Mzimayi aliyense akufuna kupereka zosangalatsa zambiri kwa wokondedwa wake pabedi. Kuti ndi yekhayo amene angamubweretsere chimwemwe chochuluka pa kugonana, kuchuluka kwake komwe sikukanakhoza komanso kubweretsa mkazi wina. Mwamuna amabisa mosamala malo ake ovuta, kuwapeza iwo sangakhale ovuta kwa mkazi wanzeru ndi womvetsa.
Koma, momwe mungasamalire madera ovuta a anthu, kumupatsa iye chisangalalo cha 100%. Mwamuna alibe malo osadziwika, nthawi zina ngakhale amuna okha sadziwa za iwo.
malo osokoneza bongo, alibe malo enieni pa thupi la munthu. Koma mwamunayo amamverera "mkazi" wake mumalingaliro, komwe amapeza zosangalatsa zambiri, nthawi zina ngakhale pa chidziwitso.
Kupita kumadera olakwika. Izi ndi malo omwe angathe kufufuza thupi lonse la munthu. Ngati mumangoyang'ana pamalo amodzi, ndiye kuti panthawiyi mukupita kumalo othawa, mungathe kuthawa pomwepo, ndipo makondomu anu sadzasangalatsanso mwamuna, koma kuti amusokoneze.
Malo olakwika kwambiri ndi malo omwe sangathe kuchitika mu ubongo wamba. Iwo alipo mwa mitundu yonse ya amuna okhala ndi zopotoka mwa kugonana. Mwachitsanzo, awa ndi amuna omwe ali ndi zilakolako zachisoni, kapena munthu - Rab. Mwa amuna oterowo, madera osadziwika akhoza kuwonekera m'malo osiyanasiyana.
Zigawo zosiyana zogonana. Mzimayi, podziwa mmene akumvera thupi lake, amayesera kuchita chimodzimodzi pa thupi lachimuna, nthawi zina zimakhala zolakwika. Chofunika pazimenezi ndizofunika kugwira ntchito pang'ono ndi thupi la mnzanuyo, kuti mumudziwe kuti mumamukonda komanso mumamugonana.
Zogonana zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, izi ndi mapangidwe osiyana-siyana a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Zonsezi zomwe zili pamwambazi ndizosowa kwambiri pakati pa amuna, nthawi zambiri amuna amakhala achikulire. Zigawo zopanda pake pa thupi ndi zochepera kwa amuna kusiyana ndi akazi. Pali zigawo zingapo zosagwirizana ndi amuna: mbolo, scrotum, prostate, anus, perineum, mkati mwa ntchafu, zala, pamimba pamimba, milomo, lilime ndi zala. Mayi ayenera kuphunzira kupirira ndiyiyi ya malo osokoneza bongo.
Choyamba, taya maofesi anu onse, muike munthuyo momasuka ndikupitirizabe kumumvera. Pa nthawi ino, musalole kuti munthu akunyengereni. Ku ubongo wake kunangotembenukira thupi lake ndi makina anu. Tangoganizirani nokha pamalo ake, kotero kuti mumakonda kwambiri ndikuyamba. Mukhoza kuyamba kuchokera pamphumi la wokondedwa, pang'onopang'ono mukudetsa nkhope yake, milomo, lilime, kutsika pansi ndi kumsika, kumagwira mamitamita onse a thupi lake, kupita kumapazi ake ndi kumunyoza zala zake ndi lilime lake. Simudzakhulupirira kuti izi zimamukondweretsa munthu. (pokhapokha ngati mumasambitsanso munthuyo mu chipinda chosambira).
Kenaka flipani m'mimba mwako ndikuyamba chinthu chomwecho kumbuyo kwa wokonda. O, momwe amamukondera pamene mkazi amaletsa mapewa awo ndi anus ndi lilime. Musaganize kuti wopotoza amene mumawakonda, kapena ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ali ndi gawo limodzi losavuta kwambiri - ndi wansembe. Iwo sali olakwa pa izi, ndipo kumbukirani lamulo lalikulu pa kugonana, palibe chochititsa manyazi ndi choletsedwa mmenemo. Pagulu, mukhoza kuchita chilichonse chimene thupi lanu limakhumba.
Amayi ambiri samadziwa momwe angaperekere ulemu wa "ulemu wa munthu", sikuti ndi ma chupa-chups ndipo siwotchera ntchentche, ngakhalenso nthochi. "Kukopa" ndi munthu wamwamuna, amene muyenera kumusamalira bwino ndi chilakolako chapadera. Musamamwa, amafunika kusewera, poyamba aziyambe kuseketsa ndi lilime, ndiyeno mumvetse milomo yanu, koma musamamveketse milomo yanu poyamba. Chilichonse chiyenera kuchitidwa mwachikondi ndi mofatsa, koma pa nthawi yomweyi mwachidwi komanso mwachimwemwe. Pa masewerawo, nthawi ndi nthawi mupite kumatenda, kumvetsani makoswe ndi pakamwa pawo, kuwayimba ndi lilime, koma samalani kwambiri, mphutsi ndi gawo lopweteka kwambiri la gawo lachimuna.
Podziwa momwe mungamuthandizire bwino munthu, mumvetsetsa kuti munayamba kusangalala ndi zomwe mudachita ndi zomwe mwawona. Mwamuna amene walandira mokwanira, ndipo akusangalala ndi makina anu, sangayang'ane mbali, koma nthawi zonse amafuna inu nokha.