Ngati mwamuna sapereka chithandizo pambuyo pa chaka cha ubale: Malangizo opangira

"Wokondedwa, tiyeni tikwatirane, tidzakwatirana ... " "Sindikufuna kukwatira!" Ndikufuna kudya! "Tili chete, iwe uli paukwati ndipo iwe umakondana!"

Ndi njira zingati zachinyengo, njira, njira ndi machenjerero omwe anapangidwa ndi amayi kuti akope amuna okonda ufulu muukwati! Osati ambiri a iwo ali okonzeka kunena zabwino ku ufulu pawokha. Ndipo anthu omwe akulimbikira kwambiri ndi osagwedezeka amapanga mafashoni a "chikwati chokwatirana", mgwirizano wa alendo kapena chikondi chopanda ntchito. Mkhalidwe umenewu umakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi ufulu wopanda malire, mukhale mbuye wa vutoli ndipo musakhale ndi udindo wochepa. Koma amayi ambiri samagwirizana kuti akhale ndi "ufulu wa mbalame" mmalo mwa udindo wawo, ndipo atopa kuyembekezera kupereka, amapita mopitirira muyeso kapena mwachinyengo. Kuchita bwino mu nkhani yovutayi kumathandiza kudziwa za maganizo a amuna.

Nchifukwa chiani mwamunayo sakufulumira kupereka zopereka?

Palibe ndalama (bata)

Zimayamika kwambiri ngati munthu amatsatira mwambo wamakono wopanga banja: choyamba amasonkhanitsa ndalama panyumba, kenako mtengo, ndiyeno mwana yemwe adzabadwa ndi mkazi wokwatirana. Maziko olimbitsa thupi ndi ofunika kwambiri kuti azidzilemekeza yekha - ndipo anthu sachita manyazi, ndipo mwanayo adzakhala nacho cholandira. Komabe, ngati munthu ali ndi zikhulupiliro zapamwamba, koma sakugwira ntchito, akusintha udindo ku boma, mafumu ndi zina zomwe zimamulepheretsa kubwera, ndiye kuti nkhaniyi imamukwanira. Mwachitsanzo, simungakwatire.

Simunayende

Yendani monga anthu onse! Koma wina alibe unyamata, ndipo ena akuyang'ana zifukwa ndi nthawi yoti akhale "March cat" malinga ngati n'kotheka. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kuti pali msuweni wabwino, wokoma mtima, wachikondi pafupi naye amene, kwa zaka zingapo tsopano, wakhala akumugwira iye pa "denga" la anthu ena ndipo akumudikirira kuti akhalitse ndi kumupanga mkazi wokwatira. Sangachite izo! Ndi angati ozungulira mabungwe okondeka komanso amayi omwe sapezeka. Pambuyo pake, iwo sangadziwe konse kuti pali munthu padziko lapansi amene amayenda yekha, ndipo ndani amadziwa zambiri zokhudza chikondi.

Bachelor Osatha

Mwamuna amene akudwala matendawa (m'malo mwake, amasangalala), safulumira kumanga ufulu wake mwaukwati. Amayamikira kwambiri mpata wopanga zisankho zokhazikika, mosasamala kanthu za malingaliro a wina, sakonda kulongosola ndikukhala ndi udindo. Pakati pa abambo amtundu wotero mwamuna wotere akhoza kungowonjezereka ndi chikondi chachikulu. Ndipo pamene izi sizinachitike, mwamuna, ngakhale kukhala "pachikwati chokwatirana" kwa zaka zingapo, amadziona kuti ndi womasuka. Iye samasowa mkazi. Akusowa antchito osamalira.

Maganizo oipa pa ukwati

"Boma labwino silikutchedwa ukwati!" - mawu okondedwa a munthu woteroyo. Mu malo ake apamtima, palibe zitsanzo zoyenera za mabanja osangalala, kapena kuti - amuna osangalala mu mgwirizano wovomerezeka. Ndipo ngati alipo, ndiye, iwo, osadziwa, sakudziwa kumene iwo akukumana nawo. Iye ndithudi palibe amene angamveke, osamangiriza mfundo, ndipo sadzayika chidindo pa iye "wokwatira." Ziri zosavuta komanso zokondweretsa kukhala ndi ubale wotseguka: kubwera-kumapita, lero ndi limodzi - mawa ndi wina, ndipo ngati ndi limodzi, ndiye palibe masampampu mu pasipoti. Moyo ndi umodzi! N'chifukwa chiyani amawononga banja lake?

