Pali masitepe angapo omwe amathandiza kulimbikitsa ntchito zawo kwa omwe asankha kusintha miyoyo yawo, kuti kusinthaku kutheke patali kuposa tsiku limodzi kapena awiri.
Choyamba, ganizirani zifukwa zomwe mukufunira kusintha moyo wanu. Kodi simukugwirizana ndi chiyani pakali pano? Nchiyani chidzasintha, ndi kusintha kotani komwe kudzachitika? Lembani pamapepala. Ganizirani za zotsatira zosasangalatsa za kusintha. Kodi iwo adzakhala kapena ayi? Ngati ndi choncho, zotsatira zake zingatheke bwanji? Ganizirani ndi kusankha momwe mungathere ndendende ndi nthawi yomwe mukufuna kuchita kuti muyambe moyo watsopano. Kungakhale lingaliro lothandiza kupanga ndondomeko ndikuganiza ngati maphunziro aliwonse ndi ofunikira, zomwe zilipo potsata ndondomekoyi.
Zomwe zingakuthandizeni kudziwa mayankho a mafunso otsatirawa. Kodi cholinga cha moyo wanga n'chiyani? Kodi moyo wanga ndikuwunika kwambiri, ndi chiyani chomwe ndimaika patsogolo? Kodi ndikufuna kuti ndikhale ndi zaka zingapo, ndikufuna kuti ndichite chiyani? Kodi ndi zotani kuti mukwaniritse zolingazi? Ndi zopinga zotani zomwe zingayambe panjira, ndi zopinga ziti zomwe ndingakumane nazo? Kodi zopingazi zingagonjetsedwe bwanji?
Mudzapeza mtundu wa zolemba zomwe zingakuthandizireni kudziwa zomwe mumakonda kuchita komanso ndondomeko yamtengo wapatali, komanso kupanga ndondomeko yowonjezera. Ndipo munthu amene ali ndi ndondomeko, m'malo momangokhalira kuganiza, amatha kukwaniritsa zomwe akufuna komanso kuti asataye njira yomwe akufuna. Ndipo ngati munthuyo akulephera, ndondomeko yake idzamuthandiza kuti abwerere mwamsanga. Ganizirani za kuthekera kuti tsiku lina zidzakhala zovuta kuti muzitsatira ndondomekoyi. Kodi muchita chiyani ndiye? Ganizirani kachiwiri, kodi mukufunadi kusintha moyo wanu, kapena ndibwino kusiya chirichonse pamalo ake? Ganizirani za kusintha kwakukulu kwa moyo umene munakhala nako kale. Chifukwa cha zomwe, mwachita nawo chiyani? Zochitika zakale zidzakupatsani mwayi womvetsetsa nkhani yomwe ilipo tsopano. Ngati mwangoyamba kusintha moyo wanu, ganizirani ndikulemba zomwe zakhala zikuchitika kale?
Ngati mwadzidzidzi pali chilakolako chosiya chirichonse, ganizirani zifukwa zomwe munayambira zonsezi, werengani zolemba zanu. Ganizirani za zolinga zomwe mudzakwaniritse, ngati mukupitirizabe, ganizirani momwe zingakhalire zabwino kwa inu. Ngati mavuto ena akale amakulepheretsani kuti mupite kumbuyo, yesetsani kukhala panjira yanu yolondola, phunzirani ndondomekoyi, yesetseni nokha, ganizirani zabwino. Kawirikawiri pambuyo pa vuto loyamba, anthu amasiya zolinga zawo, pozindikira kuti zonse n'zovuta kuposa poyamba. Izi ndi zolakwika. Ganizirani zomwe mwakwaniritsa kale. Lekani kuchoka ku cholinga chomwe mwasankha ndikubwerera ku njira yanu yokonzedweratu. Kumbukirani kuti mphamvu zanu, wapadera ndi nzeru ziri mwa inu! Phunzirani kugwiritsa ntchito izi kusintha moyo wanu.
