Kodi ndizingati zomwe zalembedwa pa intaneti pazomwe mungakondane ndi mnyamata? Ambiri mwa iwo amaitana "kubwezeretsanso" mawonekedwe awo, khalidwe lawo ndi malingaliro awo, kufanikira kumalo okhwima a mkazi woyenera ndikuyesera nthawi iliyonse maskiki atsopano, kusintha maganizo a munthu wokondedwa. Koma kodi anthu akusowa chinachake chowomboledwa kapena chokhazikika? Ayi! Iwo akuyang'ana mkazi wawo wokha, weniweni ndi wosiyana. Mu kayendedwe ka zidole, palibe. Koma pali uthenga wabwino: kukondana ndi mnyamata, musasinthe makanema. Zokwanira kuti mukhale ndi luso lanu lapadera, chibadwa, mumadziwa zamaganizo a amuna a maganizo komanso mumakhalabe mkazi.
Njira Zowonjezereka Zogwirizana ndi Mnyamata
- Sengani ndikuyesedwa ndi maonekedwe anu. Akazi opusa salipo! Pali anthu omwe ali aulesi komanso osadzikonda okha. Ngakhale ngati zikuwoneka kuti chilengedwe chakulepheretsani kukongola, kumbukirani kuti miyezo ya kukongola imayenderana ndi mafashoni omwe anthu amapanga. Ndi ndani amene amakulepheretsani kupanga mafashoni anu aang'ono mabere, makutu akulu kapena miyendo yochepa? Chikondi mwa iwe mwini chimene sungasinthe, ndikusintha zomwe zakonzedwa ndi zodzoladzola, zovala, nsapato. Chikondi ndi maonekedwe anu! Khalani okha mowona mtima, ndipo mudzawona kuti mnyamata wanu adzanyalanyaza zokongola zana zokongola ndipo adzakusankha.
- Pangani umunthu. Mukhoza kukhala kukongola kolembedwa ndi kukakamiza, kumenyana ndi anthu onse pomwepo, koma nkutheka kuti mutha kukhalabe ndi mnyamata wanu wokondedwa nthawi yaitali ndi kukopa kamodzi kokha. Mayi nthawi zonse amakopa ndi "anchors" amuna ndi kuya kwake, kukhutira ndi zokhutira. Pangani! Werengani mabuku, kupita kumaphunziro ndi masemina pazinthu zodzikuza, kuyankhulana ndi anthu osangalatsa amene ali ndi chinachake choti aphunzire. Fufuzani zofunikira zanu ndikuphunzirani zapadera. Ndipo komabe, nthawi zonse mukhale ndi malingaliro anu omwe, ngakhale ngati akutsutsana ndi omwe amavomerezedwa.
- Khalani akazi ndi ofooka. Mphamvu ya amayi pokhala ofooka, amadzilolera kuti asamalire okha ndi kumupatsa munthu mpata wokwanira. Wachibwenzi wanu ndi wolimba mtima! Ichi ndi axiom. Ngakhale ngati simukuganiza choncho, lolani kuti adziwonetse yekha ndikuwonetsetsani zosiyana. Modzichepetsa mufunikira thandizo lake ndikupempha thandizo. Pangani zikhalidwe zomwe angathe kuzindikira mphamvu zake zamunthu ndi luntha. Muloleni iye, pamene akukuthandizani ndi kuteteza, amadzikulira yekha. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa nthawi zamaganizo zamphamvu kwambiri zomwe zimamudalira munthu molimba.
- Dziwani utsogoleri kwa mnyamatayu. Njira yoyamba ndi ufulu wa amuna. Ntchito yanu ndi kumutsogolera munthu ku chisankho, koma kusankha nokha (kukuitanani, kuitana tsiku, kumpsompsona, kuwuza anzanu kapena makolo) ayenera kubwera kuchokera kwa iye. Musatengere zipsinjo za ubale mmanja mwanu, mwinamwake mumakhala ndi chiopsezo chotenga udindo wa amuna ndi maudindo, ndipo izi zingakhale bwino, komanso poopsya - muwopseze munthuyo ndi kukwiya komanso kukwiya kwambiri. Amuna onse akufuna kuganiza kuti akulamulidwa ndi maubwenzi. Chabwino, aloleni iwo aziganiza monga choncho. Tikudziwa zoona!
