Mayi-chibwenzi
Kulankhula za khalidweli, zimangowonekera kuti amayi omwe amapita ndi mwana wawo wamkazi kapena mwana wawo kukacheza, amakambirana mitu yonseyo, amakhalabe osamba ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhulupirira kuti ali ndi zaka 15. Makhalidwe amenewa amavomerezedwa kwambiri ndi achinyamata. Imnravitsya amayi omwe amatha kumvetsa komanso abwenzi. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, kuli pamaso pa abwenzi kuti ana amadzikuza nthawi zonse ndi amayi awo. Ndipotu, ndizozizira pamene ena amaletsedwa chifukwa amayi samvetsa, koma amaloledwa zinthu zambiri. Ndipotu, chitsanzo cha chiyanjano chazimayi sichiri chokongola momwe zikuwonekera.
Ngati amayi akukhala ngati bwenzi la 100%, ndiye kuti zodzala ndi zotsatira zoipa kwambiri. Mwanayo akuyamba kuzindikira kuti ndi nthawi yeniyeni, motero, malangizo ake onse ndi malingaliro ake amavomerezedwa mofanana, ndiko kuti, nthawi zambiri salandiridwa konse. Kwa ana omwe ali ndi mutu pali chithunzi cha chibwenzi cha idealamma chomwe sichimamatira chifaniziro cha amayi. Mayi woteroyo ayenera kulola chirichonse. Chabwino, mwanayo ali ndi zilakolako zachilendo koma ngati mwana akufuna kupanga chinthu chosadziwika, ndiye kuti mayi ndi mnzako sadzasintha. Choncho, posankha khalidwe labwino, inu, choyamba, muyenera kuliyesa kuchokera pakuwona kwanu. Khalidwe la chibwenzi limatanthauza pang'ono kusiyana ndi zomwe ana akufuna kuwona. Ndipotu, bwenzi ndi munthu amene amamvetsetsa, sachita mantha kunena zoona, akhoza kukhumudwitsa, ndi chinachake choletsa. Paunyamata, si ana onse amene amadziwa mabwenzi mwanjira imeneyo. Choncho, ngati mumasankha khalidwe labwino, bwenzi la mayi, ndiye kuti liyenera kukhazikitsidwa ndi kudalira. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kulola chirichonse kwa mwanayo ndi zina zotero. Ndikofunika kuti mumvetsetse bwino ndikukambirana mavuto ake, popanda mantha kuitana zonse mwa mayina anu. Mamytesnyayutsya ambiri amayankhula ndi ana poyera, ndikuwatsimikizira kuti ali aang'ono. Koma achinyamata amakono amadziwa zambiri kuposa momwe tinkadziwira pa msinkhu womwewo. Iwo amakhala ndi mwayi wopeza chidziwitso mwa mawonekedwe a intaneti. Koma vuto ndi lakuti pafupifupi ana onse sakudziwa momwe angasankhire zinthu zomwe analandira. Choncho, chidziwitso chawo sichikwanira, ndipo kuzindikira kwa zinthu zina kumasokonezedwa. Ngati mukufuna kukhala mzanga-abwenzi, kambiranani momasuka ndi mwanayo chilichonse chomwe chingamuthandize pa msinkhu umenewo. Choyamba, izi ndizoyankhula za kugonana. Bwenzi lachikazi silinganene kuti: "Udzakula - ndiye udzadziwa zonse." Ayenera kukhala pansi ndi mwamtendere, popanda kuyankhula, ndi mwana wake wamwamuna kapena wamkazi za zomwe zimamukondweretsa. Zindikirani, ngati chidziwitso ichi chichokera kwa inu, sichidzadziwika m'njira yosokonezeka. Makolo ambiri samafuna kulankhula za chirichonse monga ichi, kuti asavulaze ana. Koma ndi momwe amachitira zoipa, chifukwa ana amadziwa kale chirichonse, koma osati mawonekedwe omwe angafune.
