Kodi si zoona, nthawi zina pali zoterezi pamene mukukoka kwambiri? M'lingaliro la mawuwo. Kuti nditsimikizire bwino, ndikufuna chisangalalo pakupanga chikondi ndi mlendo. Sindiri tsopano pokhudzana ndi kugonana pambuyo poledzera ndi amnesia wokhudzana ndi chochitika ichi. Ndipo pamene pazifukwa zina pali chilakolako chosalephereka kukhala wokwatirana naye kwa ora limene limapindula ndi maonekedwe apamwamba. Kapena chachitatu kumanzere kumanzere kofiira.
Chikhumbo chimabwera kuchokera kwinakwake mkati mwake ndipo pang'onopang'ono chimagwira zonsezo, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mukhale wosasunthika kwa inu nokha, kudula nthawi mu bar, subway, sitolo. M'malo mogona kale m'madzi osambira ndi adani osadziwika. Kodi palibe chilichonse muzinthu izi? ..
Masiku ano nthawi zambiri zimatheka kuti muzindikire zomwe mukufuna. Koma ndife anthu abwino. Sitingathe kugwiritsa ntchito malo osakhulupirika. N'zachidziwikire kuti ndife okha okongola komanso kuyembekezera. Koma zikuwoneka ngati uhule popanda ndalama. Kotero, fi, osati athu. Mumsewu, inunso, mwinamwake wopusa ndi wopusa. Pali malo ogwirana ndi anthu, omwe amakhala osangalatsa. Timagwira nsomba zathu kumeneko.
Ngakhale kuima, ndi mtundu wanji wa nsomba, ngati tikukamba za osankhidwa kale, koma osadziwika kwathunthu. Kotero, ife tinamusankha iye. Zidzakhala zom'fotokozera kuti kugonana popanda mayina ndi ntchito yochititsa chidwi kwambiri. Palibe zodabwitsa kwambiri za iye analemba, kuwombera, kufotokozedwa. Ntchito yovuta komanso yovuta kuganizira nthawi yomweyo. Zili ngati kukambirana pamsewu: Mungathe kunena chilichonse, popanda manyazi, chifukwa posachedwapa njira za alendo oyendayenda zidzachoka kwamuyaya.
Tikasankha wokwatirana naye kwa ora limodzi, sitidzipereka tokha kulingalira malingaliro ake, chikwama chake kapena maonekedwe ake. Ife, monga zinyama, timagwidwa mmenemo: kununkhira, mtundu wa thupi, kukhudza kwa khungu - ndiko, mtundu wamagetsi. N'zoonekeratu kuti pali mfundo zina. Mwachitsanzo, wina amatsutsana ndi kugonana m'masokosi. Kapena apo, kotero kuti mano anu ali ngakhale. Kuchokera ku mavuto omwewa panopa, timayang'ananso tokha mwa ogona.
Ndiyeno nkhani ya teknoloji: mukhoza kupeza malo. Mwamwayi muli mahotela ndi maola ola limodzi, nyumba zaulere kapena malo osungiramo anzanu, saunas ndi madzi osambira. Si zimenezo. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa kugonana ndi mlendo sikuti tiyambe kuyankhula kuti mudziwe zomwe zikuchitika. Chifukwa buzz yonse idzatayika kuchokera kuntchito. Chabwino, ngati kuti mutatha kusangalala ndi galasi la madzi oledzera kumoto wa gehena ndikuzindikira chisangalalo chomwe chabwera pambuyo pake, ndizitali komanso zovuta kudziŵa dziko lomwe linachokera, maonekedwe, kuchuluka kwa madzi pa galamu lamadzi, ndi zina zotero. Zoonadi, chidziwitso ichi chokha sichikupweteka, koma osati pa nthawi ino. Tsopano timangodzikondweretsa tokha. Ndipo ndizo zonse.
Choncho muzigonana ndi munthu wosadziwika. Palibe amene amafunikira kanthu kwa wina aliyense. Palibe kuyembekezera kulira kwa mafoni ndi makalata. Kumvetsetsa kwathunthu pa funso la momwe wokondedwa wathu apitira patsogolo, ma comrades. N'zachidziwikire kuti patukana.
Kugonana ndi munthu yemwe sikunali kokha kufunikira kwa kugonana. Poyambirira ngati munthu wina kuchokera ku gulu. Ndimakonda mofulumira, koma ndi cholinga chenicheni: Ndikufunitsitsa kumva kukoma kwake ndi kununkhiza. Ndipo kuti nayenso adzasangalale ndi wanu, nayenso.
Kugonana ndi munthu wosadziwika, choyamba, ntchito yabwino kuti athetse nkhawa, kumasula malingaliro oipa ndi maganizo abwino. Izi, pambuyo pa zonse, ndi zabwino kwa thanzi.
Koma mwinamwake timagonana ndi mlendo komanso chifukwa chakuti thupi lathu lanzeru, panthawi inayake, limatanthawuza zosaoneka bwino ku ubongo - "ichi", zimatizindikiritsa kuti ndi nthawi yogonana?! Tikukumana ndi njala nthawi ndi nthawi, ludzu ndi kusowa. Chifukwa cha ndalama, koma misasa ndi mafanizo a 00. Ndiye bwanji chilengedwe chobisika ngati ubongo waumunthu sichikutikumbutsa nthawi zina za nthawi yogonana. Ndipo timasankha mlendo molingana ndi zomwe timakonda.
Choncho, kugonana ndi munthu wosadziwika si chinthu chodabwitsa. Winawake anganene ngakhale kuti ndizopambana, ndiyo njira yokha yomwe mumayenera. Ndipo amuna okongolawo samakondana kwambiri kuposa kukongola mu bikini, kotero bwanji? Koma ndili ndi funso: ngati iye (kugonana ndiye) akukhala woipa kwambiri? Kodi izi zimakhudza psyche kapena kukhutira ndi chikhumbo?