Anthu ambiri amakonda kutenga maloto awo. Ndipo pali chifukwa china cha izi, popeza maloto, monga lamulo, ali ndi chitsimikizo chenichenicho. Komabe, musawope ngati usiku uno "mutakhala" m'manja mwa bwana wodanayo, kapena poyipa, "mudayenda mumsewu mumsungwana ...
Mungathe kukhala chete chifukwa cha mbiri yanu! Ma Psychoanalysts amati: mwamtheradi mkazi aliyense akhoza kugonana mu loto, zomwe zikutanthauza chinthu chimodzi chokha - ali wathanzi. Maloto a chikhalidwe chosasangalatsa sizitsimikizo za kunyenga ndi zonyansa, koma amangowonetsera kwa anthu olemera omwe amaganiza ndi kukula kwa munthu. Kuonjezera apo, sikuti maloto onse okhudzana ndi zochitika zokhudzana ndi kugonana amachokera pazochitika zogonana.
Mosiyana ndi chikhulupiliro chofala, izi zodabwitsa za usiku zokhudzana ndi kugonana zimakhala zosawerengeka kusiyana ndi za atsikana akale komanso "nsalu za buluu." Maloto osadabwitsa ndi olimba mtima, omwe angakhale oyenerera kukhala osokonezeka kapena osokonezeka, amatsimikiziridwa zonsezi, zenizeni ndi chizindikiro chakuti wolotayo ali ndi mavuto ena. Izi zikhoza kukhala kusakhutira mmalo mwachitukuko, mavuto ndi kudzidalira, ndi achibale kapena ogwira nawo ntchito. Mumoyo weniweni, mavutowa sangakhalepo, kapena munthu sakufuna kuziganizira, amakonda, ngati nthiwatiwa, kubisa mutu wake mumchenga. Ndipo mu maloto, pamene chikumbumtima chimasulidwa ku goli lachizoloŵezi, zokhumudwitsa zathu zonse ndi zolinga zomwe sitikuzidziwa zimachokera. Choncho ndibwino kukumbukira maloto anu osakondweretsa, kuti muwaganizire mozama kwambiri tsikulo.
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Amayi ena nthawi zonse amagonana m'maloto ndi olemekezeka osiyanasiyana. Ndiye mudzakhala ndi chibwenzi ndi mkulu wotchuka wa filimu ndi mawonekedwe a March cat, ndipo mwadzidzidzi solo ya gulu lotchuka popota idzalota, wandale wotchuka wodziwika bwino kapena wotulutsa TV ... Sikumakhala moyo wausiku, koma filimu yosangalatsa ya kanema!
Zoonadi, kuyandikana ndi umunthu wina kumawoneka kawirikawiri ndi amayi achichepere - zolengedwa zachikondi zoterezi, akuyamba kuzindikira za kugonana kwawo. Atatopa ndi malingaliro ndi malingaliro osadziwika, amayamba kufunafuna chinthu choyenera. Koma pakati pa anzanu apamtima, monga lamulo, izi siziri. Ndiyeno mu masomphenya a usiku ndi abwino kwa mwamuna wangwiro. Zokongola ndi zosatheka. Ndipo zosatheka pa nkhaniyi ndi zothandiza kwambiri: ndi mtundu wa inshuwalansi pa zokhumudwitsa zokhumudwitsa zomwe zikuyembekezera chikondi chenicheni.
Ngati maloto amenewa akuchezeredwa ndi mkazi wachikulire, izi zimalankhula za kudzidzimutsa kwake komanso kusakhoza kulankhulana ndi anyamata, kapena chifukwa cha kusatetezeka kwake mu chikoka chake chachikazi. Funso lachilengedwe lingayambe: "Ndiye bwanji akudziwona yekha m'maloto ndi zabwino kwambiri? "Ndi zophweka: palibe chomwe chimakongoletsa mkazi ngati mwamuna akuyenda pafupi ndi iye. (Mwachidule, kodi msodzi ndi wotani?) Mchitidwe umenewu umayambitsa chikhalidwe chofanana chimene chimayang'ana mkazi osati molingana ndi zofunikira zake, koma kuchokera pa udindo wa mwamuna wake kapena wokonda. Kotero, "kukhumba mu chilakolako" ndi wotchuka, mkazi - mosadziŵa! - kuyesera kukonza kudzidalira kwawo. Izi zikutanthawuza kuti maganizo ake amaika chizindikiro chofanana pakati pa iye mwini ndi mnzake "nyenyezi".
