Mwamuna wosakwatira, momwe angasamalire mmbulu umodzi?

Mwamuna wopanda mwamuna amatanthauza mwamuna wosakwatiwa. Poyamba ndikuwona kuti zili choncho. Koma, pamene titi: "Ah, iye ndi bachelor," timatanthawuza kuti: "Eya, iye ndi mwana wamasiye! Mwamuna amene amakonda akazi komanso ufulu wake. " Chikondi chimenechi amagawira mofanana. Ndipo samva zowawa pamene aikidwa patsogolo pa kusankha kuti apereke chinachake pambali pa winayo.

Boma loumitsa ndi munthu wokhoza kuphunzira za ukwati komanso zochitika zina zapakhomo kuntchito kuchokera kwa anzake pamene akusonkhanitsa ndalama za mphatso ina yaukwati. Amatha kukonzekera saladi ndi kuphika supu, ndipo malinga ndi izi amadziona kuti ndi wokhutira. Mnyamata akufanana ndi atsikana ku mpira, kusodza, masewera, osati ku mawu akuti "udindo", "ntchito" ndi "malingaliro".

Kwa ena, "bachelorhood" ndi mkhalidwe wa malingaliro. Iye ndi wolf yekha. Ndi yokha. Moyo wanga, malo anga amoyo, zolinga zanga, ufulu wanga ... Mndandanda umapitirirabe.

Ngati tikamba za odwala, akhoza kugawa m'magulu angapo:

1. Amuna amene sanakwatiranepo (ndipo sichidalira zaka), samadziwa chomwe chiri, koma ndithudi ndi chisanu pakamwa, amati ukwati ndi chinthu choopsa kwambiri chomwe chingachitike m'moyo. Amapitiriza kupeŵa maubwenzi ochepa kwambiri. Mwina chifukwa chokhumudwitsidwa ndi kale?

2. Amuna amene kale anali "odandaula". Mkwatibwi mwanjira ina sanagwire ntchito, ndipo tsopano akuwopa ubale wa banja, monga moto, venozabolevaniyam kapena kusowa mphamvu. Mwamuna wakale woteroyo amakhalabe wotsimikiza kuti ukwati si wake. Nthawi zina - mpaka kumapeto kwa moyo.

3. Amuna - ofufuza omwe amafufuza ngati pali moyo pambuyo pa ukwati, mwachidziwitso. Amakwatirana, amasudzulana, amalingalira. Kwatirana, kusudzulana, kuganiza. Ndipo kotero nthawizonse mogwirizana ndi dongosolo lomwelo ...

M'gulu lathu, ndizotheka kuwonjezera gawo limodzi - mwana wa mayi. Tengani zonse zonyansa kwambiri kuchokera pa zomwe tatchulidwa kale (mantha a maubwenzi, kusaweruzika), tidzagwiritsa ntchito kwa amayiwa ndikupeza mwamuna yemwe akuwopsyeza kuti asakwatire kuti awone ndipo akuwopseza.

Ngakhale abambo angapatulidwe m'magulu awiri otsatirawa: masoka ndi ... osakhala otsika.

Yoyamba ndi yotchedwa "bachelor of nature". Iwo alidi okhutira kwambiri moti safunikira banja. Iwo akhoza, mwangwiro, kukwatira, koma amakhalabe "mfulu" mu moyo ndikutsogolera moyo umene umakwaniritsa zosowa zawo: abwenzi, mowa, kusamba, masewera, mafilimu ndi chikondi cha mtima wamtima.

Akatswiri ena m'moyo ali chabe chifukwa cha kudzikhutira kwawo, pamene zovuta ndi kudzichepetsa sizingalole kuti zizindikike, ndipo kupeza bwenzi, zimatuluka mu kusungulumwa komweko. Kwa iwo, salinso magwero a zikhumbo, koma njira ya moyo.

Komabe, sizingatheke - ndipo sikofunika - kuti muwononge Adam onse wamakono pansi pa chisa chimodzi.

Ziribe kanthu, ziribe chifukwa chomwe dziko lapansi likuwonera, mabakiteriya ali olimbika egoists, "mbulu zosungulumwa" omwe amayamikira ufulu wawo koposa.

