Limbani ndi imfa yanu ndikupitirizabe
Tonsefe timafunikira nthawi yaying'ono ya "chisoni". Ndipotu, mosasamala kanthu kuti tinakhala bwanji ndi uyu kapena munthu ameneyo, tinalipira - tinayesa mabungwe athu, nthawi, ndikuyesera kuchita chinachake. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi zonsezi zinali zitapita.
Tifunika nthawi yothetsera imfa. Pambuyo pake, panthawi yomweyi yolekanitsa komanso ngakhale pang'ono pambuyo pake, sitiganizira momwe tingayambire ubale watsopano. M'malo mwake, timakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi maubwenzi omwe timaganizira nawo okha. Ndipo zina zambiri - kumbukirani zinthu zabwino zokha!
Kulankhulana kudzabweretsa chopanda pake
Poyamba, ndithudi, padzakhala misonzi ndi kukumbukira nthawi zosangalatsa za chikondi. Yang'anani mwatcheru ndi "odziwa" - chikondi mu ubale wawo, ndithudi, chiripo, koma osati momwe mukuonekera tsopano mu chiyanjano chanu. Zosangalatsa ndi zozizwitsa, chikondi ndi chiyamiko - zonse izi, ndithudi, ziri ndipo zidzakhala m'magulu awiri. Koma chifukwa ndi "zopanda pake", zomwe ndi mbali yazing'ono chabe.
- Ubale ndi zofunikanso.
Choncho, ndi zophweka komanso zovuta kuthana ndi malingaliro akuti "palibe amene angakhale bwino kuposa munthu uyu m'moyo", ndiko kulankhulana komwe kumathandiza. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mudzayenda mumsewu ndi mawonekedwe a "njala" a mtsikana wosungulumwa. Sikofunika kuyambitsa maubwenzi atsopano (makamaka mwamsanga mutatha kupatukana), koma patapita kanthawi kochepa "paokha", ndi nthawi yopita kwa anthu.
Kulankhulana, kusewera, kusangalala ndi anthu. Ndipo kotero kuti palibe malingaliro oipa okhudza "pano, ine ndikuyambanso kugwirizanitsa ubale ndi munthu wolakwika," musati mukhalebe ndi munthu mmodzi. Pezani kampani imene imakuyeneretsani malinga ndi msinkhu wa maphunziro, zofuna, zosangalatsa. Pezani chizolowezi chatsopano kapena pitani ku maphunziro. Ngati mukufuna kujambula zithunzi kapena kupanga, ndiye kuti mudzakakamizidwa kupita kunja, kupita ku mawonetsero ndi mawonetsero, kukayendera ma nyumba kapena kuyang'ana malo osangalatsa owuziridwa.
Patapita kanthawi mukhoza kusintha kusintha kwa ntchito. Maluso oyenerera m'munda uliwonse adzakupatsani mpata woti muwone kuti mukufunikira, ndipo ngakhale (ndi kupambana kwina mmenemo). Munthu wokhutira sikumveka kuti akufuna mwamphamvu kufunafuna kubwezeretsanso akale.
"Hook", yomwe ife tikugwiritsira ntchito kale
Ndibwino kuti ubale uthetse bwino. Zikuwoneka ngati zopanda pake, koma yesani kumvetsetsa: ndibwino kuti musakhalebe "abwenzi" pakulekanitsa. Pambuyo pake, mutatha kubwezera mfundo zofunikira pamoyo wanu wamba. Amzanga? Eya, amvetsetse chifukwa chake simukupita ku bowling kapena kusambira nawo. Koma kugonana ndi "wakale" sikungakhale. Ngakhale mutagwira ntchito kumalo amodzi, posakhalitsa kapena panthawi yothandizidwa (kapena, Mulungu asalole, malonda), mavuto ayamba.
Ndi kangati pambuyo pa mawu akuti "tiyeni tikhale mabwenzi" chinthu china chimabisala! Tikufuna kuti tisaponyedwe modzidzimutsa, omwe poyamba amafuna kutulutsidwa pang'onopang'ono ... Koma ngakhale atakhala ochezeka, maubwenzi amakhazikitsidwa, iwo adzakhala "owawa" kapena chinachake. Ndimamva kukoma mtima kwakukulu kumeneku, komwe kungakhale kotchuka ndi masochists (ndi masochists).
Kuonjezerapo, zikutheka kuti patangopita nthawi yochepa mutayamba kupeza chibwenzi chamkati, ndipo mudzazunzidwa ndi momwe mungayambitsire popanda kuwononga ubwenzi umene wapangidwa. Kapena mosiyana, wanu wakale angayambe ubale watsopano, ndipo mutha kumaliza kumene muyenera kukhala - pa maudindo achiwiri kapena atatu.
