Chibwenzi chenicheni pamabuku a nyuzipepala omwe anatsogolera ku ubale komanso kulengedwa kwa banja ndizosawerengeka, koma sizingatheke. Taganizirani njira ina iliyonse ya chibwenzi. Mwachitsanzo, chibwenzi pa msewu. Ndi mabanja angati omwe amalenga ndi kukhala mosangalala atatha chibwenzi? Ndikhulupirire, osati kwambiri. Ndipo iwo omwe ankadziwa pa intaneti? Palibenso ambiri mwa iwo, ngati muwerengera chiwerengero cha anthu omwe simukuwadziwa bwino komanso omwe akuwayendera bwino. Choncho, njira yothetsera chibwenzi ndi yosafunika kwenikweni! Simudziwa kumene mungapeze chikondi chanu komanso momwe mungapezere. Koma chinthu chimodzi chikuwoneka bwino - ngati mutakhala pansi ndi manja anu ndikudikirira kuti wokondedwa abwere kudzagogoda pakhomo panu, mukhoza kuyembekezera mpaka zaka 50, kapena kuyembekezera! Thandizani okondedwa anu kukupezani! Pezani chibwenzi pazofalitsa za nyuzipepala.
Njira imeneyi yodziŵiratu ili ndi ubwino wambiri. Choyamba, mungathe kusonyeza m'ndondomeko yoyenera ya munthu, ngakhale kutalika kwake kapena kulemera kwake. Mothandizidwa ndi izi mudzadula anthu ambiri osayenera, omwe simungakonde mukakumana nawo. Onetsetsani kuti muwonetse zaka zanu, kulemera kwake ndi kutalika kwake. Lembani nokha kuti ndinu wokongola, wokongola komanso wokongola sikofunika. Choyamba, iwo amalembera m'masewero onse asungwana, ngakhale osangalatsa komanso osangalatsa kwambiri, kotero munthu uyu samadabwa. Chachiwiri, mwamuna aliyense ali ndi zokonda zake zokha za kukongola kwazimayi, muziyamikira kukongola kwanu, chikhalidwe komanso makhalidwe ena pamene mukukumana. Pofotokoza zofunika kwa wokondedwa wanu wamtsogolo, mungathe kulemba-wamtali kapena osapitirira kufooka, popanda kusonyeza kutalika kwake ndi kulemera kwake. Ngati ndikofunikira kuti mukhale ndi maphunziro apamwamba, ntchito, nyumba zanu - zonse ziwonetseni, musachite manyazi. Lolani inu muwatane amuna ochepa, koma oyenera. Onetsetsani kuti mulembe za kusowa kwa zizoloŵezi zoipa zoipa za amuna.
Kumapeto kwa kulengeza, lowetsani nambala yanu ya foni. Zabwino kwambiri, ngati mutsirizitsa nambala yanu kuti ndi zofunika kutumiza MMS ndi chithunzi ndi nkhani yeniyeni. Kotero, nthawi yomweyo mudzawona zithunzi za amuna ndi zowonekera kuchokera kwa iwo omwe sakusangalatsani.
Nyuzipepalayi yapangidwa kuti ikhale omvera ambiri, ndipo pamutu wakuti "Kugonana" amuna amayang'ana omwe mwadala mwadala, ndipo ambiri mwadzidzidzi, ndipo powona malonda omwe ali nawo chidwi, asankha kuyesa chomwe chidzabwere. Choncho, ndikhulupirire, adzalemba SMS, MMS komanso anthu ambiri adzakuitanani. Koma ndikufulumira kukuchenjezani kuti kuchokera mndandanda wonsewu, mutatha kulankhulana pa foni, makalata pa SMS, misonkhano, padzakhala owerengeka chabe, mwina 2-3 opempha. Koma kodi mukufunikiradi zambiri? Timafuna mmodzi yekha, wokondedwa ndi wachikondi!
Ndikukulangizani kuti mukhale ndi bukhu lapadera limene mungalembe mayina, manambala a foni a amuna omwe anakuitanani, komanso mauthenga omwe munawapeza. Nthawi yomweyo sungani manambala pafoni yanu ndipo makamaka ndi chithunzi kuti musasokonezeke. Kumeneko mudzalemba ndi omwe, ndi liti pamene munagwirizana pa tsiku, kuti musaiwale. Ndikhulupirire, padzakhala mayitanidwe ambiri, SMS, maulendo. Ndipo mpaka mutasankha pa "zokondedwa", bukhuli lidzakuthandizani kusokonezeka.
Kwa mafunso a amuna, ndi anthu angati omwe amavomereza ku malonda anu, osanena zambiri, komabe akuwotcha mpikisano wawo, akunena kuti atatu okha ndi omwe mudzakumane nawo ndikudziŵa bwino. Ngati mutenga makalata ochokera kwa amuna omwe sakugwirizana ndi zofuna zanu, mwachitsanzo, odzaza kwambiri, ochepa msinkhu kapena omwe alibe chochita ndipo akufuna kungoyankhula pafoni, samangoyankhula nawo, musatenge nthawi.
Kumbukirani, kukondana kwenikweni, misonkhano yeniyeni idzakuthandizani kupeza lingaliro la munthu, kotero musazengereze kukambirana kwa foni, koma mukambirane.
Chibwenzi chenicheni pamabuku a nyuzipepala sikwanira, komabe izo zimachitika! N'zotheka kuti mudzakhala osangalatsa kwambiri, ndipo mutatha kukwatirana ndi wokondedwa wanu mudzapita ku ofesi ya ofesi pamodzi kuti ndikuthokozeni chifukwa cha mnzanuyo, mwinamwake adzalemba nkhani yokhudza inu mu nyuzipepala imeneyo!