Mayi aliyense amafuna kugonjetsa mwamuna, koma sikuti aliyense amadziwa momwe angachitire. Kodi ndingabwereke potion chikondi? Kupanga opaleshoni mazana awiri apulasitiki? Chotsani okondana onse? Chikondi ndi chinthu chodabwitsa ndipo nthawi zina zinthu zachilendo zingathandize kupambana. Koma pali zowonongeka, zomwe zingaperekedwe kwa onse ofuna akazi kuti agonjetse mtima wa munthuyo.
Kwa munthu akuthamangitsani inu
Khalani okongola
Ziribe kanthu momwe akunenera, mwamuna amayang'ana kaye kaonekedwe ka msungwana, ndiyeno amamvera chidwi ndi dziko lake lauzimu. Ngati mukufuna kukopa chidwi cha munthu, yang'anani nokha. Musaiwale kugwiritsa ntchito makonzedwe, chitani masewera a m'mawa, pitani ma salons okongola. Kumbukirani mawu akuti "bwerani pansi", chifukwa mkazi ayenera kuyang'ana bwino ndipo sizidalira ngati anthu ambiri amamuwona kapena akuwona munthu mmodzi.
Khalani osiyana ndi ena
Ubwino ndi wabwino, koma usayiwale kuti pali akazi okongola kwambiri. Kwa munthu anasankha iwe, uyenera kukhala wosiyana ndi ena. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mumayenera kuthamangira kwa wovala tsitsi ndi kuvala tsitsi lanu, chifukwa izi zatha kufika ndi manja awiri oyambirira.
Tsatirani phindu
Mukuganiza kuti gait ndi nkhani yaing'ono, koma nsapato zodabwitsa ndizitsulo zidzakopa anthu. Izi ziri choncho, ndipo si choncho. Amuna adzawona miyendo yanu, koma sadzawona kuwalaness muyeso lawo. Kumbukirani kuti mkazi yemwe amadziwa kuyenda bwino mumsampha amawoneka bwino kuposa momwe mayi wachikulire omwe ali ndi nsapato amawonekera.
Sungani
Amuna amakonda atsikana atamwetulira, chifukwa ndi zabwino kulankhula ndi mtsikana wokoma mtima. Sizomwe zilibe kanthu kuti anthu okoma amafanizidwa ndi dzuwa, iwo, monga kuwala kokalamba, amapereka kutentha ndi kuwala.
Konzekerani bwino
Musalole kuti muwonekere pamaso pa mwamuna ndi tsitsi losokonezeka, muvala chovala chovala. Ngakhale mutakhala ndi maganizo oti musamveke, musagwedeze jeans yanu ndi sweti yotambasula. Lemekezani anthu omwe akuzungulirani, chifukwa amadana kuona mwamuna wosakonzekera pamaso pake. Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito mphindi 30 zokha, izi sizidzasokoneza maganizo, koma zidzakhala bwino.
Musakhale okwiya
Amuna samakonda akazi omwe amalephera kugwira ntchito. Sagwiritsidwa ntchito kukhala nyama, chifukwa amadziona ngati osaka. Penyani momwe wosankhidwa akuyesera kukugonjetsani inu, musati mudzipatse nokha za chisangalalo ichi.
Musati mukhale anzeru
Mzimayi yemwe amadziwa zonse padziko lapansi ndikuwonetsa izi mwa mwayi, samadziwika ndi munthu ngati mnzake. Adzalemekezedwa, koma sadzayesera kumanga ubale ndi iye. Ndipotu, ndizokhazikika ndipo zimadziwa zambiri kuposa zomwe zimachita. Kugonana kwakukulu ndi kovuta kugwirizanitsa ndi kuti iwo ali ovuta kwambiri mu "zochitika za amuna". Ndipotu, nkhani za amai zimaphatikizapo kusamalira ulesi m'nyumba ndi kusamalira mwanayo.
Musayerekeze kuti simukusowa amuna.
Kufikira kumatha kukopa, koma osati nthawi zonse. Pamene mkazi amasonyeza mwamuna kuti ndi kovuta kugonjetsa, ichi ndi chinthu chimodzi, ndi chinthu china, ngati mkazi amasonyeza kusayanjanitsika konse. Ndiye munthu amangosiya chiwembu ndikubwerera. Ndipo musalole kuti mupite.
Khalani okondana
Pamene muli ndi mwamuna, mumadziwa kuponya maski. Akusowa mkazi yemwe amatha kumvetsetsa ndi kumvetsera, wofewa, osati ozizira, ngakhale mkazi wokongola. Mkazi uyu amakoka anthu, chilakolako chawo sichitha nthawi yaitali, koma m'moyo samakhala wosangalala.
Dziyese nokha
Musathamangire kwa munthu woyamba amene mumakumana naye, musamangokhalira kumanga khosi kwa amuna. Muuzeni kuti siwe galu, ndipo ngati sakulimbirako mokwanira, mupita kumalo ena. Mayi amene amadziyesa yekha adzapeza munthu woti achoke.
Ngati simunasankhe momwe munthu angathamangire pambuyo panu, sankhani mofulumira - kuyitana ndi kukomana ndi munthu kwa mlungu umodzi mobwerezabwereza. Chifukwa cha zifukwa, mukhoza kupeza zifukwa zambiri. Ngati mumakhala kwa mlungu umodzi, mwamunayo adzasokonezeka ndikuganiza kuti adzakumane ndi inu. Ndipo izi ndi zomwe mukusowa.
Pogwiritsa ntchito njira izi, musamadziwe mmasewerawa - moyo uli wodzaza ndi nthawi zabwino komanso wokongola. Mulimonsemo, mumayenera kukhala osangalala.