Ambiri amadziŵa kale lingaliro limeneli monga kugonana. Ndi chiyani ndi zomwe iwo amadya, zowonekera kale. Ngakhale madokotala sangathe kusankhapo. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi sizogonana, koma chikondi chenicheni, anthu awiri osadziŵa amafuna kudzidzimutsa m'dziko lachikondi, mwinamwake, ubale weniweni? Limenelo ndi funso lokhalo lomwe linakhala lotseguka: mtundu uwu wa kugonana - ndi woipa kapena wabwino?
Kodi ndi zoipa? Chabwino, zikhale zabwino kwambiri. Gwirizanitsani, chifukwa mothandizidwa ndi zenizeni mungathe kudzipeza nokha ku chilumba chosakhalamo ndi Lachisanu, mukhoza kupita ku Venetian kuti mumenyane nawo ku Casanova ... Kuthamanga kwa malingaliro ndi kwakukulu, ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, zimadalira inu! Ngati mukufuna - 1 wokondedwa, mukufuna - 2. Ndipo mwa njira, palibe zotsatira, monga matenda, maudindo, kulandira masokosi. Zolemba zina.
Zochitika zenizeni zenizeni (zogonana kwenikweni) zimati izi ndizojambula zenizeni, osati maulendo pa malo amaliseche monga ena amaganizira. Uku ndiko kugwirizana kwenikweni kwa miyoyo, matupi ndi chithandizo cha ma TV ndi matekinoloje amakono.
Mwa njira, kodi simunadziwe kuti kugonana kwa mtundu umenewu kunalipo kale pa unyamata wa agogo-agogo-agogo aakazi anu? Palibe zopusa, panthawiyo nthawi yomweyo chithandizo choterechi chinkawerengedwa ngati tsamba lofala kwambiri. Werengani zowerengeka, zili ndi zolemba zambiri, ziwerengedwe.
Pakapita nthawi, teknoloji inayamba ndipo chipangizo cha telefoni chinawonekera chomwe chinatsegula njira zogonana. Ndipo poyamba, matelefoni anali atakhala kumbuyo kwa mafoni, omwe amagwirizanitsa mitima mu chikondi, koma kenako kugwirizana koteroko kunasanduka payekha. Ndipo apa ubale weniweni unayamba. Ndizolakalaka, ndi zokhumba, ndi mau otupa ... Kodi ndinganene chiyani za kugonana pa foni, zomwe atsikana akupereka, akulonjeza kuti akutsutsana ndi chiwawa.
Kodi mukukumbukira achikunja? Kodi ndi mauthenga otani omwe angasinthane ... Ma SMS omwewo ali pa foni yam'manja, yomwe imapangitsa malingaliro ndi malingaliro awo. Ndipo mwayi ukadakhala nawo nthawi yosavuta kwambiri. Koma ndibwino bwanji kuwerenga, kulingalira, kulumikiza, kuyika makatani a foni ...
Ndipo tsopano ndi nthawi yolemberana makalata a intaneti, ICQ, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, maofesi. Bwerani, sankhani chilichonse ndikulankhulana ndi zosangalatsa, mubwere ndi nthawi iliyonse, malo, kulenga dziko lanu, kukhala omangamanga ndi kuchita. Mwa njira, ngati mukuzikonda, mukhoza kupanga banja lenileni m'tsogolomu, kupindula kwa ofesi yolembera ya kulembetsa ukwati weniweni ndi.
Mawu omalizira pa chitukuko cha kugonana komweku ndikumbuyo mauthenga a kanema. Apa chirichonse chiri pafupi monga mu dziko lenileni. Mungathe kuyang'ana pa interlocutor, kulankhulana kudzera mu kanema yamakanema ndikusangalala ndi kuyesedwa kwatsopano.
