Inde, uyo ndi mnyamata woonamtima chotero. Ndabwera kwa inu tsiku lina, komanso pamphumi: "Wokondedwa, ndili ndi wina! Ndikukhulupirira kuti simukumbukira? " Ndipo ndi bwino ngati mulibe poto yowonongeka pamphindi ino, chifukwa simungathe kuchita ndi pini. Izi ndizo pambuyo pa mawu anu (ngakhale sizili zomveka kuwatcha tsopano "anu" ... kani - "komanso anu"), ndibwino kuti mnyamata athamange, mwamsanga komanso popanda kuyang'ana kumbuyo. Ndipo mudzazizira pang'ono, kumbukirani zolinga zenizeni zomwe mukufunikira poto wozizira ndi kuganizira za izi: ngati munthu akunena kuti ali ndi wina - momwe angalowerere, kwenikweni, osati mkhalidwe wovuta? Pambuyo pake, simukufuna kupita phulusa, kutaya mitsempha yanu yomaliza, imvikani imvi ndikufa modzidzimutsa ndi matenda a mtima chifukwa chakuti munthu amene munapatsa mtima wanu anasintha mtima wake. Kapena pambali ina ya thupi - sindikudziŵa zambiri, kotero sindinganene motsimikiza. Koma, mulimonse momwe malingaliro anu amachitira zinthu, ndikuwona malo awiri okha. Woyamba wa iwo ndikumvetsa. Ndipo khululukirani, ine ndikulingalira. Kuti akwaniritse, ku nkhondo, mwachidziŵitso - kumenyana mmbuyo ndi kuti asapatse wina aliyense. Njira yachiwiri ndiyiyeke. Kuwombera, kuthamangitsa, kutulutsa diso chifukwa cha chipongwe chomwe chinayambitsa.
Tiyeni tiwone poyamba: kodi zikutanthauzanji kwa inu? Zoonadi? Ndipo kodi zimenezo zikutanthauza? Mwinamwake nkhuyu ndi iye, chisoni chifukwa chokhala wamwano?
Inu, mwinamwake, tsopano munena kuti: "Mulungu wanga, koma amadziwa zonse za ine! Tsiku lobadwa, mtundu wa ma thongs anga, mafilimu omwe ndimawakonda kwambiri ... ndipo anandiwona m'mawa, osapangidwira-ndipo sanathenso kuthawa, ndi chikondi! ".. Chabwino, ndiyesera kuteteza. Mwana, kodi amadziwa za maloto anu? Kodi amadziwa ana angati omwe mukufuna? Mu maphunziro, iye, momwe angachepetse misonzi yanu, ndi chofunika kwambiri - momwe mungapewere zochitika zawo? Kodi adakudziwani inu ndi makolo ake? Mukudziwa, pali zochitika mamiliyoni ambiri padziko lonse lapansi, zomwe ndi zotsatira zake, chithunzi cha chimwemwe chenicheni. Ganizilani: Kodi adakupatsani inu zinthu zing'onozing'ono zachisomo ndi kutentha?
Pamapeto pake, ndikupereka, ponena za chinachake. Momwemo, iye akunena zambiri. Chinachake chikulakwika ndi inu mu chiyanjano, chinachake sichikugwira ntchito, osati kukula limodzi. Mwinamwake mumangomutopa - ndipo adadzipezeranso chilakolako china. Pambuyo pa zonse, amuna ndi ofunikira kudzimva okha ngati ogonjetsa, odyetsa, osowa nthawi zonse akusaka ndi kufunafuna masewera, nsembe. Mwinamwake mwamuna wanu ali monga choncho? Wotayika Wamuyaya, wamphepo ndi wokhotakhota, ndipo iwe ukangokhala nsomba yake yotsatira? Inde, sindikunena zinthu zokondweretsa, koma moyo wathu sungagwiritsidwe ntchito shuga, umatsanulira ngati mtundu wa cockerel.
Choncho, ngati mutaganizira za izi, munayamba kuganiza kuti, chiyanjano chanu ndi mazira omwe mukudya sizothandiza - mumulangize molimba mtima kuti mum'dziwitse kuti kuyambira tsopano iye ali ngati mphepo yopanda mphepo komanso kuti aziuluka ndi kufalitsa ngakhale udzu wonse . Chitani bwino kwambiri komanso modzikuza, ngakhale ngati mphaka ikukuta pamtima. Ndipo amachititsa manyazi, ngakhale kuti ozizira mwanzeru amauza kuti asamakhale ndi mitsempha yambiri pa munthuyo. Chizolowezicho ndi chinthu champhamvu.
