"Mtsikana O'Key"
Nthawi zina ndimafuna kudzifunsa ndekha chifukwa chiyani otchedwa "Atsikana a O'Kay" akulirabe, omwe, ngakhale mavuto onse a moyo wawo, samachotsa nkhope zawo ndikumwetulira? Izi zingachititse kuti mukhale kwathunthu. Sizingakhale izi koma ayi, zonse zimachitika monga izi. Ndipo ndi chifukwa ninji chimene chimapangitsa anthu onse kukhala osangalala komanso osadandaula ndi chirichonse? Kawirikawiri, anthu oterowo amawalimbikitsa komanso amalandira aliyense mwachangu. Mukusowa malangizo - mumachipeza nthawi zonse, mukusowa thandizo lonse - simudzatsutsidwa, muyenera kulankhula, mumamvetsera nthawi zonse. Mwa mawu, munthu wotere sangakhoze kulira, chifukwa nthawizonse amakhala mu dongosolo. Komatu pano zonse zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuposa zomwe zingawoneke poyang'ana poyamba: chosiyana ndi "mtsikana O'Key" ndikumatha kukhala ndi nkhope yabwino ngakhale mu masewera oipa.
Kodi misozi imachokera kuti?
Tonsefe tikudziwa kuti masewera alionse, ngakhale abwino kwambiri, ali ndi mwayi wochita masewerawo. Ndicho chifukwa chenicheni chomwecho, kuwonetseratu kwamuyaya kwa mano awo makumi atatu ndi awiri pa madigiri mazana atatu ndi makumi asanu ndi limodzi sikuyenera kukhala chifukwa chimene mungathe kuiwala zakumverera kwachibadwa kwa muyeso. Popanda kuganiza, zotsatira zake sizingatenge nthawi yaitali kuyembekezera.
Ndipo zotsatira zake zingakhale zosiyana:
Kudzinyenga
Chinthuchi n'chakuti ngakhale mutakhala tsiku osachepera maola ochepa kwa mitundu yonse yamakono akale monga: "Ndine wabwino kwambiri," "Ndine wokonda kwambiri," "palibe wina wokongola kapena wokondwa kuposa ine", "Masiku ano ndikukulira", "Sashka potsiriza "ndipo" pusher ndichabechabechabechabe "ndipo chifukwa chake" ndili ndi zonse zabwino, "ndiye kuti simungakhale wopepuka, malipiro adzakhalabe ang'onoang'ono, magalasi onse a dziko lapansi adzakhalabe opanda vuto ndipo t . Pali zinthu zambiri padziko lapansi, zomwe zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri, kudzipangitsa kudzidzimitsa basi sikungakhudzidwe pazifukwa zomveka, ndipo izi ziyenera kukumbukiridwa nthawi zonse.
Ndi kuvala mask a-la "Ndiri ndi chokoleti chokwanira," mwinamwake timadziyerekezera kuti sitiri kwenikweni cholinga chenicheni. Izi zimabweretsa kusamvana kwathunthu kwa mkati ndi kunja. Ndipo izi, choyamba, ndi njira yowongoka yopweteketsa mitsempha ndi mitsempha. Ndipo izi sizosangalatsa konse, ndi matenda.
Kuonera ena
Izi ndi zomwe zinakambidwa kumayambiriro kwa nkhani yathu.Zowonadi, mutha kukhala wamtendere ndi chitsulo pamutu wa munthu woteroyo, koma ndi ichi simudzasokonezeka. Ngati simukuchotsa chigoba cha chimwemwe chenicheni, ndiye, pamene mimbulu ibwera kuthamanga, palibe amene adzakukhulupirirani, ndipo zonse zomwe achibale anu ndi abwenzi anu sangathe kumva kuti akubwera kwa inu makamaka. Pano pali lingaliro lakuti misozi yanu imatengedwa kuti ndi yoopsa, ma atomu komanso oyipa - "kuchoka ku kusowa kwa ntchito." Mwa kuyankhula kwina, ambiri angaganize kuti phokoso lambiri limayambitsidwa chifukwa chakuti mwangotenthedwa!
Pewani Zoona
Kukhumudwa kwakukulu, chifukwa cha Hollywood kumwetulira nokha simungathe kukhazikitsa moyo wanu mwamtendere ndi mtendere, ndipo kusowa mtendere kwadzaza m'mphepete mwawo. Tikayika chigoba cha ndondomekoyi "Ndinakwanitsa kupambana aliyense" simungathetse mavuto, ndipo ngati ngati nthiwatiwa yoopsa, bisa mutu wako.
Osagwirizana ndi ena
Pa mphindi imodzi yabwino, ndi kumwetulira kwakunja, mudzakhala ndi maganizo olakwika: "Ndi chiyani chomwe chiribe anthu osaganizira ndi osasamala, sichiwoneka kwa iwo, ndikumva bwanji? Inde, ine ndikufa pano nkomwe, koma iwo samasamala! Akumwetulira, ngati kuti palibe chomwe chinachitika! Ndimadana nawo onse! "Inde, iwo sakuzindikira. Ndipo n'chifukwa chiyani ayenera kuchita zimenezi?