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Maloto omwe mkazi amachititsa chikondi ndi bwenzi lake lapamtima, wogwira naye ntchito kapena watsopano, simungakhoze kuwayitana mokondweretsa. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, malotowo, kumverera kumakhala kokondweretsa, koma kenako ... Kulemba macheza a m'mawa a usiku, ambiri amatulutsa thukuta lozizira ndipo, potayika zodzikweza, funsani funso lovulaza kuti: "Inde ndine ...?"
Khalani pansi, simunzanu ogonana nawo. Mwinamwake, njala yothandizira, ndiko kuti, kusowa kwa thupi, kugwira mofatsa, kukonzedwa koresses ndi kumvetsetsa kumodzi ndi mnzanu, kukupangitsani inu kuzipatsa usiku. Nthawi zina, ngati palibe chiyanjano cha uzimu, zingakhale zovuta kuti mkazi avomereze kwa mwamuna wake kuti amayembekezera kuchokera kwa iye osati pa maubwenzi omwe adzizoloŵera. Mwachitsanzo, iye amalota kugonana, ndipo ndi wotsutsa kwambiri "zopitirira" zoterezi.
Kusakhutitsidwa kwa kugonana, chilakolako chokumva zowawa zomwe sizingatheke m'moyo weniweni, kupita kudera losadziŵa kanthu, amasandulika kukhala zithunzi zosayembekezereka. Chikondi ndi chikondi, monga lamulo, zimagwirizana ndi chikhalidwe chachikazi, choncho wokondedwayo amatenga mwadzidzidzi mawonekedwe achikazi. Ndipo mogwira mtima kupeza zofunikira za thupi lachikazi, amapereka mwayi wowona "mlengalenga mu diamondi yamabuluu."
Kuti muchitire zomwezo moona, yesetsani kufotokoza za ulendo wanu wa usiku kupita ku chilumba cha Lesbos kwa wokondedwa wanu. Mwinamwake izi zidzamuthandiza kuti azikhala omvetsera, omvera komanso wofatsa.
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Ngati mumalota nthawi ndi nthawi kuti mukugonana ndi nyama - mkango, galu wamkulu, chimbalangondo, ndi zina zotero, izi sizingatheke kuti mutha kudziona kuti ndinu wosokonezeka. Mwinamwake, sizinachitike nkomwe kwa inu kuyesa zofanana zofanana. Ndipo izi ndi zomveka, chifukwa chiyambi cha malotowo sichikugonana koma kugwirizanitsa maganizo. Kuwona kuti nyamayo imachita udindo wa munthu m'maloto kumatsimikizira kuti mkaziyo alibe mantha chifukwa cha "amuna okhwima, achiwawa". Ndi izi mu kuya kwa moyo wake kuti amalingalira oimira onse osagonana. N'zotheka kuti malingaliro oterewa adayamba mu ubwana pansi pa mphamvu ya bambo wolimba komanso wouza mtima (kapena amayi, omwe ankakonda kubwereza kuti anthu onse ali ndi chilakolako choyipa ndi zovuta).
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Ngati muli mu loto lopanda chilakolako chachikulu ndi munthu wosadziwika omwe nkhope zake zinalibe ngakhale nthawi yoyenera kuona, izi sizikutanthauza kuti ndinu mayi wodetsa nkhawa, wofufuza za zovuta zambiri. Ayi ndithu! Mu moyo, mumamatira kumakhalidwe abwino, penyani kutali pamene chinachake "chinachake" chikuwonekera pa kanema, ndipo ngakhale mwamuna amene munakhala naye kwa zaka khumi, musalole "zopanda pake". Ndipo mwadzidzidzi - pa inu!
Pakadali pano, chochitika cha X X chimachitika si ngozi. Ili ndi nthawi yosinkhasinkha ngati simukumamatira ku chilengedwe chanu, malingaliro enieni ndi zilakolako chifukwa cha tsankho loyera? Mwinamwake kuli koyenera kupumula pang'ono, kusiya kugonana kwanu ndipo osadzifunsa nokha funso lokhazikika: "Kodi mwamuna wanga angaganize bwanji za ine?"