Zomwe sizinapambane

Mwamunayo anali atakwatira kale, ndipo ubale womwe unalephera unamupweteka kwambiri. Tsopano akazi onse pa dziko limodzi amachotsedwa: bitch, wogula, wogulitsa. Mkazi aliyense watsopano, iye mosamala amayang'ana makhalidwe osayenera, ndipo amapeza. Koma bwanji, yemwe akufunafuna, iye adzapeza nthawi zonse! Zikhulupiriro zake zowawa zimatsimikiziridwa, ndipo amalumbira kuti palibe maukwati ndi maubwenzi aakulu. Tsopano akugwira ntchito yoti abwezeretse amayi onse chifukwa cha anthu okhumudwa ndipo, ndithudi, palibe mmodzi wa iwo amene angamuthandize kukhala mwamuna wabwino!

Kodi mungamuthandize bwanji munthu kuti apange mwayi woyembekezera kwa nthawi yaitali?

Kukamba mtima kwa mtima

Ndikofunika kupeza kuchokera kwa munthuyo, kodi iye amadziwa ngakhale chomwe mukufuna kuti mukwatire. Mwinamwake zikuwoneka kuti kwa inu, ngati iye, sitampu mu pasipoti sizomwe zili zosafunika kwenikweni. Kapena mwinamwake akuwopa kuti akuuzeni za ukwatiwo, chifukwa simunakhudzepo pamutu uwu, ndipo akuganiza kuti adzakuopani ndi zolinga zake zakuya. Mulimonsemo, kukambirana momveka bwino kudzakuthandizani kupeza zifukwa zomveka zopanda chilungamo. Izi zidzatithandiza kuti tipitirize kukhazikitsa njira ndi luso loyenerera.

"Ukwati" wapamtima

Mudzadzipezetsa nokha ndi anzanu apamtima kapena achibale a mwamuna wanu amene ali ndi chidwi ndi banja lake. Mlamu wawo, mchimwene, mlongo kapena bwenzi lanu lapamtima akhoza kukhala othandizira anu odalirika kuti apeze udindo wawo. Awonetseni chikondi chenicheni kwa munthu yemwe alibe chidwi ndi iwo, dziwonetseni nokha ngati mzimayi wachikondi, mkazi wanzeru ndipo mupeze wina aliyense njira yomwe imakhudza moyo wawo. Ngati amvetsetsa kuti ndinu mkazi wamaloto, mwamuna wanu sangathe kulimbana ndi chiwonongeko chawo.

Kuopa imfa

Palibe chimene chimalimbikitsa kuchita zinthu mofulumira monga mantha a kuwonongeka. Ngati mwamunayo adaganiza kuti ndinu mkazi wake ndipo simungathe kuthawa, ndi nthawi yoti asonyeze kuti akulakwitsa kwambiri. Kaya ndi zizindikiro za chidwi kuchokera kwa anthu ena, kuimbira foni usiku, kukwatira kapena ngakhale kusabisa chinsinsi kwambiri - ziri kwa inu. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti munthu wanu amadziwa kuti ndinu "mankhwala" omwe amafunika kwambiri komanso mtengo wake, womwe udzatengedwa kuchokera pansi pa mphuno ngati atakhala ndi chiganizo cha dzanja ndi mtima.

Malangizo ndi kuseketsa

Mafunso otsogolera ndi zokambirana pamphumi sizivomerezeka kwa amayi onse. Ndikufuna kuyamba kuchokera kwa munthu. Sungani zofuna za amayi zidzakuthandizani chithunzi chokongola, chovala chokongoletsa. Mwachitsanzo:

Cholinga chanu

Akazi omwe sakhala ndi chizolowezi chotsatira akhala akupita kale, ndipo lero anyamata aang'ono molimba mtima amapanga munthu kupereka manja ndi mitima. Ngati mukuwopsya kuti mutengepo kanthu pa "mwamuna", mungathe kufotokozera zokondweretsazo. Mwachitsanzo, valani kansalu ndi butterfly, gulani maluwa ndi mphete yothandizira, imani pa bondo limodzi ndikuvomereza kuti mukufuna kupanga mwamuna. Kapena mungagwiritse ntchito mwambo wakale wa ku Ulaya, malinga ndi zomwe mkazi ali ndi ufulu wokhala woyang'anira kupereka kwa mwamuna pa February 29. Mwamunayo tsiku lomwelo alibe ufulu wokana.