Achipatala amati 75 peresenti ya anthu a m'dziko lathu amavutika ndi matenda osiyanasiyana. Izi sizinthu zomwe zimakhala pafupi ndi ife ndipo nthawi zina zimasokoneza dongosolo la manjenje kwa anthu wathanzi. Choncho, ndi bwino kudziŵa momwe mungawazindikire, mofulumira kuzindikira makhalidwe oipa a umunthu wa munthu. Momwe mungadziwire ndi momwe mungakhalire bwino ndi anthu oterewa tidzakambirana mmunsimu.
ZINTHU ZOPHUNZIRA
Mwamuna wamtundu uwu ali ndi mphamvu zopanda malire komanso zopanda mphamvu. Ndipo mphamvu zake zimayendetsedwa ku njira imodzi, ndipo nthawi zambiri - kumenyana ndi wina. Mwachitsanzo, agogo-wrestler akhoza kukonza mlandu wonse kwa achinyamata oyandikana nawo omwe amachokera kumwamba, omwe, molingana ndi iye, amamveka moimbira nyimbo, kupondereza komanso m'njira zonse zimaphwanya mtendere wake. Zidzakhalanso bwino kuti zipatala za boma zikhazikitsidwe pofuna kukwaniritsa "chilungamo". Ndipo, koposa zonse, kupirira kwake nthawi zambiri kumapindula, ndipo amakwaniritsa cholinga chake. Chifukwa kupambana kumalimbikitsa anthu oterewa ndi mphamvu zodabwitsa, ndipo kugonjetsedwa kumangoyambitsa kayendedwe ka kusaka.
Mtundu wina wa msilikali - "wasayansi wamisala" - akhoza kukhazikitsa kosatha makina osayendetsa. Zidzakhala zovuta kuti asiye ntchito yake yabwino ndikukankhira mu "laboratory" yake pamapeto masiku. Mwa njira, nyumba ya "banja" imasinthidwa mosavuta kukhala "labotale" ngati ili ndi zidutswa zachitsulo, zithunzi ndi zithunzi. Zowopsya kuti sizingatheke kuti mkazi ndi ana aang'ono azikhala mwamtendere kotero, ndi kulavulira kuti akusowa thandizo la zinthu kuchokera kwa bambo awo! "Wasayansi wamisala" ali ndi chikumbumtima chokwanira kuti asonyeze kusakhutira kwa mkazi wake chifukwa chakuti sakusamalira banja, pamene ali wotanganidwa ndi bizinesi.
Mwa njira, chidziwitso cha khalidwe la "munthu wotsutsa" ndi kugawidwa kwa onse ozungulira "abwenzi" ndi "adani". Amzanga ndi omwe amagawana malingaliro ake, ndipo adani ndi ena onse. "Adani" musachite nsanje. Pambuyo pake, "Wopambana" ali ndi mphamvu yodabwitsa ndipo kubwezera kumapita kumapeto.
Momwe mungalankhulire?
Ngati simukugawana nawo maganizo a "Wopambana pa lingaliro", khalani chete pa izo mulamba, mwinamwake muli ndi mwayi wodzipangira mdani wamphamvu. Koma ngati chozizwitsa chikuchitika ndipo zolinga zanu zikugwirizana ndi iye, gwirizanitsani! Chifukwa cha "Fighter" mudzapeza zambiri. Nthawi zina, yesetsani kukhala kutali. Popeza makhalidwe oipa a khalidwe la munthuyu - kukayikira, kukwiya, kusavomerezeka kwa mavuto a anthu ena - kufalikira kumalo ake onse.
FUTLER MUNTHU
Kumbukirani, m'nkhani yotchuka ya "Man in Case" ya Chekhov, mphunzitsi wa geography sanaloledwe kukhala ndi mantha aakulu komanso osakayikira? Anabwereza nthawi zonse: "Zikanakhala zotani," koma potsirizira pake anali ndi nkhawa kuti ngakhale adamwalira. Mphunzitsi uyu ndi chifaniziro chofanana cha umunthu wokayika.
Anthu otere sangathe kukhala chete. Ngakhale pamene chirichonse chiri chabwino, iwo amazunzidwa ndi kukaikira: "Kodi ine ndachita zonse bwino?", "Chifukwa chiani Marya Petrovna anandiyang'ana ine mopanda chifundo?".
