Momwe munganene chikondi

Zachitika kuti nkhani zoterezi zikuwonekera pazomwe zikuchitika pa tsiku la okondedwa. Koma kodi kuzindikira mu chikondi kumangokhalira kumveka 1 nthawi pachaka? Ndipotu, kupulumutsa moto wachikondi mumafunika kudyetsa nthawi zonse. Kodi "mafuta" adzakhala otani? Inde, mungathe kunena tsiku lililonse mawu akuti: "Ndimakukondani" kapena mumaphunzira mawu awa m'zinenero 89. Monga tanthawuzo la chimodzi, koma nthawizonse zimakhala zosiyana. Koma awa onse ndi mawu okha, palibe kenanso. Inde ndithu, poyamba wokondedwa wanu adzakondwera. Koma zonsezi zimakhala "zowawa" msanga. Pamene mawu omveka bwino a malingaliro athu ndi zochita zathu, sichoncho? Kotero, tiyeni tiyankhebe funso lofunika "Momwe munganene za chikondi?".
Sambani mbale (pansi, galimoto, mipando). Mumangopita mwakachetechete ku khitchini, tembenuzani madzi ndikupukuta manja anu, muyambe kuchita ntchito zina. Zothandiza komanso zophweka. Njira yofanana ndi nkhani zina zapakhomo, zomwe mukuona kuti sizosangalatsa.

Konzekerani chipinda (nyumba, galimoto, mitengo ya Khirisimasi kwa chaka chatsopano) ndi mipira (zisudzo za Khirisimasi, zithunzi zabwino, zojambula, ndi zina zotero). Nthawi yomweyo kudabwa kumeneku kumabweretsa chisangalalo. Ndipo zolembedwa pa mipira "Ndimakukondani!" Simukusowa ndemanga.

Perekani mphatso. Osati kulemekeza holide iliyonse kapena nthawi. Koma mphatsoyo iyenera kulakalaka. Pambuyo pake, muvomerezana, pamene mupatsidwa zomwe mwakhala mukudikirira, mumalota bwino kwambiri. Ndizosangalatsa kwambiri kulandira mphatso kuchokera kwa wokondedwa. Koma chifukwa cha ichi muyenera kukhala osamala kwambiri, nthawi zonse mvetserani, kuti musaphonye pang'ono chabe mphatso.

Konzani gawo lachiwiri la chikhalidwe pamapeto a sabata kapena tchuthi. Ndibwino kupita limodzi ku filimu, masewera, kuntchito ku holo ya konsa. Kuyenda koteroko kumabweretsa pamodzi, koma ngati mutu wawonetsero ndi chikondi ...

Pamene mukuchezera (cinema, masewera, holo yamakonzedwe), yesani mpaka theka lachiwiri. Zochita zoterezi zikhoza kufotokoza malingaliro momveka bwino kusiyana ndi mawu okonda kwambiri. Ndipo ngati muli nokha, sipadzakhalanso zodabwitsa kuti mum'kumbatire kapena kumpsompsona wokondedwa wanu.

Dyetsa. Chokoma ndi chopatsa thanzi. Wokhutira ndi wokhutira theka lachiwiri adzalandira chiyero choyambirira ndipo panthawi imodzimodzi chidziwitso chophweka cha chikondi. Ndipo ngati ndi chakudya chimene simukuchikonda, ndipo theka lanu limakonda, ndiye kuyamikira sikudzakhala kosasintha.

Kodi zikumbutso kapena ntchito zotani zimalembera pamapepala pamtundu wa mtima. Kapena, m'malembawo, jambulani mitima yaying'ono. Theka lanu lina adzayamikira.

Konzekerani chomwe chimatchedwa "mphindi youma." Masangweji, patties kapena yogurt. Sikoyenera kuupereka mwayekha, mukhoza kuika mu thumba.

Pewani masewera a mpira ndi wokondedwa wanu. Ngakhale ngati ndi masewera omwe simumamvetsa chilichonse. Onetsetsani kuti mutaya maulendo angapo omwe mumakonda, choncho adakondwera.

Mukapita kukagona, onetsetsani kuti mumaphimba wokondedwa wanu mokometsera ndi bulangeti. Chitani chimodzimodzi m'mawa. Zimakhudza aliyense, ngakhale munthu wokayikira kwambiri.

Mukhozanso kugwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "Ndimakukondani" koma osawauza. Mwachitsanzo, lekani mawu awa kuchokera ku zipatso kapena zipatso zina. Kapena, konzekerani chakudya chokhala ngati mtima chodyera.

Sungani magulu onse mu nkhonya ndipo musapange ndemanga ndi zidzudzu. Mwinanso njira yovuta kwambiri, komanso yogwira mtima kwambiri. Pambuyo pa zonse, ngati simukuwona zofooka zilizonse mwa inu, ndiye kuti mukukondedwabe.

Ndipo, ndithudi, njira yotsimikiziridwa kwambiri ndiyo kunena zoyamikira. Zambiri mwachiwiri, yachiwiri yaulere. Kuyamikira kwanu sikuyenera kulunjika ku chinthu chimodzi chokha. Muyenera kutsindika zonse - chiwerengero, kukoma, dongosolo mu nyumba, khalidwe.

Chabwino, ndizo zonse! Ndikukhumba iwe chikondi chokongola ndi chokongola!