Kukana ndi Ena
Mudziko pali mawu akuti: "Ngati mukufuna kuti anthu akukondeni, musawauze za chimwemwe chanu!". Ziribe kanthu momwe zingakhalire zomvetsa chisoni, muli mwambi mwambi uwu. Ndipo chowonadi cha izi pafupifupi zaka zisanu ndi zinayi, malingana ndi kuyesa kwathu kochepa. Malingana ndi malingaliro athu, timakonda anthu osauka ndipo sitikukhulupirira kuti palibe vuto.
Ndipo izi zonse zimachitika pa chiwerengero cha majini. Inde, ichi silamulo, koma ali ndi ufulu wokhalapo.
Wokonda kwambiri
Mukudziwa kuti inu mumatchedwa "kuyenda motetezeka," ndipo ngati mumachulukitsa ndi mphamvu yodalirika ya udindo, simunganyengerere ziyembekezero za ena omwe amabwera kwa inu kuti athandizireni. Ndipo ngakhale ngati chiyembekezo chanu chakhala chitatopa kwambiri, mwakhala mukupitirizabe kukhala ndi mtima wokondwa ku chirichonse, chifukwa sichikhoza kukhala china. Pano pali mzere wovuta, umene umayamba kukhumudwitsa komanso osalola kuti chiyembekezo chanu chikhale ngati mbalame ya phoenix.
Kodi mtima ukhoza kukhala wotani?
Inde, simuyenera kukwiyitsa, chifukwa m'moyo wathu, kuphatikizapo wakuda ndi woyera, pali mitundu yambiri yosiyana, choncho, ziribe kanthu momwe timapweteketsera kusakhulupirika kwa chizoloŵezicho, "Ndili bwino," simukuyenera kuiganizira. Makhalidwe amenewa ali ndi maphatikizidwe ake:
Gawo la kudziletsa silinayambe lavulazidwa ndi aliyense
Pamapeto pake, chifukwa chachikulu cha zomwe mukukumana nazo panopa sizingakhale zovuta zapadziko lonse (mwachitsanzo, matalala), koma zochepa zomwe zimachitika padziko lonse ndi zoopsa. Icho chingakhale mtundu wina wa vuto lalikulu. Mwachitsanzo, masokosi a osankhidwa anu, amwazikana kuyambira Lolemba ponseponse. Izi zili kutali ndi matalala, komabe, mumavomereza, popanda chizoloŵezi cha "vuto ili tidzatha kukhala ndi moyo", ndipo panthawi yovuta izi zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri kupha okhulupirika anu mpaka imfa.
Kukhalapo kwa kukhalapo kwa chikumbumtima sikudawonongepo aliyense.
Tiyeni tiganizire kwa mphindi zingapo za anthu omwe akutizinga. Imtak ndi ovuta, ndipo amakhalanso ndi mavuto, ndipo ena amakhala ndi vuto kotero kuti ndibwino kuti mwamsanga muike mutu wanu pachimake! Tiyeni tiyesere kuwamvetsa ndikuwamvera chisoni. Ndipo sitidzagonjetsa mavuto athu pamapewa athu. Kuonjezera apo, ambiri a iwo simunali alendo.
Ndikhululukireni ine, koma tsopano ndikulankhulana.
Malingaliro onse ndi zakuthupi ndipo izi ndi zoona. Ndipo iwo ali zakuthupi mu malo a danga. Mukukhulupirira ndi mtima wonse kuti muli nazo zonse (zilipo tsopano ndipo zidzakhala mtsogolomu) mwangwiro - ndipo mwinamwake zikukhazikitsani nokha. Lolani, ndithudi, osati mwamsanga.
Kodi mumapita ndi nkhope yamakono? Yembekezerani mavuto! Palibe imodzi mwazochita zabwino kwambiri komanso zosankha zodzikakamiza kudzimangirira tokha muzovuta zathu zowonongeka ndizowonongeka ku zilonda zonse zamaganizo.
Mukukhululukidwa zenizeni zenizeni? Kenaka - kulekanitsa kuli koopsa:
Munthu yemwe amamwetulira ndi wokongola kwambiri ndipo ngakhale mmodzi akhoza kunena mosangalatsa kuti ndi wokongola kwambiri. Tavomereze, makamaka kuyanjana kwa munthu woteroyo ndi kokongola kwambiri kuposa momwe wotsutsana naye akuwonetsera nthawi zonse kumagazi chifukwa cha kusalungama kwa moyo ndi milomo yake. Ndipo zovuta (izi sizikutchulidwa) zowonekera nkhope nthawizonse zimakhala ngati makwinya asanakwane, mwamtheradi ife ndi inu palibe zofunika.
Chifukwa chake, sizowopsya kumamwetulira konse, osati chifukwa cha thanzi, osati maonekedwe. Tsono kumwetulira, chifukwa chakuti ndiwe wokongola!