Ndili ndi mnzanga mmodzi amene amatha pafupifupi ora kuti atuluke mnyumbamo. Ndipo onse chifukwa chakuti nthawi yayitali amayang'ana mabotolo, zipangizo zamagetsi, madzi ndi zitsulo. Nthawi zonse amamva kuti anaiwala chinachake kuti achotse kapena kuchiletsa. Mkazi uyu safunikira kuchoka kuntchito pamtunda wa tsiku la ntchito ndikupita kumapeto ena a mzinda, kuti atsimikizirenso kuti: nyumbayo sinatengeke.
Koma ndi makhalidwe awo onse oipa, anthu oterewa ndi odalirika komanso odalirika. Ndiwo anzanu apamtima - nthawi zonse muzimvera chisoni, pulumutsani mu nthawi yovuta ndipo musamachite mwadala mwadala. Komabe, khalani okonzeka nthawi zonse kumalira ndi kudandaula. "Munthu amene ali pa mlandu" maola makumi awiri ndi anai pa tsiku ali mu mantha ndi nkhawa. Pamodzi ndi iye, muyenera kuchita ntchito ya katswiri wa maganizo: khalani olimbikitsa komanso kulimbitsa mtima wanu.
Momwe mungalankhulire?
Monga momwe mungathere, yang'anani khalidwe lanu, mawu ndi liwu la mawu. Ndipotu, "Munthu payekha" angakhumudwitse maonekedwe oipa. Osati kutsutsa izo, kulibwino inu muziyamikire izo. Ngati mukufuna kumufunsa za utumiki - musakhale wamanyazi: moyo wamtundu uwu mu keke udzasweka, koma kwanilitsani lonjezolo. Komabe, ntchitoyi iyenera kuperekedwa momveka bwino. Musanene kuti: "Pita ku sitolo ukagule nyama." Adzapita, koma sadzabwerera msanga, chifukwa sakudziwa: a) Kodi ayenera kusunga sitolo iti; b) nanga ndi kuchuluka kwa nyama zogula. Ndikofunika kunena kuti: "Pita ku supamente (ndiro adiresi), gula kilogalamu ya ng'ombe ndikubwerera mofulumira."
TIRAN YOPHUNZIRA
Tsoka ilo, munthu yemwe ali ndi khalidwe lachilendo satha kuthetsa mkwiyo wake wokha. "Wachibwibwi" akudwala chifukwa cha nthawi yowonongeka kwambiri, ndipo kwa nthawi yaitali sangathe kubwera ku malingaliro. Chowonadi ndi chakuti mkwiyo wake ndi ukali zimamangirira mosasamala kanthu. Nthawi zina, "Tirana" ndi yofunika kupeza chodziwitsira kuti "tithyole" munthu wina, mwinamwake zolakwika zimayamba kudya kuchokera mkati. Sizingakhale zovuta kwambiri, monga chitsanzo chokhala ndi moyo, kuukitsa kukumbukira fano la wina (kapena mwinamwake?) Mkazi wokwatidwa kapena bwana wokwiya.
Pakati pa kukwiyitsa kwaukali wozunza amatha kuwonetsa bwino, koma izi sizitali. Chidutswa chaching'ono pa zovala kapena madzulo kumapeto kwa mphindi zingapo zimatha kuwalimbikitsa kukwiya ndi mkwiyo, zomwe zimangowonjezera kwa ena. Pa nthawi ya "chiweruzo choopsa", "machimo" awo onse amakumbukiridwa. Mkhalidwe woipa ukhoza kuwonekera ngakhale paokha, chifukwa chosaganizira. Nthawi zina "nyengo yakuda" imatha masiku angapo.
Anthu awa amafuna kuti iwo azidzimvera okha, koma iwo okha salola kulemekeza. Egoism mwa iwo akuphatikizidwa ndi nkhanza ndi nkhanza. Nthawi zina "Otsatira" satha kuthetsa kuphulika kwaukali wawo omwe amadzipeza okha pachipatala ngati wolakwa. Malamulo a zachipatala amadziwa zambiri. Choncho, ndi "Olamulira" muyenera kusamala kwambiri.
