Kodi nkhondoyo ingakhale bwanji?
Ngati palibe chochita, koma muli ndi mtima wamkati womwe mukukonzekera nkhondo, ndiye mumoyo weniweni muyenera kukhala okonzekera kukambirana kofunika kapena msonkhano umene ungasinthe kwambiri.
Kuchokera ku chikhalidwe choyambirira, kuti muwone pozungulira nkhondo, ziribe kanthu kuti ndizochitika zakale zotani, zikutanthauza kuti posachedwa mudzakangana ndi wina.
Nkhondo ya atomiki, ngakhale kuti imawoneka ngati yosavuta kulota, koma chirichonse chogwirizana nacho chimasonyeza kuti chikumbumtima chanu chikukutumizirani inu zizindikiro: mwachita choipa ndipo simungachibisire.
Kukhala nawo mbali mwachindunji pa nkhondo kumatchula mavuto a zachuma. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, zochitika zosakondweretsa zomwe zingasokoneze chikhulupiriro chanu mdziko. Yesetsani kupanga zosankha mosamala ndikuletsa maganizo. Kulimbana kwakukulu kwambiri mu maloto - ndikovuta kuti zochita zanu ziweruzidwe ndipo muyenera kupita mumthunzi kwa kanthawi.
Ngati mtsikana wamng'ono alota kuti wokondedwa wake amapita ku nkhondo, ndiye posachedwa, akhoza kutsegula khalidwe lake kukhala khalidwe losasangalatsa. Ndipo kwa akazi okwatira, maloto okhudza nkhondo akhoza kunenedweratu ndi mikangano ndi kusagwirizana m'banja.
Palinso kumasulira kwakukulu kwa malotowo. Kuwona kuti dziko lanu linatayika mu nkhondo limatanthauza kuti muzinthu zeniyeni pangakhale kukangana kapena kusintha.
Kutanthauzira kuchokera ku mabuku osiyanasiyana a loto
Miller
Malingana ndi bukhuli lotolo, kuyang'ana nkhondo kuchokera kumbali kumatanthauza kuti posachedwa mungayambe kusagwirizana m'banja ndi mavuto kuntchito. Kukula kwakukulu kokangana ndi bwana. Kugonjetsa nkhondo ndiko kukonzanso mchitidwe wogwira ntchito ndikulimbikitsa mgwirizano wa banja. Koma ngati mwawona kugonjetsedwa kwa dziko lanu m'maloto, konzekerani kuti zochitika zandale zenizeni zidzakhalanso zodzaza ndipo dziko limene mukukhala lidzakhala losasunthika chifukwa cha kusintha kwa malo ovomerezeka.
Vanga
Amakhulupirira kuti maloto okhudza nkhondo ndi mtundu wochenjeza kuti nthawi zovuta zimafika kwa anzanu onse. Wowona amachitira nkhondo m'maloto mwachidule. Zingabweretse mavuto aakulu kwa anthu, makamaka kwa achinyamata, ndipo angayambitse njala.
Ngati muli nawo nkhondo, ndiye kuti banja lanu lidzakumana ndi mavuto ena. Koma ngakhale mutayesera kubisala, ndipo simunapambane, ichi ndi chizindikiro choipa. Posakhalitsa, tsoka likhoza kuchitika m'banja lanu. Mwinanso mudzatayika wina pafupi.
Buku la Muslim dream dreams
Ilo limanena kuti kuwona momwe anthu akumudzi akulimbana ndi mdani kumatanthauza kuti muzowona mzinda uwu posachedwa udzayamba kuvutika chifukwa cha kusoŵa kwa chakudya.
Ngati nkhondo ikutsogoleredwa ndi mfumu kapena mtsogoleri wina, posachedwapa mlota ndipo anthu ake onse adzakhala mwamtendere ndi mwamtendere. Kuthawa ku nkhondo kumalonjeza chimwemwe m'mbali zonse za moyo.
Kukhala pankhondo kumalonjeza zinthu zosayembekezereka. Zidzakhudza, choyamba, theka lanu lachiwiri. Mwina mungapeze mbali yatsopano ya khalidwe la munthu uyu, lomwe lingakudabwitseni modabwitsa. Koma ngati mwawona kuti mudapambana pa nkhondo - ndiye izi ndizo zabwino. Inu mukhoza kumvetsa ndi kuvomereza wokondedwa ndi zofooka zake zonse.