale uliwonse kuti mukhale oleza mtima, mutsimikizire nokha ndikumverera kwanu, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, kubweretserani akaunti pa foni yanu kwa miyezi iwiri yoyambirira kuti muwonetsetse chikondi cha theka lachiwiri! Umu ndi mmene mungapambulitsire wokondedwa wanu.