Pambuyo pake, palibe chovuta pa zokambirana zanu. Koma pazifukwa zina, amai ambiri akuyesera kupeza mayankho onse m'mabuku ndikupempha thandizo kwa bwenzi. Koma osati kukamba za kugonana ndi mwamuna.
Amayi ambiri amangoopa kunena za zilakolako zawo. Koma ngati zonse zili choncho, yesetsani kulankhula zakukhosi kwanu kwa okondedwa anu popanda mawu. Kungotenga ndi kumuwonetsa momwe mumamukondera kapena kumuwonetsera masewera osazolowereka.
Mukhoza kupanga zambiri kuti mumusangalatse. Komanso mungamulembere kalata, yomwe imalongosola maloto omwe mumalota komanso zonse zomwe zikufotokozera zomwe zinachitika pamenepo. Potero, mungamuuze, mukufuna chiyani ndikumuitanira kuti maloto anu akwaniritsidwe. Ndipo onetsetsani kufotokozera m'kalata yanu kuti ndinu munthu wokoma mtima wotani, zomwe mumamva bwino nazo ngakhale m'maloto. Mwamuna adzakondwera ndi matamando, ndipo adzakondwera kuzindikira maloto anu.
Yesetsani kufotokozera mwamuna wanu za ubwino wanu pamene mukugonana naye. Muuzeni zomwe munamva ndiye ndi zomwe mumaganiza. Ndikhulupirire, mwamuna wanu adzasangalala kwambiri kumva zonsezi komanso kuti ndiye amene angakupatseni chisangalalo chotero. Ndipo nthawi yotsatira adzayesanso kuti akusangalatse inu ndikukwaniritsa maloto anu.
Musaope kulankhula, kusiya zofooka zanu zonse, maloto ndi zongopeka, phunzirani kukondwa kulankhula ndi mwamuna wanu.
Pali nthawi pamene munthu ayamba kukakamiza maganizo ake, koma simukufuna kuchita ayi. Muyenera kuyesetsa kumudziwitsa mwamunayo kuti simungasangalale ndi izi ndipo simungamasuke. Ndipo khulupirirani ine, iye adzakumvetsani, ndipo inu mukhoza kupereka zofuna zanu kwa munthu wokondedwa wanu. Eya, ngati ndinu munthu sakufuna kumvetsetsa, dziwani nokha munthu amene mumakhala ndi idyll yathunthu.
Tsopano, chifukwa cha nkhani yathu, mukudziwa momwe mungalankhulire ndi mwamuna za kugonana.