Zosintha zamagulu
Musanayambe kuganizira za maubwenzi pambuyo pogawanitsa, ndibwino kufufuza momwe munabweretsera ubale wanu wakale kumapeto. Sizomwe zimamukhudza iye, "nkhanambo ndi nyama zakutchire," koma ngati munthuyo ali - mwa inu, amene adasankha nkhanambo ndi zinyama. Ngati simungathe kuthana ndi kusanthula kwakukulu kwazimene zimayambitsa zomwe zimayambitsa nokha - kupeza bwino, koma osati mnzanu wapamtima kapena mnzanu. Atsikana amadzipereka kuti azikhala achisoni "za iye, za mtsikana", ndipo mutha kukhala womvetsera wokondwa ndi katswiri wodziimira.
Ngati mnzanuyo salipo ndipo sakuyembekeza - musamapereke malangizo kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo kapena wamaganizo. Anthu awa, ndi mbali imodzi, amafunika kuti asafotokoze malingaliro awo, komabe iwo amakakamizidwa kuti amvetsere kwa kasitomala chifukwa cha ntchito zawo, komanso mofatsa, pang'onopang'ono amamukakamiza ku malingaliro ena ndi zokhudzana ndi iye mwini. Kotero inu mudzalandira phindu lachiwiri - inu mudzakhala ndi lingaliro pa inu nokha, momveka bwino kwa inu, ndi pa nthawi yomweyo - mfundo yoyamba. Kuphatikizanso, pamene mukugwira ntchito ndi katswiri mungathe kusintha maonekedwe a maubwenzi omwe amawawononga. Koma kwa inu iwo amadziwa bwino, iwo ndi gawo la moyo wanu, ndipo wokhawokha yemwe ali ndi zosiyana za ubale ndi zitsanzo akhoza kukupangitsani inu kuganiza kuti mukhoza kumanga ubale mwanjira ina.
Kupambana ndi kupambana
Luso ndilo kupeza munthu woyenera, ngakhale atakhala ndi chibwenzi cholimba, chovuta komanso kusiyana. Ndipo kupambana ndiko kudziwa zomwe mukufunikira pakali pano. Kodi mukusowa wina yemwe sangasokoneze ntchito mu kampani? Kodi mukusowa mwamuna wachikondi amene amakonda ana? Kupeza ndendende izi, "kulowa mu cholinga" kumakhala bwino.
Mbuye wabwino kwa inu!
Limbani ndi imfa yanu ndikupitirizabe
Tonsefe timafunikira nthawi yaying'ono ya "chisoni". Ndipotu, mosasamala kanthu kuti tinakhala bwanji ndi uyu kapena munthu ameneyo, tinalipira - tinayesa mabungwe athu, nthawi, ndikuyesera kuchita chinachake. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi zonsezi zinali zitapita.
Tifunika nthawi yothetsera imfa. Pambuyo pake, panthawi yomweyi yolekanitsa komanso ngakhale pang'ono pambuyo pake, sitiganizira momwe tingayambire ubale watsopano. M'malo mwake, timakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi maubwenzi omwe timaganizira nawo okha. Ndipo zina zambiri - kumbukirani zinthu zabwino zokha!
Kulankhulana kudzabweretsa chopanda pake
Poyamba, ndithudi, padzakhala misonzi ndi kukumbukira nthawi zosangalatsa za chikondi. Yang'anani mwatcheru ndi "odziwa" - chikondi mu ubale wawo, ndithudi, chiripo, koma osati momwe mukuonekera tsopano mu chiyanjano chanu. Zosangalatsa ndi zozizwitsa, chikondi ndi chiyamiko - zonse izi, ndithudi, ziri ndipo zidzakhala m'magulu awiri. Koma chifukwa ndi "zopanda pake", zomwe ndi mbali yazing'ono chabe.
Ubale ndi zofunikanso.
Choncho, ndi zophweka komanso zovuta kuthana ndi malingaliro akuti "palibe amene angakhale bwino kuposa munthu uyu m'moyo", ndiko kulankhulana komwe kumathandiza. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mudzayenda mumsewu ndi mawonekedwe a "njala" a mtsikana wosungulumwa. Sikofunika kuyambitsa maubwenzi atsopano (makamaka mwamsanga mutatha kupatukana), koma patapita kanthawi kochepa "paokha", ndi nthawi yopita kwa anthu.
Kulankhulana, kusewera, kusangalala ndi anthu. Ndipo kotero kuti palibe malingaliro oipa okhudza "pano, ine ndikuyambanso kugwirizanitsa ubale ndi munthu wolakwika," musati mukhalebe ndi munthu mmodzi. Pezani kampani imene imakuyeneretsani malinga ndi msinkhu wa maphunziro, zofuna, zosangalatsa. Pezani chizolowezi chatsopano kapena pitani ku maphunziro. Ngati mukufuna kujambula zithunzi kapena kupanga, ndiye kuti mudzakakamizidwa kupita kunja, kupita ku mawonetsero ndi mawonetsero, kukayendera ma nyumba kapena kuyang'ana malo osangalatsa owuziridwa.
