Panthawi imodzimodziyo, nyumbayi ili ndi makonzedwe abwino kwambiri, zipangizo zamakono, zidole zokongola. Ndipo sizidziwika bwino momwe, ndi nthawi yochuluka yotereyi, abambo a banja amatha kupeza zonsezi. Zoonadi, amayi ambiri amamvera nyimbo yokongola kwambiri tsiku ndi tsiku: Moni, wokondedwa! Lero ndachedwa. Ntchito ndi ... Ayi, mozama! "Chabwino, kachiwiri," mukuusa moyo. Ndikunyoza kusamba mwana mmodzi. Ndi chamanyazi kuti mutenthe chakudya chamagetsi, chomwe chinali chodetsa nkhawa kuti mutumikire mwatsopano. Chochita ngati mwamuna ali kuntchito nthawi zonse, izi zikutanthauzanji?
Ndikanakhala wokondwa kutumikira
Pamene munthu ali wotanganidwa kwambiri ndi mwamuna wanu, zimadalira kwambiri zenizeni zamsika wamakono. Ndipo zoona zake ndi kuti kuti kampaniyo ikhale yogwiritsira ntchito malonda ake, kotero kuti ikhale yopanda ntchito komanso ikupitirizabe kupereka ntchito, iyenera kusunga ndalama zochepa zomwe ogwira ntchito akugwira ntchitoyi. Izi zikutanthauza kuti pafupifupi wogwira ntchito aliyense ayenera kugwira ntchito "kwa iye yekha ndi kwa mnyamata ameneyo." Ndipo ngakhale kwa anthu owerengeka. "Komabe, ndiyenera ... mawuwo ndi olakwika." Aliyense ali ndi kusankha. "Pali njira ina. mumsewu wopanda moyo, koma nkutheka kuti sangakonzekere mwamuna wanu ndi inu. "Chisokonezo chokhumudwitsa: wogwira ntchito osagwira ntchito wakhala pafupifupi nthawi zonse." Munthu wapamwamba akukwera mmwamba, ndiye kuti ayenera kukhala mochedwa kuntchito. Elika mkulu Napoleon ananena za iye mwini kuti anali "monga msilikali woyamba wa ufumu." Kodi ndinganene chiyani ponena za wotsogolere wogulitsa malonda? Tsogolo la kampani likudalira ntchito yake, ndipo iye mwiniwake, kotero sasowa kupuma pa laurels, koma nkofunikira kugwira ntchito kuyambira m'mawa mpaka usiku.
Kodi ndingalangize bwanji amayi omwe ali ndi abambo omwe amapanga ntchito?
• Musamuvutitse mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu ndi zifukwa zosayenera. Mwinamwake, iye mwiniyo angakhale wokondwa kupereka ntchito yochepa nthawi ndi khama lake. Koma mwa njira ina sikutheka. Landirani ichi ngati chenicheni.
• Komabe, nthawi zina kusokonezeka kwa chisokonezo cha mkazi kumakhala ngati kulimbikitsa kusintha kwabwino. Inde, mwamuna wanu sangadzutse ndi kuchoka ku bwalo la akulu pambuyo pa SMS yanu yokwiya ndi chakudya chamadzulo. Koma pamene zimadalira iye, ayesa kuti asakhale motalika kwambiri.
• Kumbukirani kuti "chimwemwe ndi pamene mukupita ndi chisangalalo kugwira ntchito m'mawa, ndipo madzulo mumabwerera mokondwa kunyumba." Ndipo theka lachiwiri la chimwemwe chimenechi limadalira inu. Mukambirane ndi mwamuna wanu ndi nkhani zokhudzana ndi zochitika za ana, chakudya chokoma komanso zopsompsona.
• Tengani nthawi yolankhula. Zindikirani zomwe mwamuna wake akuchita, ndipo mum'dziwitse za nkhani zapakhomo.
Mbuye weniweni wa chirichonse
Nkhani yosiyana - pamene bambo wa banja ali ndi bizinesi yake. Kumbali imodzi, iye ndi mbuye wakewake. Kumbali ina, iyi ndi mutu wa maola 24 komanso nthawi yosadziŵika ya ntchito. Ngati nthawi zina amabwera mofulumira kukatenga mwana wake wamwamuna ku sukulu ya kindergarten, koma patatha milungu ingapo amatha kugwira ntchito ngakhale kumapeto kwa sabata. Msinkhu wa nsanje: mwamuna - munthu wamalonda. Ndipo amapita ku nyanja, ndi galimoto yatsopano, ndi dokotala wa ana olipidwa - zonsezi ndi zotsatira zenizeni za ntchito yovuta ya Adadi. Koma simukuwona bambo anu. Simukumbukira nthawi yomaliza yomwe munayendera banja lanu. Maitanidwe onse amatsutsidwa mobwerezabwereza chifukwa cha ntchito ya mwamuna wanu. Inde pali alendo, pamene mukusowa kwambiri! Ndipo mwanayo amawona abambo pokhapokha atapunthira foni yanu ... Kodi nkotheka kuti mwanjira ina musinthe zinthu izi kuti zikhale bwino?
• Mwinamwake mungavomereze kukhala ndi ndalama zochepa, ngati mwamuna wanga angabwere kunyumba nthawi zambiri. Komabe, bizinesi sizingagwirizane nthawi zonse, popanda kukhazikitsa kapena kukulitsa. Otsutsana akubwera ndipo ali pafupi kulanda gawo lanu la msika. Pachifukwa ichi, njira yabwino yothetsera vutoli ndi kukondweretsa banja la banjalo. Kotero mudzakhala ndi mfundo zambiri zothandizira. Khalani wothandizira komanso bwenzi la nkhondo kwa mwamuna wanu.
• Pa nthawi yomweyi, lankhulani ndi mwamuna wanu ngati akusowa njira zatsopano, zomwe akugwira nawo tsopano. Mwinamwake, chinachake chingasokonezedwe bwino. Mutsimikizireni mwamuna wanu kuti mwakonzeka kuchita popanda wogulitsa nyumba komanso opanda malaya atsopano, kuchedwa ndi kumanga nyumba yachilimwe kapena kugula galimoto yatsopano (ngati ziri choncho). Mkwatibwi ayenera kukhala wotsimikiza kuti inu ndi ana anu mumamukonda, mosasamala za chiwerengero cha ngongole ndi makadi a ngongole mu thumba lake.
Pafupi ndi kujambula
Nanga bwanji za mwamuna wake amene watayika pa ntchito popanda phindu lililonse kwa banja? Choyamba, ganizirani zomwe zimamulimbikitsa? Mwina uwu ndi ntchito. Mwatsoka, anthu a ntchito zambiri zofunikira komanso zothandiza nthawizina amapindula pang'ono. Khalani wonyada pa iye. Kuwonjezera apo, asayansi ochokera ku yunivesite ya Pennsylvania posachedwapa anatsutsa nthano kuti operewera ndi okonda zoipa. Mphamvu zawo zimagwedezeka! Ngati mukufuna kusintha zinthu zakuthupi m'banja, muyenera kuyesetsa.
• Pezani mwamuna payekha.
• Fufuzani nokha ntchito yabwino. Ngati sikuli pakali pano, ndiye kuti mtsogolo.
• Kudandaula kwa mwamuna wake za ndalama zake zochepa, dziwone nokha. Masiku ano pali amayi ambiri opambana, koma mumawachitira?