Amuna nthawi zambiri amapereka mphoto kwa maina a "cat": pussycat, kitten, kisyunya, kisulya ndi ena. Izi zikutanthauza kuti wokondedwa wanu ndi wokonda kwambiri komanso wochenjera. Ndi munthu wotere simudzasokonezeka. Ali wokonzeka kudya nanu kudziko lina, kukonzekera msonkhano wachikondi padenga, kulemba mawu achikondi pa asphalt ndikupatseni chodyera ku malo odyera, ataima pa bondo limodzi. Mtundu uwu wa "amuna" mu nthawi yathu siwowirikiza. Mu manja a mkazi waluso, ndi mulungu wamba!
Ngati munthu wanu akutcha "okondedwa" - izi zikutanthauza kuti akugwira ntchito mopitirira malire. Choncho, mwawothandizana nawo iwo akuyang'ana chomwe chimatchedwa "doko chete". Chimodzi chimene mungathe kutopa kutopa kuti mugwire ntchito madzulo, kambiranani ndi kugona limodzi. Amuna awa ayenera kutsatiridwa ndi chidwi komanso chisamaliro. Kuwazungulira ndi chikondi ndi chisamaliro, ndiye wokondedwa wanu adzakhala chithandizo chanu chodalirika m'moyo wa banja.
Ngati mumakonda kumva "nsomba yanga" mu adiresi yanu, muyenera kukhala tcheru ndi mnzanuyo. Amuna a mtundu uwu nthawi zambiri safuna kutalika ndi chinachake chomwe chimabwera maubwenzi, kumusunga paulendo waufupi si ntchito kwa akazi ofooka. Ngati mukufunabe "kutaya" ndikusunga munthu wotero, ndiye kuti mufunikira kumupangira mwambo ndi wokondedwa pamtima pake - mupatseni mtendere ndi bata.
Kawirikawiri, mungathe kukumana ndi amuna omwe amawatcha okondedwa awo "okongoletsedwa," "golide wanga," ndi chirichonse chokhudzana ndi golidi. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti otero ndi ndalama ndi chuma poyamba. Ngakhale, zikuwoneka kuti zochitika zoterezi ziyenera kutsimikiziranso kufunika kwa mnzanuyo. Nthawi zambiri, mawu awa amamveka kuchokera kwa anthu omwe akufuna kupeza ndalama kapena kukonza pa ntchito zawo ndi thandizo lanu.
Dzina lotchedwa "dzuwa", "dzuwa" limapereka udindo wa vsosredelennuyu. Mwamuna wanu amakuona kuti ndiwe "khadi lake lochezera", ndiko kuti, muyenera kuunika kulikonse ndi kulikonse. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, mayi yemwe ali pafupi ndi munthu wolimba mtima nthawi zonse ayenera kumangokhalira kumangokhalira kukondwera ndi kukhala pamwamba, kuti asagwe pamaso pa ena ndipo asadzigwetse yekha. Ngati mkazi woteroyo ndi wopambana, ndiye kuti sikoyenera kuchita chinachake makamaka pa izi - zabwino kwambiri. Ngati sichoncho, ndiye kuti mudzayesera mwakhama kuti mukhale abwino kwa amuna ndi muyezo.
Ngati munthu akutcha "bun," "hostess," kapena mayina ena ofanana nawo, zikutanthauza kuti izi ndi zomwe akufuna kukuwonani - "kunyumba." Muyenera kukhala mzimayi wabwino kwambiri. Amuna amenewa amasangalala kwambiri ndi moyo wokhazikitsidwa bwino kuti nyumbayo ikhale yoyera komanso yowonongeka, ndipo nthawi zonse muzidya chakudya chamadzulo komanso chakudya chamadzulo. Komanso, muyenera kukhala mayi abwino kwa ana. Ngati sakunena izi, sizikutanthauza kuti saganizira za ana, adakonza kale zonse. Kwa mnzanuyo, muyenera kukhala wokonzeka kumaliza maphunziro kuti mumudabwe ndi zolengedwa zanu. Phunzitsani ntchito ya mkazi, woyang'anira nyumba, wosamalira nyumba komanso zina zapakhomo. Kodi mwakonzeka izi? Ngati ndi choncho, mudzapambana. Banja lanu lidzakhala lamphamvu komanso lodalirika, koma moyo udzakhala wamba. Chifukwa "abambo aakazi" ayenera kukhala pakhomo, penyani ana, kuphika ndipo musasowe kutenga china chirichonse kwa iwo. Komanso, muyenera kuiwala misonkhano yambiri ndi abwenzi anu, chifukwa ngakhale zinthu izi zingasokoneze moyo wanu.
Kodi mumamvetsa bwanji munthu yemwe amakuyitanani kuti "mwana" kapena "mwana" ? Okwatirana nawo kawirikawiri sakonda zonyansa, kupanga mapulani a tsogolo ndi maubwenzi ambiri omwe ali pafupi kukula ndikukhala chinthu china, izi sizingatheke. Koma munthu wotereyo ndi wokonda kwambiri. Pamodzi ndi iye mudzamva kuti mwapadera, mfumukazi. Komanso mukhoza kukhala anzanu apamtima omwe angopatula nthawi pamodzi. Kuposa apo, simungakhoze kuyembekezera. Njira iyi ndi yabwino kwa misonkhano yosavuta, yopanda kuwonongeka. Ngati mutagawana mfundo zomwezo monga mnzanuyo, maubwenzi amenewa ndi abwino kwa inu. Koma mungavomereze, posachedwa mudzafuna chinthu chowopsa komanso chothawikitsa.
Ngati mnzanu akukuitanani kuti "okoma," ndiye kuti mwapeza njira yabwino yokhala pamodzi. Kokha ngati munthuyo sali kutsutsana osati wodetsa. Ngakhale kuti ndi munthu wotereyo zidzakhala zovuta kukangana pazinthu zina, chifukwa nthawi zonse amayesera kuthawa mkangano m'njira zonse. Mwakulankhula kwina, mnzanuyo ndi wamtendere komanso wamtendere. Musamupangitse kuti asakhumudwitse anthu ena kumbuyo kwanu, ndiyeno mudzakondedwa, mumakondwa ndikukhala ndi moyo wabwino, adzakunyamulani m'manja mwake.