Nkhanza za mwamuna, kukhala bwanji?

Nkhanza, bwanji ngati izo zinachitika? Ngati m'moyo mwanu mwagogoda kugulitsa, yesani kumvetsa mwamuna wanu. Nchifukwa chiani iye anachita izi? Kodi munachita chiyani? Yesani kulankhula naye. Musamafulumire kuganiza. Mu moyo wathu pali mavuto ambiri, ndipo tiyenera kupita ndi ulemu kuchokera pazochitika zilizonse. Choyamba musataye kudzidalira. Musachedwe kukauza aliyense mndandanda wa chiwonetserochi. Popeza mungathe kumukhululukira wokondedwa wanu ndikuganiza momwe abwenzi anu adzakuyang'anirani ndi grin yoipa. Yesetsani kuthetsa vutoli nokha kapena funani thandizo kwa katswiri wamaganizo.

Zoonadi, kupandukira munthu pafupi ndi inu kumakuvutitsani kwambiri. Ubale wanu wagwedezeka ndipo simungathe kumukhulupirira, monga kale, koma momwe mungakhalire? Kubwezeretsa zonse zomwe mumafunikira nthawi ndi chidwi chake.

Kuti mumvetsetse chifukwa chake panali chiwombankhanza, ndikupanga chisankho choyenera, mudzibweretsereni mu mtendere wamumtima. Lowani masewera, pitani paulendo, pitani kukagwira ntchito ndi mutu wanu. Ndipo pokhapokha ngati mutha kuwona bwino mungathe kuyang'ana mozama za vuto lomwe lachitika patsogolo panu.

Musaganize mofulumira mu chikhalidwe chokhudzidwa. Kusankha momwe tingachitire ziyenera kukhala nthawi yaitali kwambiri. Mu mkhalidwe uno, pali maulendo ambiri. Musathamangitse kuti musiye ubwenzi wanu mwamsanga, si njira yokhayo yomwe ingachokere kuvuto lovuta.

Ngati mumakonda munthu wanu, chitanipo kanthu. Limbikitsani kuyesetsa kwanu kuti mukhale osangalala. Sinthani chithunzi chanu, zochita zanu. Yesani kusunga awiri anu. Khalani odziimira, motero mungathe kukopa munthu wanu wolakwika. Ndipo ubale wanu udzatulukanso ndikukhala wamphamvu.

Khalani chinsinsi kwa iye. Dzilimbitseni nokha ndi zomwe mukuchita. Kambiranani, monga kawirikawiri momwe zingathere, ndipo mutatha kuwoneka mwadzidzidzi ndikupanga chikondi. Kwa iye izo zidzasokonezeka maganizo, pambuyo pake adzadzimva kuti ndi wolakwa ndipo adzayamba kulakwa kuti wasintha iwe. Iye nthawi zambiri amaganizira za iwe, adzalota kukomana ndi kuti udzamukhululukira. Ndipo pa nthawi imeneyo adzamvetsetsa kuti mkazi amene akumuyembekezera kwa nthawi yaitali akukhala pafupi naye.

Ndithudi, chiwembu ndikutayika kwakukulu kokhulupirira, kutaya chikondi, kukhulupirika. Ngati ubale wanu uli wolimba, ndiye kuti panthawi yake mudzayanjanitsa. Ngati malingalirowo sali amphamvu, musawagwire, ngati udzu woumira.

Chiwonongeko chingakhale kutha kwa ubale wanu, ndi chiyambi. Chisankho ndi chanu.