Nchifukwa chiyani amuna amakukopana?
Kugonana ndi chiwonetsero cha chifundo ndi kukopa. Kugonana, abambo amayesa kukonzekera mtsikanayo kwa iwo okha, kumuyang'ana iye, kuti amusangalatse. Pothandizidwa ndi Kugonana, munthu akhoza kuchita zotsatirazi:
- kupeza mtsikana amene amakopeka naye.
- kungakhale chabe masewera ndi zosangalatsa kwa iye.
- kondwerani mkaziyo.
Momwe mungadziwire kuti mwamuna amakukopana ndikumvetsa zomwe munthu akufuna kuchokera kwa inu?
Mukawona kuti mwamuna amasintha tsitsi lake, amakuwombera, amamwetulira mwachinyengo - mungakhale wotsimikiza, amakulimbitsani, simungakayike. Zingowonjezereka, izi ndizowonetseratu chifundo pambali yake.
Tiyeni tiwone momwe mwamuna ayenera kukhalira, yemwe ali wovuta kwambiri pa iwe.
Mwamuna akamawombera, amawoneka kuti ndi wochenjera, woganizira, wololera, waluso kwambiri. Mphamvu zake zonse zidzatsimikiziridwa kuti zitsimikizire kwa mayiyo kuti ndiyo yekha amene angamupangitse kukhala wosangalala.
Mwamuna amasamalira mkazi, kuyesera kumusonyeza kuti munthu wake ndi wokondweretsa kwa iye. Kuwonekerana ndi cholinga chokonzekera ndi kukwaniritsa chikhulupiliro cha mtsikana.
Cholinga cha kuyesezera ndi kukweza chidwi cha umunthu wanu. Pangani icho kuti chinthu chokhumba chanu chikhumba kuti chidziwitse inu pafupi.
Kukhudza mwachidule, kumagwirizana - ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zomwe zimapereka munthu wokonda. Kukhudza munthuyo, potero timalowa mu malo ake omwe. Ndipo, ngati kukhudzidwa kwanu kukumana bwino, ndiye kuti mukuyenda bwino.
Pamene munthu amawombera, chinthu choyamba chomwe chimamupereka iye ndiwoneka, wamoyo, ndi chilakolako chosautsa. Maso ake, mukuwerenga kuti amakukondani, akulakalaka kulankhulana kwapafupi.
Amuna ozindikira samayiwala kuti akazi amakonda ndi makutu awo. Ndipo, ngati akufuna kukupezani, sangapeze mphamvu zake kuti akhale ndi mawu okoma, akuyamika. Liwu lake lidzakhala lofewa, lofatsa. Inu nokha simudzazindikira momwe mungasungunuke ndi mawu osangalatsa oterewa. Sadzayankhula mokweza, kuti mukhale pafupi naye.
Amuna kwa zaka zambiri ngati zida, kugwiritsa ntchito maphokozo. Ndipotu, mkazi nthawi zonse adzasangalala, mawu akuti: "Ndiwe wokongola lero!". Kuyamika, koma moona mtima, kusonyeza chifundo cha mwamuna, kumasula mkazi ndi kuyang'anitsitsa.
Njira inanso imene amuna amagwiritsira ntchito panthawi yokopana ndi kucheza ndi anzawo. Mayi posachedwa amakhulupirira munthu wakunja amene adzam'tamanda wosankhidwayo, osati chibwenzi chake.
Kukopana ndi luso lovuta komanso lovuta kwambiri, pamene chilakolako chosonyeza chifundo ndikukwaniritsa zolinga kuchokera kwa munthu chikuphatikizidwa ndi kukhudzidwa kwachinyengo ndi kuwerengera. Kenaka chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kupitilira ndodo, mwinamwake mutayika, chofunika kwambiri - kudalira kwanu nokha.
Dziwani kuti kugonana ndi mwamuna, sikovuta kwambiri, makamaka ngati mkaziyo nayenso amakonda kuchita masewero olimbitsa thupi. Ndi kovuta kumvetsa: kodi si womanizer?
Womanizer - mwamuna yemwe ali ndi chidwi chopeza mkazi, adzachita zonse pofuna cholinga chake. Iye nthawizonse amakhala wokoma ndi kumwetulira. Nthawi zonse amadziwa zomwe anganene ndi kuchita. Ndipo sizodabwitsa kuti pamene mkazi akomana ndi "womanizer" panjira yake, amayamba kukondana naye mpaka atakhala wopanda chidziwitso. Koma, mwatsoka, amayi ali okonzeka kwambiri kuti atangomva zomwe akufuna, amatha.
Choncho, kuyamba chiyanjano ndi mwamuna, tcheru khutu ku zochita zake ndi mawu ake. Dzifunseni nokha: kodi ndizoona mtima? Ndipo mulole, muwopsyeze kuti mukamapempha funso lokhudza moyo wake, amavomereza yankho lake.