Iwo "amafuna" mkazi wangwiro kwambiri amene angakhale buku lawo. Wosankhidwa ayenera kukonda chakudya chomwecho, kugawana zolaula, kuganiza - ndi momwe aliri. Choncho, ngakhale banjali atasankha kulenga banja, sangavomereze mkazi aliyense. Nthawi iliyonse yomwe amaganiza kuti: "Ndipo ndi mkazi uyu ndimagwiritsa ntchito moyo wanga wonse!"

Kusungulumwa sikuwopsyeza kwa iye. Kukhala chete mu nyumba kungathe kuchepetsedwa ndi ma diskiti omwe mumawakonda, kadzutsa - kucheza ndi TV, ndi kugonana ... Palibe chimene munganene.

Mwachidziwikire, munthu wodwalayo ali ndi simenti kuchokera pa zofuna zake, mfundo zake, chikondi chake payekha ndi ... mutu wa chiwerengero cha akazi onse.

Mmene mungasamalire mwamuna wamakani ameneyu?

Zotsatira za osaka nyama

Lamulo loyamba la kusaka bwino kwa chingwe cholimba komanso chamanyazi ndi chenjezo. Kusamuka kwadzidzidzi, monga kukambirana pa nkhani za ana, ukwati, chikondi, ntchito. Pewani mafunso osafunikira ndipo, Mulungu aletse, kufunsa mafunso. Mwachitsanzo, kufufuza kuti ndi ndani komanso kuti ndi ndani. Izi ndizokwiya zomwe zingawononge masewera alionse. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kulemekeza ufulu wodzilamulira ndi ulamuliro.

Zotsatira za ndime yapitayi. Sungani bwino ndi ufulu wanu. Kapena osakanikira kuwoneka. Kusadziletsa, kudziimira, kuphatikizapo kusayanjanitsika kungachititse kuti "wozunzidwa" asamayang'ane ndi kukupangitsani chidwi. Kutsogozedwa ndi mfundo "Sindikusamala kumene munali. Ndipo inenso sindinali woyipa. " Yesetsani kuti muyambe kuyitanira, mulole iye aganize kuti zoyambazo ziri m'manja mwake. Kuonjezera apo, pamene tilibe chidwi, munthu amakwiya kwambiri (angakhale bwanji osayanjanitsika pamaso Pake?!).

Musati dikirani, mutakhala pa telefoni ya kuyitana Kwake. Nthawi yomweyo mungathe kupindula kwambiri: kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kupita ku kampani yolimbitsa thupi, kusonkhana ndi anzanu komanso kusangalala ndi moyo.

Pamene akuitana, mukhoza kusangalala, wokondwa kuvomereza msonkhano. Ndikutsimikiza kuti sanaiwale msonkhano umenewu kwa nthawi yaitali.

Mwa njira, musaiwale: muyenera kukhala oyenera. Kumudziwa kuchokera ku mawu a nusu, kufotokozera zokonda zake ndi malingaliro ake (samasokoneza kuphunzira pasadakhale), muzochitika zilizonse zimakhala zokonzeka bwino, zokongola, zosangalatsa komanso zosiyana. Kotero kuti musamavutike.

Izi ndi zovuta kwambiri, choncho ganizirani ngati munthuyu ndi woyenera kuchita zimenezi. Ngati zonsezi ndizofunikira - tipitilizabe.

Musasinthe. Ndili ndi ufulu uliwonse, amuna amafunikira masokosi abwino ndi chakudya chokoma. Poyamba, mavuto angayambe - kutha kwa malo ake kungayambitse zoipa. Koma kodi n'zovuta kuchita? Patapita kanthawi, adzaiwala momwe adalili popanda inu. Kunja kwa chitonthozo chake, chifukwa cha bachelor adzaiwala ufulu wonyansa ... Kondwerani, tsopano ndi zanu!

Mwa njira, inu mukhoza kuphunzira momwe mungasinthire ndi zachikhalidwe. Pano, mwachitsanzo, "Kuyamitsa Nsonga" ndi Celentano kapena "Chikondi Chakumadzulo" ndi Audrey Hepburn. "Eugene Onegin", pamapeto! Ntchito zonsezi zimatsimikizira kuti sivuta kuthetsa bachelor.