Chomwe chingapangitse amayi kukhala angwiro

Kwa chikhalidwe cha mkazi, chokhumba ku ungwiro ndi chachibadwa kuti woimira wina aliyense yemwe ali wofooka angathe kudzipeza mwayekha majeremusi a ungwiro.

Kotero, tiyeni tiwone zomwe zimatsogolera ku ungwiro wazimayi.

Pafupifupi msungwana aliyense ali ndi maonekedwe enaake, kupatuka kumene iye ali wokonzeka kupita mwamsanga pa zakudya, kukacheza ndi wokongola kapena kuthamanga ku sitolo ya mafashoni kuti akwaniritse zovala zowonongeka. Pokhala akadakali wachinyamata, mtsikanayo akudziyesa yekha fanizo la mwamuna wabwino. Mayi aliyense wa banja lomwe akusamba akufuna kuti banja limuone ngati mbuye wosamvetsetseka. Mayi aliyense amafuna kunyada ndi mwana wake. Mkazi wamakono wamakono samalola kuloŵerera mu ntchito ndipo salola kuti ogonjerawo agwire ntchito kudzera mmanja. Zonsezi ndi zachilendo kuti poyang'ana, palibe choyipa chikuwoneka, chomwe chikhoza kutsogolera ku ungwiro wazimayi.

Komabe, ngati pulogalamuyi imakhala yochuluka kwambiri moti mpweya wokhazikika umayenera kukwaniritsa, mavuto aakulu angayambe.

Ma TV nthawi zonse amatisonyeza zithunzi za atsikana okongola omwe ali ndi chithunzi chabwino , khungu loyera komanso tsitsi lobiriwira. Iwo akuzunguliridwa ndi zinthu zapamwamba, magalimoto odziwika ndi achinyamata olemera. Kwa mtsikana amene amakhala Khrushchevka ndi amayi ake, akulimbana ndi ziphuphu ndipo amapita ku yunivesite yomwe ili pamtunda, chinthu chokhacho chikusowa ndi kugwirizana kwake ndi kutalika kwa miyendo yake. Amakhala pa zakudya zosavomerezeka ndipo amawerengera kalori iliyonse - choncho amayamba anorexia nervosa ...

Msungwana wokongola ndi wanzeru amaganiza kuti wosankhidwa wake ayenera kukhala munthu woyenera. Koma pazifukwa zina, iye ali kale zoposa makumi atatu, ndipo kalonga mu mzindawo sakuonekera ...

Iye ndi mzimayi wabwino kwambiri. Pali nthawizonse dongosolo mu nyumba yake, zonse ziri mmalo mwake, simungapeze chidutswa cha fumbi. Kudya chakudya chamadzulo kumakonzedwa, koma pazifukwa zina banja silikufulumira kubwerera ku nyumbayi, zofanana ndi nyumba yosungiramo zinthu zakale kapena kumalo osungirako ...

Mayi nthawi zonse amalimbikitsira mwana wake, kuti akhale wophunzira kwambiri, aziphunzira bwino komanso nthawi zonse azikhalabe wophunzira. Ndipo kwa kanthawi izo ziri zoona, koma nthawi ya kusintha ikubwera, ndipo mwanayo akupita nthawi zonse zovuta. Makolo samvetsa chomwe chingawatsogolere mwana wawo kukhala kampani yolakwika ...

Amayi amabweretsa mwana wawo wamkazi ngati mtsikana wabwino, womvera, woyera, wogwira ntchito mwakhama. Iye kuyambira ubwana amalandira chikhumbo chokhala wangwiro, ndipo tsopano kubwezeretsedwa kwa ungwiro wamkazi kumapitsidwira bwino kwa mbadwo wotsatira ...

Msungwana yemwe adaphunzira ku yunivesite ndi diploma yofiira, ayamba ntchito yake. Nthaŵi zonse amayesetsa kugwira ntchito yomwe iye wapatsidwa, koma pazifukwa zina nthawi zonse amakhalabe wopanda nthawi. Amakhala mofulumira, amatha kugwira ntchito pamapeto a sabata, alibe nthawi yaulere - nthawi zambiri amakhala operewera ...

Mzimayi wa zaka zapuma pantchito kwa zaka zingapo tsopano akugwira ntchito ya mutu wa dipatimentiyo pa ntchito yaikulu. Utsogoleri umayamikira, koma umakhala mu nthawi yachisokonezo nthawi zonse - pazifukwa zina, akuluakulu sangathe kupeza ntchito yodziimira. Muyenera kumaliza zonse nokha, nthawi zina mumayenera kubisala akuluakulu aboma. Nyumbayi ndi nyansi, chakudya chochokera kumagetsi otsirizira, ndipo mwamuna wanga akuwoneka kuti wapeza wina. Pamene ataya, sangathe kupezeka kuvutika maganizo ...

Nkhani zomvetsa chisoni zoterezi zikhoza kuuzidwa zopanda malire, ndipo zonsezi zimatsimikizira kuti chiyero chachikazi sichinthu chopweteka, ndipo nthawi zina chingayambitse mavuto aakulu a m'maganizo, chiwonongeko cha amayi chikuwonekera ndipo, makamaka, ana.

Yesetsani kudzikonda nokha pa zomwe muli, kudzidalira, kupatsa anthu ena kulakwitsa - ndiyeno ungwiro sizingakhale zoopsa kwa inu!