Kumbukirani, ndi mlendo usiku chirichonse chinali chosiyana. Inu mumadziwa kuti simudzamutsananso. Mu mkhalidwe uwu, zotsatira za woyenda mnzako amagwira ntchito. Ndipo ngati mutayesa kumasulira malotowo kukhala chenicheni? Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kupita panjira yonse, yesetsani kukhala nokha ndi mwamuna wanu wokondedwa ponena kuti ndinu mayi wabwino, mkazi wabwino komanso mkazi wabwino. Dzidzimvere nokha mkazi - wodekha, wokondweretsa, wonyengerera. Kumbukirani momwe munagonana mu maloto, kodi izi zikutanthauzanji kwa inu, munamva bwanji? Mwinamwake moonadi chinachake chikukuyembekezerani kwambiri kuposa mu maloto.
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Kodi mukukumbukira kachilombo ka paka, kamene kanadandaula kuti tsiku lomwelo dzulo mu chipinda cham'mwamba iye adagwiriridwa ndi "wina wodandaula"? Tsiku lotsatira chinthu chomwecho chinachitika kachiwiri. "Lero ine ndidzapitanso ..." iye anati ndi kumwetulira kochititsa manyazi.
Pano pali mkazi yemwe akulota kuti akugwiriridwa, osadziŵa kuti akulota maloto oterowo. Chifukwa chakuti mizu yake imakhala yolimba kwambiri m'kuletsa kugonana. Kodi iye anachokera kuti? Mwinamwake, ali mwana wamng'ono, anamva za "wamkulu" akukamba za kuti "dothi" lonseli silingakope mkazi wabwino. Kapena mayiyo analangiza kuti msungwana wabwino asamayang'ane anyamata ndipo nthawi zambiri amasonyeza chidwi ndi "malo ochititsa manyazi" a moyo.
Khalidwe lachilengedwe, ndiko kuti, pamene mkazi saopa kufotokoza malingaliro ake, asonyeze zoyesayesa ndi kupeza zosangalatsa za kugonana, zikuwoneka kuti ndizochiwerewere ndi zosaloleka kupyolera mu ndende ya zoletsedwa zonsezi. Ndiyeno, poyesera kudzisokoneza yekha, mkazi amayamba kufunafuna chinthu chimene angagwire mbalame ziwiri ndi mwala umodzi: kuti adzichotsere pa udindo pa zomwe zikuchitika ndi kusangalala ndi kugonana.
MAFUNSO A NOVEL
Kuyanjana ndi bwana wanu ndi chimodzi mwa nkhani zofala kwambiri. Ngati bwana ndi munthu wokondweretsa, zingakhale bwino kuti malotowa akupitilirabe zofuna zanu zamasana ndi zosangalatsa. Ngati iye ali munthu wochuluka kwambiri ndi makhalidwe a woipayo ndi wolamulira wotsutsa, ndi bwino kuyang'ana fungulo kuti azindikiritse zochitika zake za usiku pakati pa zochitika zake zamseri.
Kodi mukuganiza kuti malo anu akufanana ndi zomwe mumayeneradi? Kodi malonda anu amalonda amayamikira? Kodi mukukhutira ndi udindo wanu? N'zotheka kunena ndi mwayi waukulu kuti ndinu munthu wofuna kwambiri, ndikudziwa bwino zomwe mukufuna. Koma mpaka pano simunapambane pokwaniritsa zolinga zanu. N'zotheka kuti pazifukwazi mumatha kugwiritsa ntchito osati njira yolondola.
Si chinsinsi chomwe chiyanjano ndi bwana chimalola kuti "wokondedwa" akhale ndi udindo wapadera mu timu ndikusunthira ntchitoyo. Maloto anu, ndithudi, sizikutanthauza kuti mwakonzeka kutembenuza chikondi cha chikondi kuchokera pazinthu zokha za ntchito. Koma chikumbumtima chanu chayamba kufufuza njira zopitilira kukwaniritsa zolinga zamakono.
Zingamve zachilendo kuti maloto amenewa nthawi zambiri amawachezera ndi amayi omwe sangathe kulekerera abwana awo. Ndizosayembekezereka kuti iwo azigonana mu loto, zomwe zikutanthawuza kusonyeza chifundo kapena ngakhale kukhudzana ndi chinthu chomwe amadana nazo. Izi zikufotokozedwa ndi chikhumbo chobisika chobwezeretsa pa wozunzika, kumuwona iye wofooka ndi wopanda chitetezo. Mkhalidwe, pamene wamaliseche ali mu mphamvu zake zonse, zikugwirizana ndi izi komanso momwe zingathere.