Komabe, momwe mungakhalire pantchito, kulemekezedwa? Tiyeni tipange malamulo ophweka kuti mutha kuwagwiritsa ntchito pobwera kuntchito kwanu. Kuntchito, monga kusukulu, muyenera kudzipezera ulemu, koma, panthawi imodzimodzi, musachoke pamsonkhanowo kotero kuti zidzakwiyitsa ndi kukwiyitsa anthu ena.
Koposa zonse, anthu samazikonda ngati wina ali wosiyana kwambiri ndi anzeru ndi erudition. Pankhaniyi, zikuwoneka kuti munthuyo amayesa kuoneka bwino koposa ena, adzalandira bwana, kuwachititsa manyazi pamaso pake. Choncho, ngakhale mutadziwa zambiri, musamangokhalira kukankhira maganizo anu. Palibe amene akunena kuti sayenera kuloledwa kuloĊµa m'nkhaniyi. Kupanga mapulojekiti ndi ntchito, mungathe kufotokozera mwachidziwitso chidziwitso chanu. Potero, mudzapeza kuti mukulemekezedwa ndi atsogoleri, kuti mutha kuchita ntchito zovuta. Koma, ngati titero, tingatani kuti tionetsetse kuti antchito amalemekezedwa chifukwa cha makhalidwe amenewa, osadedwa ndi kuwachitira nsanje. Yankho ndi losavuta - nthawi zonse yesetsani kuthandizira kuposa momwe mungathere. Musanene nthawi zonse kuti bwana akukutamandani kachiwiri, kapena mutapezanso bonasi, chifukwa ndinu anzeru kwambiri. Bwino, yesetsani kuthandiza omwe akukumana ndi zovuta kuchita chinachake. Inde, simuyenera kuchita izi kuvulaza, kapena kutenga ntchito ya wina. Koma, ngati mupemphedwa kupereka uphungu kapena nokha muwone kuti munthu amafunikira, musamane.
Thandizo, zonse zomwe mungathe. Anthu oterewa amakondedwa ndi kulemekezedwa. Ogwira ntchito amadziwa kuti, ngakhale atakhala bwino ndi wotsogolera, koma, nthawi yomweyo, amayesera kuchita zimenezi kuti ena akwaniritse chinachake. Iwo adzakumbukira malingaliro anu, ndipo osati kukhumba mwakachetechete, lomwe liri tsikulo, kutemberera ntchito yosasinthika yomwe iwo amadyetsedwa kuyambira mmawa mpaka madzulo.
Koma, ngati mukugwira ntchito simukulemekezedwa, ganizirani chifukwa chake zinthu zonse zimachitika motere. Kusayeruzika kungabwere chifukwa cha zifukwa zolinga komanso zopanda cholinga. Ndipo muyenera kuchita mogwirizana ndi zomwe zikuchitika komanso zomwe zimakhudza. Mwachitsanzo, zimachitika kuti munthu kuntchito sakulemekezedwa chifukwa chokhala woona mtima. M'makampani ena, antchito amangokhalira kunong'oneza bondo, kumakhala wina ndi mzake, ndipo ngati wina akuwoneka kuti sakonda, amamukoka kumbali yake kapena kuvunda. Zoonadi, khalidweli ndilo achinyamata komanso ana a sukulu, koma, mwatsoka, anthu ambiri samakula. Amapitiriza kuchita zinthu ngati kuti akadakali ana. Mgwirizano wotero, kulemekeza kungapezeke kokha ngati muli pansi pano kuti musinthe ndikukhala ndi khalidwe. Ngati izo zotsutsana ndi mfundo zanu, ndiye pamagulu oterowo zidzakhala zovuta kuti mukhale ndi moyo. Choncho, muyenera kuyesa kupeza pakati pawo omwe akugawana malingaliro anu, kapena kuti asinthe malo ogwira ntchito. Popanda kutero, mumamva ngati osadziwika, oopa mtundu wina wonyenga, ndipo pamapeto pake, mumakhala ndi thanzi labwino komanso la thanzi. Choncho, ziyenera kukumbukiridwa nthawi zonse kuti sikuti gulu lililonse liyenera kulemekezedwa. Pali anthu omwe ulemu wawo udzakhala wofanana ndi ena. Choncho, ndibwino kudziwa momwe alili ndi maganizo awo komanso ngati kuli koyenera kuti apereke chinthu china chomwe akufuna.
Koma, mwinamwake, kuti simukulemekezedwa pa ntchito pa zifukwa zokwanira. Inde, iwo akhoza kukhala osiyana kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, zimachitika kuti munthu mosamala amachita ntchito zawo ndikubweretsa timuyo. Chifukwa chaichi, iwo amamunyoza nthawi zonse ndi kukwiya. Ngati mukudziwa zomwe ziridi, nthawi zambiri mumalakwitsa ndikuyesera kuti musadzipweteke, ndiye mkwiyo wawo uli wolungama. Ndipo inu, kuti mukwaniritse ulemu wawo, mumangophunzira momwe mungagwirire ntchito yanu mwamtundu. Inde, aliyense wa ife safuna kuchita kanthu, ndipo, panthawi imodzimodzi, alandira malipiro abwino. Ndikhulupirire, anzanu ogwira nawo ntchito amayendera maulendo ngati momwe mumachitira. Mwachidule, amadziwa kuti izi sizimachitika m'moyo uno, choncho, amayesa kuchita zonse kuti akwaniritse chinachake. Ndipo, inunso, mumasokoneza nawo izi, osagwira ntchito zawo zachindunji. Choncho, yesetsani kuyamba moyenera kuchita zonse zomwe mumachita, ndipo, ndiye, maganizo anu pa inu ayenera kusintha.
Komabe, m'maguluwo sakonda ndipo samalemekeza awo omwe amakonda kunena miseche, kukambirana ndi ena ndikuuza bwana za punctures za wina. Inu simukuyenera kuchita izi, mwinamwake, pali ngozi yayikulu yokha gulu limodzi pa inu nokha. Inde, amayi ena amakambirana za chirichonse popanda cholinga choipa, koma, zotsatira zake ndi zoipa kwambiri. Choncho, ngati mwamvapo zazinthu kapena zomwe mwaphunzira, yesetsani kusunga nokha kuti musakambirane ndi gulu lonse.
Mu gulu labwino, labwino, amalemekezedwa nthawi zonse ndi omwe angathe kugwira ntchito mwakhama, ngati n'koyenera, kuthandizira ena, kuwachitira ulemu ndi kusamenyana ndi abwana awo mwanjira iliyonse. Ndiponso, kuti mupeze ulemu kuntchito, muyenera kukhala munthu wokoma mtima komanso womasuka. Aloleni anthu awone kuti simufuna kuvulaza aliyense, kuti mumakondana kuyanjana ndikulankhulana ndi anthu omwe akuzungulira. Yesetsani kudandaula pang'ono za moyo, khalani ophweka ndipo musayese kutsimikizira kwa aliyense kuti muli bwino. Ndiye, gulu lidzakulemekezani mwakhama, kumvetsetsa ndi chiyembekezo.