Patapita kanthawi mukhoza kusintha kusintha kwa ntchito. Maluso oyenerera m'munda uliwonse adzakupatsani mpata woti muwone kuti mukufunikira, ndipo ngakhale (ndi kupambana kwina mmenemo). Munthu wokhutira sikumveka kuti akufuna mwamphamvu kufunafuna kubwezeretsanso akale.
"Hook", yomwe ife tikugwiritsira ntchito kale
Ndibwino kuti ubale uthetse bwino. Zikuwoneka ngati zopanda pake, koma yesani kumvetsetsa: ndibwino kuti musakhalebe "abwenzi" pakulekanitsa. Pambuyo pake, mutatha kubwezera mfundo zofunikira pamoyo wanu wamba. Amzanga? Eya, amvetsetse chifukwa chake simukupita ku bowling kapena kusambira nawo. Koma kugonana ndi "wakale" sikungakhale. Ngakhale mutagwira ntchito kumalo amodzi, posakhalitsa kapena panthawi yothandizidwa (kapena, Mulungu asalole, malonda), mavuto ayamba.
Ndi kangati pambuyo pa mawu akuti "tiyeni tikhale mabwenzi" chinthu china chimabisala! Tikufuna kuti tisaponyedwe modzidzimutsa, omwe poyamba amafuna kutulutsidwa pang'onopang'ono ... Koma ngakhale atakhala ochezeka, maubwenzi amakhazikitsidwa, iwo adzakhala "owawa" kapena chinachake. Ndimamva kukoma mtima kwakukulu kumeneku, komwe kungakhale kotchuka ndi masochists (ndi masochists).
Kuonjezerapo, zikutheka kuti patangopita nthawi yochepa mutayamba kupeza chibwenzi chamkati, ndipo mudzazunzidwa ndi momwe mungayambitsire popanda kuwononga ubwenzi umene wapangidwa. Kapena mosiyana, wanu wakale angayambe ubale watsopano, ndipo mutha kumaliza kumene muyenera kukhala - pa maudindo achiwiri kapena atatu.
Zosintha zamagulu
Musanayambe kuganizira za maubwenzi pambuyo pogawanitsa, ndibwino kufufuza momwe munabweretsera ubale wanu wakale kumapeto. Sizomwe zimamukhudza iye, "nkhanambo ndi nyama zakutchire," koma ngati munthuyo ali - mwa inu, amene adasankha nkhanambo ndi zinyama. Ngati simungathe kuthana ndi kusanthula kwakukulu kwazimene zimayambitsa zomwe zimayambitsa nokha - kupeza bwino, koma osati mnzanu wapamtima kapena mnzanu. Atsikana amadzipereka kuti azikhala achisoni "za iye, za mtsikana", ndipo mutha kukhala womvetsera wokondwa ndi katswiri wodziimira.
Ngati mnzanuyo salipo ndipo sakuyembekeza - musamapereke malangizo kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo kapena wamaganizo. Anthu awa, ndi mbali imodzi, amafunika kuti asafotokoze malingaliro awo, komabe iwo amakakamizidwa kuti amvetsere kwa kasitomala chifukwa cha ntchito zawo, komanso mofatsa, pang'onopang'ono amamukakamiza ku malingaliro ena ndi zokhudzana ndi iye mwini. Kotero inu mudzalandira phindu lachiwiri - inu mudzakhala ndi lingaliro pa inu nokha, momveka bwino kwa inu, ndi pa nthawi yomweyo - mfundo yoyamba. Kuphatikizanso, pamene mukugwira ntchito ndi katswiri mungathe kusintha maonekedwe a maubwenzi omwe amawawononga. Koma kwa inu iwo amadziwa bwino, iwo ndi gawo la moyo wanu, ndipo wokhawokha yemwe ali ndi zosiyana za ubale ndi zitsanzo akhoza kukupangitsani inu kuganiza kuti mukhoza kumanga ubale mwanjira ina.
Kupambana ndi kupambana
Luso ndilo kupeza munthu woyenera, ngakhale atakhala ndi chibwenzi cholimba, chovuta komanso kusiyana. Ndipo kupambana ndiko kudziwa zomwe mukufunikira pakali pano. Kodi mukusowa wina yemwe sangasokoneze ntchito mu kampani? Kodi mukusowa mwamuna wachikondi amene amakonda ana? Kupeza ndendende izi, "kulowa mu cholinga" kumakhala bwino.
Mbuye wabwino kwa inu!