- Admire ndi kulimbikitsa munthuyo. Khalani okha moona mtima momwe zingathere. Musati mupangire mayamiko ndipo musawonongeke poyamikira kuyambira pachiyambi. Amuna ali okhudzidwa kwambiri ndi chinyengo. Munthu aliyense ali ndi luso, luso ndi luso. Onetsetsani mphamvu za chibwenzi chanu ndikuwamvetsera mokweza. Idyani kunyada kwake kwa mwamuna ndipo musamafanane ndi chibwenzi chanu ndi amuna ena, makamaka ngati sanasonyeze makhalidwe abwino a khalidwe.
- Pangani mpikisano wathanzi. Musaganize kuti mumayamba kukondana ndi mnyamata ngati mutalenga malo osalidwa ndi amuna ena. Musatuluke mumoyo wanu abwenzi amuna, anzanu, anzanu. Perekani mnyamata wanu kumvetsetsa kuti mukusangalatsa amuna ena, kuti kwa inu muli mzere wa mafani, koma mwasankha yekhayo. Inde, musapereke zifukwa zomveka za nsanje, koma kukhala ndi mtima wotsutsana mwa mwamuna kotero kuti nthawi zonse akufuna kukhala wopambana.
- Musamafikire mosavuta. Izi sizikukhudza kugonana kokha, komanso kuzinthu zina zowonjezereka: pa intaneti zopezeka, maitanidwe, nthawi yaulere. Inde, zimakhala zovuta kudziletsa nokha mwa kukhala pachikondi. Koma kuti mnyamatayo adagwidwa m'chikondi, nthawi zonse ayenera kuphonya. Lembani masiku ena poyamba, ponena za milandu yofunika, musachedwe kuyankha pamaphunziro ake, musaitane nthawi zambiri ndipo musadzipangitse nokha. Lolani mu moyo wanu padzakhala zina zofanana ndi zokondweretsa ndi ntchito. Mnyamata ayenera kukhala ndi chilakolako chosalephera kuti akugonjetse ntchito yanu.
- Musachedwe kufotokoza makhadi. Aliyense amadziwa za kayendedwe kamasaka ka munthu. Izi ndi zoona. Choncho musathamangire kuulula kwa munthuyo m'malingaliro anu, kufikira mutamuwona kapena mumvereni kuti ali m'chikondi. Muuzeni zomwe zimakondweretsa inu, kuti muli bwino ndi odalirika pambali pake, kuti mumatopa, koma musalole kuti aganize kuti mwataya mutu wanu kuti musamamukonda. Pamene mnyamata akuyang'ana chitsimikizo cha chikondi chanu, adzikonda kwambiri. Kwenikweni, wogonjera ndi wodalirika wodetsedwa amakhala wosangalatsa.
- Musakakamize ufulu wa anthu kukhala mafelemu ovuta. Ngati muli ndi mwayi wokonda chidwi munthu amene mumamukonda, musapange zolakwika za amayi - musamachepetse ufulu wake. Ngakhale iye alibe ngongole iliyonse kwa inu. Kupititsa patsogolo, kukhazikitsa chidaliro ndikumuyang'ana atsikana ena, kuyankhulana nawo komanso kuyerekeza. Kodi angadziwe bwanji kuti sangakupezerani bwino? Kulamulira konse ndi nsanje sizinapereke umboni kwa aliyense. Khalani anzeru!
- Dziloleni nokha kukhala opanda ungwiro. Anyamata sakondana ndi atsikana abwino, koma omwe saopa kukhala okha. Dziwani kuti ndinu opanda ungwiro ndipo muzimasuka nthawi zina kuti muwonekere kwa munthu wosapangidwa, wodwala kapena wogona. Inu muli ndi ufulu wokhalabe muzochitika zilizonse monga munthu. Musazengereze kuti musadziwe kanthu kapena mumve bwino komanso wopusa. Kulankhulana kotero kumabweretsa pamodzi. Ndipo kuchita zopanda pake pang'ono ndi zosangalatsa zosadziwika. Icho chikugwirizana ndipo ndi chizindikiro cha kukhulupilira kwakukulu.