Moona, kodi muli ndi machimo oterowo? Mmodzi mwa iwo akhoza kuopseza moyo wanu wapamtima, koma musachite mantha - zonsezi zikhoza kutetezedwa. Ngati mukufuna kukhala mbuye wake wabwino, osanena kuti mumakhala osangalala, perekani zogwirizana ndi zokambirana zathu.
Cholakwika 1: Kunyansidwa
Anthu ambiri ali ndi zipsinjo zowononga kwambiri. Komabe, n'zoonekeratu kuti kukana mnzanu pazogonana ndiko kulakwitsa kosakhululukidwa. Mzimayi yemwe amadumphira pambali mita, ngati dontho la umuna lingawonongeke pokhapokha ngati kuli kofunika, lidzatsogolere mndandanda wa 'Mndandanda wa Akazi Sindidzagona Nanso'. Kodi munthu angamufikire bwanji munthu ndi mphuno lakuda ndi nkhope yokhota?
Gonjetsani izi
Ngati mukudandaula za fungo - za izo kapena za zanu-pangani pazomwe mutangosamba. Mudzapewa mavuto ndi chifuwa chachikulu ngati mutagwiritsa ntchito phula pamene mukuyendetsa ndondomekoyi (mwachitsanzo, pamene munthu ayima patsogolo panu ndikukhala pabedi). Ponena za kumeza kwa umuna, amuna ambiri saganizira ngati simungapereke, mpaka mutapatsa chisankho. Ngati ndi choncho, yesetsani kusuntha pang'ono ndikupitiriza kukondweretsa ndi dzanja lanu, kuti umuna uwononge thupi lanu kapena thupi lanu. Inde, wina angadetse, koma kugonana nthawi zonse kumagwirizana ndi izi. Ndipo mwamsanga mutha kuvomereza kuti pamene mutagonana, mumatuluka thukuta ndikudetsedwa, ndipo mapepala amatha ndimadetsedwa.
Chidwi 2: Kuopa Ziyesero
Kodi mnzanu akufuna kuti inu muzivala ngati waitress? Kudya mkate wa keke pamphuno mwake? Sewani dokotala? Musalole kuchita zomwe mumachita - mantha, ndipo m'malo mofunsa kuti: 'Kodi ndiwe dziko liti?', Ganizirani momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito malingaliro ake. Tonse tili ndi zizindikiro zosiyana, malingaliro ndi zikhumbo, bwanji osasangalatsa? Chifukwa chakuti 'wamba! munthuyo sakuwoneka ngati akufuna? Ndani amasamala? Mpaka palibe yemwe avulala, mwakuthupi kapena m'maganizo, ndipo izi sizikhala zowonjezereka (kenako zimatembenukira ku fetus), khalani olimbikira komanso yogwira ntchito. Palibe chofulumira kupha moyo wa kugonana, ngati mnzanu yemwe amakana kupita kudera lamtendere la chitonthozo cha kugonana. Ngati mumakana nthawi iliyonse yomwe imapereka chinachake chatsopano, mumatumiza uthenga womveka bwino: Zosangalatsa zanu ndi zosowa zanu sizili zofunika kwa ine. Mutsutseni pamene akupereka chinachake choipa kapena 'choipa', ndipo mungatsimikizire kuti sadzaperekanso chilichonse chosangalatsa.
Gonjetsani izi
Tengani mawu otere monga cholembera: 'Ngati sindikuona zachiwerewere zomwe wokondedwa wanga akunena, koma sindingathe kuziganizira, ndikuyesera.' Ngati iwe, m'malo mwake, ulosera njirayo kuposa kuyesera, yesetsani kuvomereza mzimu wa zomwe amapereka - masewera ndi maudindo, zonyansa, ndi zina zotero. - koma ndi kusintha kwina. Kapena mungotanthauzira kuyesera kwina, kotero (a) sadzakhumudwa, (b) mukulitsa zogonana zanu.
Cholakwika 3: Kusadziŵa thupi langa
Azimayi ambiri amafika pachimake choyamba, chifukwa, mosiyana ndi amuna, zimakhala zosavuta kupeza. Pamene akudzilimbana yekha kuti asakhale ndi erection pa sitima, kapena akuwerengera kuchokera ku 500 mpaka 1 mukalasi, kuti asapezeke manyazi, atsikana amachita mwakachetechete zinthu zosiyana. Timadzibisa tokha mu chipinda chakuda, ndikuyesera kuzindikira 'mabatani' omwe amafunika kupanikizidwa, kuti amvetsetse momwe tingachitire izi, tisanalowe naye. Zoopsa? Inde. Koma, zonsezi ndi zoyenera: Amayi 95% omwe amatsutsa maliseche angathe kukwaniritsa njirayi. Mwa njira, ngati ndinu mkazi yemwe sanachitepo maliseche, pali mwayi waukulu kwambiri kuti simunayambepopo.
