Mu moyo, pali zosiyana kwambiri, makamaka pa chikondi choyambirira. Chabwino, ndani sakudziwa, tiyeni tizinena choncho? Mnyamata wamba amakomana pamsewu ndi mtsikana, iwo amachitira chifundo, kumisonkhano nthawi zonse, kukambirana za mtima ndi mtima, kulandira mosamalitsa kwambiri zatsopano za wina ndi mzake. Komabe, msungwanayo amakumana ndi mnyamata yemwe ali ngati sutukesi - ndipo kuuponya ndikumvetsa chisoni, ndikunyamula kwambiri. Koma mnzako watsopanoyo amamukondanso kwambiri ndipo sakufuna kutaya, chifukwa, monga mwamuna wabwino kwambiri, ndipo iye, wachiwiri, wamutopa kale ndi nsanje yosatha.
Zingakhale bwino pomwepo kuti tipewe maubwenzi akale ndikukwanira mu chibwenzi chatsopano, koma mtsikanayo akuwopsya, pambuyo pake, pali zaka zoposa zitatu za ubale, koma pali miyezi itatu yokha ya chibwenzi. Zowonekera ndi zodziwika bwino motsutsa chirichonse chatsopano ndipo chotero chowopsyeza. Kwa mtsikana uwu ndi vuto lalikulu, kotero iye amapukusa mutu wake ndi iyeyo ndi okwera pamahatchi ake. Ndipo wokonda wosauka kwa zaka zana akufunsa kuti: "Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Sindingathe kuchita izi ... "
Kawirikawiri, kupereka malangizo osiyanasiyana sizolondola, chifukwa chochitika chirichonse chiri chokha ndipo palibe chabe "maphikidwe a chimwemwe" onse. Koma ngati mukufuna, mungathe kugawira zomwe munakumana nazo, ndipo zili kwa aliyense - momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mfundoyi. Monga akunena, ndibwino kuti mudziwe zolakwa za anthu ena, ndipo popeza "mutu" wa "katatu", ndithudi, aliyense wa ife amayenera kuphunzira, ndikupatseni inu munthu wanga monga chitsanzo chowonetsera komanso momwe mungapangire bwino kuchokera ku triangle katatu.
Nthano yomwe ine ndikuwuzani tsopano ndi yophweka kwambiri. Pambuyo pa zaka zitatu ndikuchita ndi mnyamata wina yemwe adandichitira nsanje chifukwa cha nsanamira iliyonse, komanso pambali pake, anandiika maofesi ake ambiri, ndikukumana naye. Iye ananena mawu oterowo! Anawerenga ndakatulo zimenezi! Ndipo zotamanda zake? Inde, sindinali ndi maganizo otere m'moyo wanga, anali m'mabuku ndi mafilimu okhudza chikondi! Zotsatira zake, mutu wanga unali kuyendayenda, mbalame zikuyimba mmoyo mwanga, maso anga adawona maluwa okha, miyendo yanga sinakhudze pansi, pena paliponse zokhala ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana zachikondi.
Mtambo wochepa wokha womwe uli pafupi kwambiri - mkazi wake wamwamuna wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi. Koma sindiri tinthu, ndimamva kuti mwana wamng'ono amafuna bambo, kotero sindikanatengera mwamuna wanga kunja kwa banja. Ndipo kuti iye ali bwino ndi ine muzinthu zonse, chabwino, kodi ndi vuto langa kuti mkazi wake ndi wongopeka. Mwinamwake, kunali koyenera kuchoka pa chiyanjano pamtunda umenewo, ndipo chirichonse chikanakhala bwino: patapita nthawi, ndimangokhala wotopa ndi kukhala mbuye yekha, ndipo ine ndikhoza kumusiya, kapena iye mwiniyo anayambitsa mpumulo. Mulimonsemo, maubwenzi amenewa adzakhala abwino - aliyense wa ife ankadziwa malamulo a masewerawo ndipo akhoza kutuluka nthawi iliyonse. Zikuonekeratu kuti mawu otere a funsoli ndi oganiza bwino komanso odalirika, ndipo wokondedwa wanga amadziona ngati wokondana kwambiri, kotero kuti ubale wathu unakula bwino kwambiri ndi zochitika zowopsya. Ndizodziwika, sichoncho?
Ndipo tsopano malangizo othandiza kuthetsa katatu wachikondi. Kamodzi kokha, muyenera kuyesa mwatcheru mwayi wanu pankhondo yomwe mukukumana nayo ndikudziŵa bwino malo omwe mumakhala. Chowonadi chakuti mbali za katatu ndi zofanana, ziri zoona zokha mu masamu, ndipo mwachikondi, ngakhalenso chidutswa cha katatu chachisanu ndi chiwerengero chosowa chachikulu, kodi tinganene chiyani za equilateral.
Muyenera kuyesa magalasi anu a pinki kwa kanthawi kochepa, kotero kuti kuyang'ana mwachidwi kungayang'ane chinthu cholakalaka, kapena mwangoyenera kutembenuka ndi kuchokapo, kuti musadandaule kuti nthawi yawonongeka popanda cholinga. Tiyenera kuyesetsa kuthetsa katatu wachikondi. Talingalirani kwa kanthawi zomwe zikanati zichitike ngati atasudzula mkazi wake, ndiye kuti mwazindikira kuti uyu si munthu yemwe mungakhale naye, komanso kuti mukufuna kubereka mwana.
Simukusowa kuti muzisintha kuti muzitsatira zomwe mukuyembekeza, muzikhala nokha ndipo choyamba muzitsatira zofuna zanu, osati kupangidwa ndi mfundo za wina. Chotsani vuto lopondereza nthawi zonse.
Inu simungalole kuti muzinyengedwa ndi kudyetsedwa ndi malonjezo osasangalatsa, ngati inu mukumverera kusayera kwawo.
Musayambe kuchotsa maganizo a ena kapena anthu omwe ali pafupi ndi inu. Pokhala chitsogozo chenichenicho kuchitapo kanthu, iwo sali abwino, koma ngati kuyesa kuchokera kwa phwando losakondedwa ali ndi phindu lalikulu. Kuchokera kunja ndi mkati, chinthu chirichonse chimatha kuoneka mosiyana, komanso ngakhale ubale wa anthu, ngakhale mochuluka.
Ndipo, potsirizira pake musati muchepetse mbali yachitatu ya katatu, zomwe mumakonda kudziwa pokhapokha. N'zosakayikitsa kuti iye (kapena) adzangotenga malo, ndipo amangodikirira kuti khadi likhale pansi. Ngakhale pamene inu ndi wokondedwa wanu (kapena mbuye wanu) muli pamtundu winawake pamudzi wa anthu osavomerezeka, ndiye kuti pali mwayi waukulu kwambiri kuti nkhaniyo idzangokhalapo. Ndiye kuchotsa katatu chikondi kumakhala kosavuta kuposa momwe mukuganizira.
Ndipo mochedwa kwambiri. Pano munthu akhoza kutembenukira kwa iwo amene amapanga "katatu" mkhalidwe pawokha: khalani olimba mtima kuti muzindikire kuti muli omasuka kutenga maudindo atatu pa zochitika zanu, komanso zomwe awiriwo akufuna inu munali ndi chikhumbo cholowerera mu masewerawo. Musawakakamize kuti apange chisankho cholakwika ndi cholakwika ("Dzifunseni nokha, kodi ndikukufunani mavuto otere?"). Ndi inuyo amene muyenera kusankha ndi kusankha zomwe muyenera kuchita ndi kuchotsa triangle chikondi.