Ngati mukufuna kusintha, yesetsani kusiya zochitika zakale, khululukirani zolamba zakale, nenani zabwino kuzovuta. Yesetsani kukulitsa, kukhala ndi chiyembekezo, kuganiza bwino, kukhazikitsa pulogalamu ya kusintha kwanu ndi kusintha. Ngati ndi kotheka, dziwiritseni zokhazokha. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukuona kuti mulibe chitetezo, bwerezani kuti: "Ndikudzikhulupirira ndekha!" Ndipo motero. Onetsetsani chidwi chanu pazomwe mukuyenera, khulupirirani nokha, ndikudzipangira nokha kuti mupambane. Koma izi, ndithudi, sizichitika mwadzidzidzi, izi ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito, makamaka ngati tiyamba kudzigwira tokha padziko lonse lapansi, pafupifupi kusintha kwathunthu.
Ngati mukuyang'ana kufanana ndi kusintha kwanu, ndiye muchitsanzo mungathe kubweretsa kukonza m'nyumba. Choyamba inu mumataya zinyalala ndi zinyalala, phulani masamba ndi zina zotero. Kotero iwe uyenera kuti udziwonetse wekha zonyansa, zinyalala ndi fumbi, kuti ukhale ndi malo abwino oti "kuwononga". Mwa njira, ndi dongosolo mu nyumba ndi zabwino kwambiri kubweretsa. Ngati mukufuna kusintha moyo wanu, mukhoza kusintha kusintha kwa zinthu zakuthupi: kutaya zinthu zakale, kukonzanso nsalu, kusungunula mapuloteni, kukonza zodzoladzola kapena zazikulu, monga mukufunira.
Ndibwino kusintha zovala, makamaka ngati simunasinthe nthawi yaitali. Dzigulireni nokha zosinthika pang'ono, kusintha mafuta, mafuta, mukhoza kusintha tsitsi lanu. Ngati mungakwanitse, sungani zovala zanu zakale ndikuzipereka kwa othandizira, ndikukonzanso zovala zanu. Mukhoza kuganizira za kalembedwe ndi fano latsopano, yesetsani kusakanikirana kwatsopano ndi kuphatikiza. Dzigulireni nokha nsapato yatsopano, nsalu, thumba, zipangizo kapena china chirichonse. Chinthu chachikulu - kusintha ndi kusawopa kuyesera!
Yesani kusintha zizolowezi zanu kapena kusintha. Kodi mumamwa khofi m'mawa? Yesani kusinthitsa ku juzi, tiyi, koco, ndi zina zotero. Kodi mukuyenda ndi kukwera mumsewu womwewo? Yesani kusintha. Yesetsani kulowa masewera, kuyenda mochuluka, kungoyenda pamsewu.
Ganizilani zomwe munalota ndikuchita kwa nthawi yaitali, koma panalibe nthawi, palibe chikhumbo. Mwinamwake mwakhala mukufuna kulemba kuvina, kolemba tsitsi kapena kuphunzira Chiitaliya? Chitanipo kanthu. Pezani zolaula, zongolani moyo wanu, kuwonjezera pa icho chodzidzimutsa. Werengani mabuku abwino, phunzirani zinthu zatsopano, kuyankhulana ndi anthu abwino, kupanga anzanu atsopano. Mukhoza kuyesa kusintha zinthu, kupita kwinakwake kwa kanthawi, ngati n'kotheka. Yesetsani kusintha zambiri monga momwe zingathere kuti mukhale bwino, mwinamwake zinthu zowonongeka zidzakubwezeretsani inu, ku zinthu zakale komanso zachikhalidwe.
Kodi mungayambe bwanji moyo kuyambira pachiyambi? Dzikhulupirireni nokha komanso mu mphamvu zanu, musasinthe osati kunja, koma komanso mkati, kusintha maganizo anu, kulingalira kwa zinthu, kusuntha ku zolinga zokhazikitsidwa ndi kukhala osangalala!