Momwe mungalankhulire?
Mwamwayi, zolakwika za khalidwe la "Wachibwibwi" silingasinthe, ndipo nthawi zamantha zidzakhala nthawi zonse. Njira yokhayo yotulukira ndikusiya kuyankhulana naye. Chabwino, ngati chinyengocho chachitika kale, yesetsani kusatsutsana, pewani kutsutsana ndi ndondomeko yake, kuti musakwiyitse mkwiyo watsopano. Tsiku lina munthu wamba adzachita "perebesitsya", ndipo mumapuma mosavuta. Zoona, osati kwa nthawi yaitali, ndipo posachedwa zonse zidzachitika kachiwiri.
YAM'MBUYO YOTSATIRA MITU YA NKHANI
Kawirikawiri, "nyenyezi" (mu sayansi - yonyansa) khalidwe liri ndi amayi, koma amuna omwe ali ndi makhalidwe ofananawo amachitanso. Anthu awa ndi ovuta osazindikira. Mkaziyo akuyang'ana mwakachetechete ndi mwamantha kwambiri. Mwamunayo ndi wowala komanso wokongola. Nthawi zonse amakhala ndi galasi ndi iye, komwe amayang'ana nkhope yake yosasunthika. Anthu awa alibe chidwi chilichonse koma umunthu wawo. Iwo ndi otsimikiza kuti ndi apadera ndipo amaganiza kuti aliyense ayenera kudziwa za izi. "Nyenyezi" sizikumvetsetsa, koma ziri ndi luso la ulemu wawo, chuma ndi chigonjetso cha chikondi, kumachita mwaluso kotero kuti iwo amayamba kukhulupirira zomwe amanena.
Zingayambitse mavuto ngati anthu sankawaganizira. Komabe, bodza lamaluwa limakhala lopanda nzeru, mwachitsanzo, bwana, atamvetsera zodzikuza, amamupatsa ntchito yoyenera kapena amamuika pamalo apamwamba. Khvastun, komabe, sakufulumira kuyambitsa ntchito zatsopano, ndipo maola ogwira ntchito akudzikuza pamaso pa anzako za kupambana kwake kwakukulu.
Zowopsa kukhala mabwenzi ndi Zvezda. Kuwatsimikizira bwenzi lake la kudzipereka kwake ndi kukhulupirika kwake, sangazengereze kuyang'ana mwamuna wake ndikumayesa kumunyengerera. Ngati izo zikukwaniritsa, ndiye "Nyenyezi" ikhoza kufika kwa bwenzi mosavuta ndi kunena za "kugwa" kwake muzomwezi. Wopandukirayo ayamba kulira, kupempha chikhululukiro, kunena kuti ali ndi manyazi kwambiri ndi iye mwini, kuti sangathe kuthandizira, kuti iye mwini ... Komabe, sikofunika kumukhulupirira, chifukwa adanyengerera mwamuna wake kuti adziwonetsere yekha: " Ine ndine wabwino kwambiri, ndipo amuna onse amadzipenga ine. "
Momwe mungalankhulire?
"Nyenyezi" ndi wojambula wosadziwika (kapena wojambula). Anthu oterewa amamva kufunikira kowasamalira ndipo motero amakopeka ndi njira iliyonse, osati kukana ngakhale makhalidwe oipa kwambiri. Kuti asayambe kuphulika kwa mapiri a khalidwe la munthu- "Nyenyezi", amayamikira makhalidwe ake abwino: wit, kucheza, ntchito. Apo ayi, iye ayamba kukonza ndi kukukonzerani zofuna zanu, kuti akukopeni. Mulimonsemo, musalole mkazi - "Nyenyezi" pafupi kwambiri ndi mkazi wake - ayesa kumenyana.
Inde, pali mitundu yambiri ya zachilendo kuposa momwe talemba apa. Kawirikawiri pali kusakanikirana kwa mitundu yosiyanasiyana, mwachitsanzo, "Nyenyezi ya pawindo" + "Wogonjetsa lingaliro." Komabe, ngakhale "ziphuphu" izi zingathe kulamulidwa mothandizidwa ndi njira zomwe zanenedwa pamwambapa.