Kodi munganenenso chiyani za amayi anu-amzanga? Inde, iye akhoza kukhala wachichepere pamtima, kuyankhulana ndi abwenzi ake ndi zina zotero. Koma osati kuyang'ana pa izi zonse, ndi mwana wanu, ndi ana ena ayenera kukumbukira kuti ndinu mayi. Choncho, musapite kukamaliza kumudziwa, dziperekeni nokha kutchulidwa ndi dzina ndi zina zotero. Mudzakhala osachepera kawiri ngati momwe iwo aliri. Adetas ayenera kulemekeza akulu, choncho musayambe kukhala ndi lingaliro laling'ono pakati pa achinyamata ndi akulu. Kuphatikiza apo, chirichonse chomwe iwe uli bwenzi lapamtima, iwe uyenera kuti ukhalebe mayi wanzeru. Pali amayi amene amasankha chitsanzo cha bwenzi lawo komanso amachita zomwe amzawo amamwali awo amsinkhu wawo amachita. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mmalo mokambirana mozama za mavutowa, kupatsa bungwe la bizinesi, mwanzeru kuthetsa vutolo, amayi oterewa amangoyamba kugwedezeka, kulumbira, mantha ndi zina zotero. Mwamwayi, pamapeto pake, zikhoza kutanthauza kuti mwanayo akungokupatsani nzeru. Ndipo atakwanitsa zaka makumi awiri ndi zisanu, iye adzaima kuti atenge uphungu wanu, chifukwa adziwa kuti mutha kulimbana ndi vutoli ngati theka la abwenzi ake. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, kuchokera kwa inu simungapindule chilichonse chomwe chili chofunikira komanso chofunika. Mkazi wa chibwenzi ndi mayi ayenera kumangidwanso osati pazotsutsana, koma pa malangizo. Choncho khalidweli ndi lovuta kwambiri kuposa khalidwe la amayi, chifukwa, pano mukuyenera kumuthandiza kuti akwaniritse zofuna zanu, komabe sakuzidziwitsa, koma zokhutiritsa.
Amayi Amayi
Mu ubongo wachinyamata, chitsanzo cha amayi a amayi chimaoneka ngati cholakwika. Ana onse amakhulupirira kuti amayi oterewa amaletsa chilichonse, samvetsa chilichonse, amawachitira ngati ana aang'ono, ndi zina zotero. Mwamwayi, amayi ambiri achikulire amachita zambiri mofanana. Koma, mayi-mayi ayenera kukhala wotsika kwambiri. Ndipotu khalidwe la mayi ndi mayi ndilo liyenera kukhala losiyana kwambiri. Amayi omwe amamwaliwa amangokhalira kutembenuka ndi achinyamata, chifukwa amamvetsetsa zokonda za ana. Ndipo amayi amamayi samamvetsa, koma yesani kutenga izo. Iwo sangathamangire ma discos ndikumwa mowa ndi abwenzi a mwanayo, koma mayi-amai ayenera kumvetsa kuti simudzapulumutsa ana ku izi. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuonetsetsa kuti mwana wanu wamwamuna amadziwa chiyeso ndikumvetsa kuti kudutsa malire ndi kolakwika komanso kolakwika. Mulimonsemo, khalidwe la mayi aliyense, mosasamala kanthu ka khalidwe labwino lomwe adasankha, liyenera kukhazikitsidwa pazochitikira tsiku ndi tsiku ndi nzeru. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kulemekeza mwanayo payekha komanso kuvomereza kuti mwana wanu sali wamng'ono ndipo akumanga moyo wake, ndipo muyenera kumuthandiza, osati kuwononga. Amayi nthawizonse amakhala mkazi wanzeru kwambiri. Makhalidwe ayenera kukhala otero kuti, muzovuta zilizonse, mwanayo amadziwa kuti mwinamwake amayi sangamvetse mfundo yanga, koma amavomereza ndikuyesera kuthandizira. Ngati mutasankha chitsanzo cha machitidwe a amai, muyenera kuonetsetsa kuti malangizo anu ndi zoletsera zimapindulitsa mwana wanu, ndipo musakhale ndi zotsatira za maganizo anu ogonjera ndipo musasokoneze umunthu wake.