Gonjetsani izi
Ngati simukukwaniritsa zolinga zomwe mukufuna kuzikwaniritsa, yesetsani kumvetsetsa. Yesetsani njira zosiyanasiyana zobweretsera maliseche, pogwira, kufikira mutapeza zabwino komanso zoyenera kwa inu ndi mnzanuyo. Samalani pa nthawi yogonana. Kumbukirani zomwe mumakonda komanso zomwe simukuzikonda. Ganizirani za okondedwa anu akale, kuganizira za zatsopano mpaka mutatsimikiza kuti muli ndi mapu omwe mumawakonda pazogonana. Komanso, pewani ziyembekezo zopusa zimene simukuyenera kuchita pa moyo wanu wa kugonana. Tonsefe tikufuna kuyembekezera kuti kugonana koyenera 'kudzawonekera palokha,' mu njira yamatsenga. Koma zoona zake n'zakuti, pokhala ndi zaka 6 mu ubale ndi mwamuna, mukhoza kumva njala yomweyo, komanso miyezi isanu ndi umodzi mutatha chibwenzi. Nchifukwa chiyani timavomereza kuti nkhope zathu ndi matupi athu amakalamba pakapita nthawi, ndipo tikuyenera kugwira ntchito kuti tizisunga bwino, pamene tikukhulupirira kuti moyo wathu wa chiwerewere ndi waumwini sufuna khama kuchokera kumbali zonse ?
Dziwani kuti muyenera kugwira ntchitoyi, ndipo mudzakhala ndi zotsatira zabwino komanso zamuyaya.
Cholakwika 4: Kupanda kuyambitsa
Ngati mukuyembekezera nthawi zonse kuchokera kwa mnzanu, mumataya zambiri. Mphamvu zanu ndi zoyamba zanu zingakhale zosangalatsa kwambiri. Cholinga cha kugonana, ngati si zachilendo kwa inu, chingathe kudzutsa ngakhale chilakolako chakugona tulo. Pezani mnzanuyo kuti 'asateteze', mudzasangalala kuti amasangalala kwambiri.
Gonjetsani izi
Tengani njila yoyamba nthawi zonse momwe mungathere - pitirizani kugonana, ngakhale mutakhala wolimba kwambiri ndipo mukufuna. Anthu ndizo zizoloŵezi: matupi athu amakonda boma linalake, chifukwa limapangitsa kuti moyo ukhale wovuta m'dziko lovuta. Tsiku lililonse, idyani chakudya chotsatira cham'mawa, ndipo mutatha kugula masiku atatu kapena anayi ndipo pali chofufumitsa. Thupi lanu lidzadikirira chinthu chokoma ndi chovulaza (ndipo m'chiuno mwanu chidzakhala chokwanira ndi chokwanira, koma izi sizikugwiranso ntchito). Mukakhazikitsa nthawi yambiri ndipo nthawi zonse mumalandira zilonda zamkati, thupi lanu lidzazolowereka kufunafuna chizoloŵezi chake. Ndikofunika kudzikakamiza - ngati palibe chifukwa chabwino, ndiye zindikirani kuti muyenera kulimbikitsa libido yanu.
Cholakwika 5: Mumasokonezeka mosavuta
Tonse tinadutsamo. Mphindi imodzi mumadandaula ndikubuula mopanda mantha, ndipo mwadzidzidzi timayamba: kodi tinganene, kuti tilengeze mawu osakondweretsa? Ndipo ndani, kuphatikizapo kuwala, sanapeze kuti msambo wayamba kale, ndi kuti bedi limawoneka ngati nkhondo?
Gonjetsani izi
Zosokoneza, koma zachiwerewere nkhani zachiwerewere zochuluka - ndipo sizomwezo. Tikulimbana ndi chinachake chomwe chimatipangitsa kuti tiyandikane ndi wina ndi mzake, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mwakukhoza kuti mutapatukana wina ndi mnzake zimakhala zochepa. Fungo lochokera pakamwa, fungo la thupi, ziwalo za thupi lanu zomwe zimayamba "kulankhula chinenero chanu" - pali zambiri zomwe zingatheke kuti "mutayike" zomwe mungakonde kupewa pamene muli pamodzi m'chipinda chimodzi kuti muwoneke wokongola. .