Chikondi chaulere - chikondi chaulere

Ufulu ndi mawu okoma. Nthawi yomweyo amawoneka mawotchi oyenda ndi maulendo otupa, manja opunduka, mapiko m'maso ndipo nthiti imatulutsa lilime. Pali madesiki a ndalama zaulere mu sitolo, yunifolomu ndi yunivesite yanu ndi malo mu tram. Kodi chikondi sichimasulidwa? Chikondi chaulere chopanda chikondi, ndicho cholowa cha a hippies. Zoonadi, iwo sanapange chilichonse, koma zowoneka kuti ndizochokera ku chikondi chenicheni: anthu omwe timakhala osangalala ndi caress yathu, zinthu zabwino kwambiri zidzakhala m'dziko lapansi. Aliyense amakonda aliyense, amakhala ndi moyo wopanda tsankho, nsanje ndi katundu! Mwachizoloŵezi, zikuwoneka ngati izi: Anthu awiri osadziwika amatha kusinthanitsa, kumwetulira wina ndi mzake ndikupita "kumanga chikondi", ndipo patapita masiku angapo achoka opanda tsankho ndi mkwiyo.

Kuzindikira lero kwa chikondi chaufulu kulibe kusiyana kwa maganizo a "ana a maluwa": kumayambiriro a kugonana popanda ntchito. Ndipo popanda chiyanjano cha uzimu, chimene chiri chikondi. Amayi ndi abambo athu ku funso "inu omwe, palimodzi?" Mukuchita maso opweteka ndikumanena kuti: "Inde ndizogonana, palibe munthu aliyense." Amabisa ndi kubisa maganizo tsopano, chifukwa iwo angakhale amanyazi, koma kukopa mwakuthupi - chabwino, chomwe mukuganiza, chiri ngati kudya. Mwa maonekedwe a emo, ndipo ali ndi iwo komanso chiyembekezo cha kubwezeretsa kumverera m'mafashoni :)

Iwe uli pafupi.

Chavuta ndi chiyani? Pa zochitika za "ufulu waufulu-chikondi", otsogolera nthawi zambiri amakhala anyamata, ndipo atsikana amapatsidwa udindo woyembekezera Penelope modzichepetsa. Pali zifukwa zambiri zowonongeka: mwachitsanzo, "Ndine munthu wopanga zinthu." Musakwiyitse, chifukwa vesi latsopano, lidzakusonyezani nokha!

N'chifukwa chiyani mukusowa. Mkwatibwi wokhayokha akhoza kukhala wododometsedwa ndi ubale wokhazikika wa "abwenzi" ndi ankhondo omwe ali ndi zochitika zowonongeka. Kodi ndinganene chiyani? Muyenera kumvetsetsa nokha ndi zikhumbo zanu. Ngakhale izi si zophweka, ndithudi. Ndi nkhani ina ngati mumavomereza kuti "Inde, tiyeni tizichita momasuka, mwa njira, ndinkakonda mtsikanayo kwa nthawi yaitali." Inu pamodzi mulibe chikondi chenicheni, koma ubwenzi. Kapena mwinamwake simuli wokonzeka kuvomereza kuti onse azirala ndipo sakondana wina ndi mzake?

Ndipo ngati mutenga mwayi? Pitirizani kukondana komanso kukondana ngati banja lanu liri ndi ufulu wa chikondi, zovuta kwambiri. Ziribe kanthu kuti mumasulidwa tsankho, inu ndi mnyamata wanu simuli mawu, kudziwa kuti usiku uliwonse milomo yake impsyopsyona ndi msungwana wina, ndipo, mwina, amakonda kupsompsona kuposa zanu.

Julia Sobolevskaya , makamaka pa malowa