Pamene moyo wa banja umasintha, kugonana pakati pa okwatirana kumasandulika kukhala udindo, ndipo maganizo amatha ndipo salinso ndi anthu awiri achikondi. Pazifukwa izi, banja limayambitsidwa ndi nkhawa, tsiku ndi tsiku. Kwa mkazi, izi zimakhala zosamalirana ndi kusamalira mwanayo, kukonzekera chitonthozo cha kunyumba ndi zina zambiri, kotero kuti mphamvu zogonana sizikhalanso. Pang'onopang'ono, ubalewo umasintha mitundu yowala kuchokera ku kuwala kwake, chilakolako chimatha.
Kodi mungasunge bwanji kusiyana kwa moyo wa kugonana?
Chinthu choyamba ndicho kusintha mawonekedwe a zovala zomwe mumayenda mozungulira nyumba. Kuwonekera kosalekeza kovala chovala ndi zovala zotayika sikuthandizira kukopa chidwi cha munthu, osaloledwa chilakolako chogonana. Komabe, sikoyenera kuthamangira mopitirira malire ndikukumana ndi mwamuna wake ndi mapepala opaka tsitsi komanso osowa. Zidzakhala zochuluka kwambiri. Zovala zapakhomo siziyenera kukhala zomveka komanso zonyansa. Zokwanira kukhala ndi tsatanetsatane yodabwitsa yomwe ingakope chidwi, kutsogolera mwamuna, mwachitsanzo, decollete kapena yotseguka, kapena kudula kuchokera kumbali.
Kuthamanga Kwakuda Kwambiri
Inde, chovala chimodzi sichikwanira kukopa chidwi cha munthu, kotero samalirani kukongola kwa thupi lanu. Ndibwino kuti mukhale ndi tsitsi lolimba, lomwe, mwinamwake, lingalimbikitse mphamvu, zimapangitsa kuti likhale losangalatsa, limadzutsa chilakolakocho. Masiku otentha, nthawi zambiri mumatha kusiya zovala zamkati, zomwe zingakupatseni ufulu wambiri, wokongola, kugonana. Zonsezi zidzakondweretsa mkaziyo, zomwe zidzasokoneza maganizo ake pa chibwenzi.
Zogonana zogonana
Imodzi mwa njira zowonjezera zowonjezeretsa chilakolako ndi kupeza zatsopano zatsopano ndiyo kugwiritsa ntchito zidole za kugonana. Yambani ndi misala yogwira ntchito pogwiritsa ntchito nthenga kapena makondomu okhala ndi matayala. Ndi zotsatira zabwino za kuyesera koteroko, mukhoza kuwonjezera zidole zambiri za achinyamata. Dziwani kuti banja lililonse likufuna zosiyana pa moyo wa kugonana, musaope kuyesera, zidzakuthandizani.
Kugonana pamlomo
Yesani kugonana m'kamwa, ngati mpaka pano simunachite. Pachifukwachi, makhwala a wokondedwayo amachitidwa ndi lilime, osakayikira kumpsompsona ziwalo zogonana. Pezani ndi kumukhulupirira mnzanuyo, iye adzakutsogolerani, momwe mungachitire ndi zomwe akufuna.
Chiwerewere
Kutchulidwa kokha za kugonana kwa ana kapena kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa ana kungachititse kuti anthu ena asamvetse bwino, koma ndizosazindikira. Kwa kugonana kwa abambo, pali mafuta apadera, makondomu apadera amapangidwa kuti azigonana.
Zimawululidwa kuti amai ambiri amafika msangamsanga ndi kugonana kwa abambo, osati ndi kugonana kwachibadwa.
Kugonana kumalo osiyanasiyana ndi malo
Ndikoyenera kuti mutaya zonse zotsutsana ndikusokoneza kugonana ndi zatsopano, khalani ndi chikondi m'malo ovuta, ndipo simungathe kuchotsa zovala zanu. Tsegulani ndi kutsatira zokhumba zanu.
Ngati pali chiwonetsero chowoneka ngati chidziwitso chodziwika bwino, ndibwino kuti mubwererenso kumapeto kwa kugonana.
Yang'anani pozungulira, pali malo ambiri okondweretsa omwe simunayambe kugonana nawo:
- Chipinda chogona - osati kungochera.
- Kwezani-kumatanthawuza kugonana mwamsanga ndi kumverera kwakukulu kooneka.
- Kulowa - kugonana pachisokonezo, pafupi ndi makoma, ndi zina zotero. Kugonana mu zovala kumawombera, amawombera.
- Malo ogonana - kugonana, pamene mkazi adatsamira podandaula, ndipo mwamunayo amatenga phokoso kumbuyo kwake. Kuopa kuwonedwa ndi anansi kumapangitsa kuti kugonana kukhale koopsa kwambiri.
- Sinema ndi mzere wotsiriza, mipando yabwino.
- Ndegeyo ndi yowopsya kwambiri, monga pali anthu ambiri ozungulira.
Malo oyenerera kugonana, ochuluka, musawope kuyesera.
Kuwerenga nthano zopanda pake
Nkhani zachikondi zimalimbikitsa kugonana. Otsatirawo akuphatikizapo zozizwitsa, kuzizindikira zonsezi, komanso panthawi yogonana.
Tsegulani malingaliro anu kwa wina ndi mzake, zidzalimbikitsa kumasulidwa kwathunthu ndikudalira mbali zonse ziwiri, kudzutsa chilakolako chodziwika pakati pa okondedwa.
Zonsezi zidzathandiza kubwezeretsa chikondi ndi kuunika kwa ubale, kupanga chisangalalo chaukwati, ndi moyo wa kugonana - zokongola ndi zosiyana.