Tsopano tiyeni tiyankhule za vuto lomwelo: ngati munthu anena kuti ali ndi bwenzi - ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ngati mumamukonda? Chabwino, umo ndi momwe inu simungakhoze kulingalira moyo popanda izo. Inu mukuzindikira kuti palibe choipa kuposa kukhala wotsala popanda iye, kudzuka mu bedi lozizira ndikupanga khofi m'mawa nokha. Ndipo si chizoloŵezi, ayi, ndi chikondi chenicheni. Zomwe mungachite ngati mukuchokera kumudziwu watsopano wa moyo wake wokhazikika, mtima wanu uli wokonzeka kuphulika?
Kotero, ndiuzeni, iye akuwoneka bwanji kwa inu nthawi yomwe iye anakuuzani inu za winayo? Kodi anali wokhumudwa, wovutika maganizo, mwina, wokondwa kwambiri? Izi zidzakonzeratu zolinga za zochita zanu. Mwinamwake, izo, china-chinthu chimodzi chokha, nthawi yodzifunira kwa ola limodzi pansi pa bokosi la vodika mutatha kukangana kwanu kwakukulu? Mwinamwake akulapa moona mtima, akumva kuti ndi wolakwa kwambiri ndipo amafuna kuti mukhululukire. Ndi kwa inu kusankha ngati mungapeze mphamvu kuti muyanjanitse nokha. Pambuyo pa zonse, ndizovuta - kukumbukira mwakuya, kungathe kuwononga zambiri, koma kumachoka kwamuyaya kwambiri. Ndipo kutsutsana, pakati pa zinthu zina.
Inu mukudziwa, mu gehena mungakhoze bwanji moyo wanu kutuluka, makamaka ngati inu mumakonda kuganiza? Kotero iye anapita kukagwira ntchito, ndipo inu muli ndi malingaliro okongola kwambiri za momwe iye amakumanirako kumeneko tsopano ndi mlembi wabwino mu msuti waifupi ndi bayi ali ndi chigoli cha neckline. Ndipo tsopano iye sakanakhoza kumukaniza iye, ndipo ^ brr, ndi chiyani chonyansa, bwanji iwe ukuganiza za zonsezi? Inu mumamvetsa ndi kukhululukira? Kapena osati ..? Mwachidziwitso, chitsogozo cha lingaliro langa mumamvetsa: ndi kovuta kuiwala chigololo, ndipo musamutsatire iye phokoso lokhazikika ponena za kusakhulupirika kwa amuna ake. Komanso, akatswiri a zachikhalidwe cha anthu komanso akatswiri ogonana ndi amuna amanena kuti amuna omwe nthawi ina ankapandukira, ndiye kuti anathawa nawo chifukwa cha kumvetsa koteroko osati chifukwa chotsutsana, kenaka akubwerera kuntchito zawo. Chifukwa amakhulupirira ndi mtima wonse kuti alibe chilango komanso kuti amayi sangathe kukhala opanda iwo.
Chabwino, wotsiriza pa mndandandanda wanga ndi khalidwe la vector pamene mukupeza kuti chibwenzi chanu ali ndi wina - ndikumenyera ufulu wa munthu mmodzi. Wotsirizira chifukwa ndi, ine, njira yosayenera. Ngakhale ndikudziwa chiyani za maubwenzi ndi chikondi? ..
Choncho, mutha kukangana ndi mtsikana wina mu chilichonse, kuti mnyamata wanu ayamikire kuti ndinu wamkulu kuposa iye. Dziyang'anire bwino, yatsogolere marathas, yongolerani zovala, pita kumaphunziro ophikira. Pezani nokha mafanizidwe angapo omwe angakuperekere ku khomo lokhala ndi maluwa a zofiira, komanso pamaso pa chibwenzi chanu. Ndiye iwe ukadafika kwa iye ndipo kotero, mwangozi, akanati aponyedwe mwangozi: "Iwe ukudziwa, wokondedwa, komabe ine ndiri nawo wina. Ndipo ngakhale lachitatu, kotero ife tiri mu mawerengedwe! ". Kodi mungalingalire mtundu wanji wa mkwiyo ndi nsanje umene mungakule ndi zochita zanu? Zoona, nkofunika kuti musapitirize. Komabe anthu anu awiri akuyang'anitsitsa ayenera kuzindikira kuti mukudandaula komanso osakondwera ndi mafanizi awa. Ndiye, ngati amakuyamikirani kwambiri ndikukuyang'anirani, adzamvetsetsa zolakwa zake ndikukukwagwirani pa maondo ake ndi minofu. Mutha kusintha mphuno yanu pang'ono ngati mutatsimikiza kuti izi zimapereka kutentha kuti akufuna kubwerera kwa inu. Ndipo ngati simukudziwa, mutengeni manja ndi kumangapo chipangizo chomveka kuti zinthu zambiri zisadzachitikenso.
Ngakhale, ndithudi, tikufuna mochulukira kuti tikhulupirire kuwona mtima ndi kudzipereka kwa amuna athu, chifukwa sungayambe kubwezera bulu wa munthu wina ndipo sangapambane bulu uyu kuti akwaniritse zolinga zawo.