Kodi tsogolo lake ndi lotani? Pano, monga kwina kulikonse, akutsogolera ku Japan. Amapanga zipangizo zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito ndi ogwiritsa ntchito, kutumiza zovuta, zomwe zikutanthauza, kukupsompsonana, zopsopsona zidzakhala zoonekeratu komanso zooneka bwino, ndipo kugwira ntchito yogonana kumakhaladi weniweni. Pano mungathe kusintha kayendetsedwe ka kayendetsedwe kake, ndi mphamvu ya kuponderezana ... Mwa kuyankhula kwina, kupita patsogolo siimaima, ikukula mwamsanga kwambiri. Aliyense akhoza kupeza chisangalalo, kufika komwe akufuna, ndi kudzuka zomwe akufuna kwa nthawi yaitali, koma zomwe adachita mantha.
Ndipo mwinamwake sizogonana, koma chikondi, ngakhale ziri bwino?
Iyo inali ora lachiwiri la usiku, iye anali atakhala pa kompyuta, pang'onopang'ono akugona patsogolo pa chowunika. Iye anali kumuyembekezera iye. Pomwe amadziwa kuti sangabwere lero, koma mtima wake sunafune kukhulupirira. Ankafunikira iye, tsiku lililonse popanda iye anali wopweteka kwambiri komanso wopweteka. Anakhala pakompyuta ndipo adadzifunsanso funso lomwelo - ndi chiyani? Chikondi? N'chifukwa chiyani zili choncho? Pambuyo pake, iye ankaganiza zinthu zonse mosiyana. Iye anakumbukira tsiku limene, pofufuza zowonjezera zofunika, ine ndinawona msonkhano wosawonongeka umene ine ndinakomana naye Iye. Iye sanali kalonga. Ochkarik-wophunzira, nayenso pafupifupi zaka 10 zachinyamata. Komabe, poyamba sanadziwe izi. Umenewu ndi kusiyana pakati pa kuyankhulana pa intaneti. Iwo anali achisangalalo basi. Iwo ankalumikiza maola angapo patsiku, osadziwa nthawi. Ndiye izo sizinali zokwanira kwa iwo mwina. Ndipo sadzaiŵala "moni" wake woyamba pa foni. Nthawi zambiri zatha kuchokera pamenepo. Anazindikira kuti chilichonse chimene amamva ndi chikondi. Izi ndi zodabwitsa komanso zosamvetsetseka. Komabe ndi chikondi. Amamva bwanji? Anaganiziranso izi kangapo, ndipo ngakhale kuwerenga maganizo kwa amayi ndikumvetsetsa pang'ono, koma pazifukwa zina amaganiza kuti amamva chimodzimodzi. Nchiyani chimamuwopsyeza iye? Msonkhano woyamba ukuwopsya. Icho, ndithudi, chikusunthira kale mu nthawi, chifukwa pali makilomita zikwi pakati pawo. Ndipo komabe iye amawopa iye, chifukwa amamvetsa mmene caricatured adzayang'anirana pamodzi pamoyo weniweni. Kuphatikizanso apo, akuopa kwambiri kuona zokhumudwa pamaso pake. Ndipo nthawi zonse iye amazunzidwa ndi funso lomwelo - momwe angapitirire?
Nthawi yatsopano imayambitsa mikhalidwe yatsopano. Tsopano, chikondi chingagwidwe mu kukula kwa intaneti. Ndipo sizosadabwitsa-ndi zosavuta kulankhulana pa intaneti, apa simukuopa kunena zoona za inu, chifukwa anthu sakudziwani, ndipo sikungamveka kuvala maski pamaso pa anthu omwe simungathe kuwaonanso. Koma pali zovuta zambiri. Choyamba, palibe chitsimikizo chakuti wogwirizanitsa ndi amene akuyimira. Pali nthawi zambiri zachinyengo ndi masewera oipa pazokhudza anthu ena. Chachiwiri, ngakhale munthu wodziwa bwino kwambiri pa Intaneti pamene akumana naye pamoyo weniweni akhoza kukhumudwitsa kwambiri. Sikuti nthawi zonse zidzakhala zenizeni. Ndiponsotu, pakati pa oyankhulana angakhale kutali, ndipo sikutalikirana konse m'makilomita. Ndipo ngakhale kuti podziwika kuti pali zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa pa intaneti, ndi kofunikira kuti muyese chinthu chilichonse pasanapite nthawi, kotero kuti pamapeto pake sichikutanthauza kuti ubalewu ulibe malo m'moyo wathu weniweni.