Malamulo a moyo wa banja

Mwinamwake izi zimadabwitse wina, koma moyo waukwati si wophweka momwe ukuwonekera. Sikoyenera kokha kukonzekera ukwati, koma nkofunikanso kumvetsetsa kuti moyo wa banja ndi ntchito ya tsiku ndi tsiku kuti anthu awiri azigwirizana mogwirizana, kugwirizana, wina ndi mnzake, masomphenya a udindo wawo m'banja latsopano komanso kumanga machitidwe awo m'banja . Nazi malamulo angapo omwe agogo athu amatsatira kuti asamapikisane m'banja ndipo apitirize kukwatirana kwa zaka zambiri. Ndichifukwa chake tinakhala pamodzi zaka zambiri!

1. Zilembedwe za banja zimayamba ndi liwu lakuti "ife".
Mwamuna kapena mkazi wake ayenera kusokoneza "I" awo ndi onse kuti awone, achite ndi kumanga miyoyo yawo kuchokera ku "WE" udindo. Kusunga lamuloli kudzawonjezera kwambiri moyo wa banja ndi chimwemwe, kumvetsetsa, chisangalalo.

2. Yambani kubwereza zabwino.
Mukachita ntchito yabwino, yesetsani kuchita zabwino kwa mnzanuyo, kwa banja lanu. Idzadzaza ndi chimwemwe osati okhawo amene zabwinozo zachitika, komanso omwe amachita zabwino.

3. Siyani mu mkwiyo.
Ulamuliro wanzeru - usamafulumize kukatsanulira mkwiyo, kuganiza, kumvetsetsa mkhalidwe, kumvetsetsa ndikukhululukira mnzanuyo.

4. Mukumenyana kulikonse, musamangamize mnzanuyo (y), koma yang'anani chifukwa chake mwa inu nokha.
Maganizo achinsinsi kwambiri komanso ozama kwambiri. Mwachidziwitso, pokhapokha kugwirizana pakati pa okwatirana ndi zochitika zenizeni, nthawi zonse zimakhala zolakwa, ndipo ngati zolakwika zinachitika kuti mmodzi mwa anthu okwatirana aziimba mlandu, ndiye kuti zolakwikazo zakhala zikukonzekedwa ndi mnzanuyo.

5. Gawo lirilonse likulozera ndi lofanana ndi masiku ambiri achimwemwe, sitepe iliyonse kuchoka ku banja, kuchokera kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi - mpaka masiku ambiri owawa.
M'mabanja achichepere, nthawi zambiri zimachitika mosiyana - awiriwa amakangana, ndipo palibe omwe akufuna kuti ayambe kutsogolo, kuyembekezera wina kuti achite. Ndipo nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kwambiri: kuchita motsatira mfundo yakuti "munandichitira ine choipa, koma ndikukuipirani," monga akunena kuti "Dzino kulipira dzino." Zonsezi ndiye zimayambitsa kusamvana kwakukulu m'banja.

6. Mawu abwino ndi abwino, koma ntchito yabwino ndi yabwino.
Inde, paliponse ntchito yabwino ndi yabwino kuposa mawu abwino. Koma mu ubale wa banja, nthawizina mawu abwino amatanthawuza zosachepera ntchito yabwino. Mwa njira, sikuti "mkazi amakonda makutu," mwamuna amafunikanso kumva kuvomerezedwa kwa mkazi, kutamandidwa, komanso, kuti ndi amene amamukonda kwambiri.

7. Kukhala wokhoza kutenga malo a wina, koma woyenera kupirira yekha payekha.
Udindo wa zochita zako, kuvomereza kugonjetsedwa, kulakwa kwa munthu ndi luso lomwe silinabwere lokha, liyenera kukhala moleza mtima ndi mosalekeza kuyambira nthawi ya ubwana.

8. Yemwe samadzikhulupirira yekha sakhulupirira.
Maubale apabanja amamangidwa pa kudalirana wina ndi mnzake. Ndikofunika kukhala ndi chikhumbo chokhalabe ndi chidaliro ichi, kuti chikhale choyenera.

9. Khalani bwenzi la amzake (abwenzi ake), ndiye abwenzi anu adzakhala mabwenzi ake.

10. Palibe amene akufuna kukonda apongozi ake ndi apongozi ake, koma okonzeka kukonda amayi awiri.