Palibe amene adanena kuti kuyambira pachiyambi ndi zophweka. Koma ngati pali zifukwa zabwino za izi, ndizovuta kukhala pansi kusiyana ndi kubwezera moyo mwamsanga. Pa msinkhu wanu kale wopanda khalidwe? Zamkhutu! Kusintha moyo kwabwino sikumachedwa.
NJIRA YAMODZI: Musaiwale za vutoli
Mumakwiyitsa ponseponse - makolo, anzanu, anzanu komanso munthu amene mumamuganiziranso wokondedwa. Makolo amapeza zolakwika, ntchito si ntchito yawo, ndipo mnzanu samakukondani koma mtima wanu wabwino kwa iye. Zovuta zaumwini! Kotero, ndi nthawi yeniyeni yosintha chinachake mwa inu nokha komanso mu ubale ndi okondedwa anu.
Timalimbana ndi mavuto. Chinthu chachikulu - motsutsana ndi msinkhu wosakhutitsidwa ndi wekha, simungathe kukangana ndi aliyense. Yesani popanda kufuula ndi nkhanza kuti mufotokozere makolo kuti simuli kamtsikana kakang'ono, ndipo muwatsimikizire kuti iwo ali ndi ufulu. Funsani mnzanu kuti atenge nthawi kwa miyezi 2-3: fufuzani mmene akumvera. Ngati panthawi ino simukumbukira za iye, zikutanthauza kuti izi sizithunzi za buku lanu. Ganizirani za kusintha gawo la ntchito zamaluso, ngati pakalipano pali zosangalatsa. Ndi kupambana koyamba kuntchito sikukhala wosakhutira ndi wekha!
NJIRA 2: Sinthani nyumba
Kachiwiri umagunda utawu pa ngodya ya kabati, ndikufikira kusinthana! Ndipo msewu wosathawu kuchokera ku nyumba kupita ku sitima yapansi panthaka, ndipo madzulo ... Kusokonezeka kumayenderana ndi nyumba kungabweretsere kuvutika maganizo. Ngati mwakhala mukulimbikitsidwa ndi kusakhutira - funani thandizo kuchokera kwa realtors!
Timalimbana ndi mavuto. Ziribe kanthu ngati mukukhala m'nyumba yolipira kapena mukufuna kugula nyumba yatsopano, yang'anani pa ntchito zogona. Fufuzani zokha zokha kudzera mwa anzanu ndi otsimikiziridwa bwino - kachiwiri pakati pa abwenzi anu - enieni. Musayitane malonda akuwerengedwa pa mpanda! Sikoyenera kunyengedwa ndi nyumba yotsika mtengo - ichi ndi chinthu choyamba chimene chiyenera kudzutsa kukayikira. Pemphani mwatsatanetsatane zolembazo muzogulitsa. Musakhale wamanyazi kuyang'ana pasipoti kwa mwiniwake, yemwe mumam'bwereka nyumba - kodi iye amalembedwa kumeneko? Chenjezo pa nkhaniyi silidzapweteka. Pambuyo pa zonse, mukufuna kusintha moyo kuti ukhale wabwino, ndipo musadzitengere nokha ku ngodya.
NJIRA 3: Sinthani ntchito
Mumapembedza ntchito yanu, mumangomva kuti mwakula kale ntchito zanu monga ana a panties. Muli ndi mphamvu, muli ndi ndondomeko zazikulu, koma simungathe kuzigwiritsa ntchito motsogoleredwa ndi mkulu. Akukukakamizani kuti muzitha kulowera mumlengalenga, kuti mufike ku Earth, ku Stockholm, chifukwa cha malingaliro anu a Nobel ... Ngati muli odzidalira nokha - yang'anani anthu omwe ali ndi maganizo awo mu ntchito yanu yatsopano!
Timalimbana ndi mavuto. Chokani ku ntchito yapitayi mwachikhalidwe, osawonetsa kuti onse ndi opusa, ndipo ndinu anzeru. Kugwirizana kwa bizinesi kudzakhala kothandiza. Kuonjezerapo, zoganizira zanu zonse sizingatsimikizidwe. Pali ngozi yowonjezerapo mphamvu zanu, kukhala phokoso lapamwamba ndi kudziwa-zonse. Lembani maphunziro otsitsimula, kuyankhulana ndi zotsatira, kuti mutsimikizire kuchita zomwe mumapindula.
NJIRA 4: Musatsutsane ndi bwana
M'mawa mumapita kuntchito monga Kalvare. Mumapembedza ntchito yanu, koma ndemanga ya bwana aliyense imakukhumudwitsani. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti ndinu katswiri, koma iye sali. Simunagwirizane ndi malembawo. Akatswiri a zakuthambo, omwe anapeza kuti palibe zofanana, sanatumize pamodzi kuti azizungulira.
Timalimbana ndi mavuto. Inu ndi bwana muyenera kugawanitsa: phindu la mgwirizanowu ndi zero, ndipo kusokonezeka maganizo kumakhala kovulaza. Mukalowa ntchito yatsopano, musanene kuti mwasiya chifukwa bwana woyamba anali wopusa. Wogwira ntchitoyo amvetsetsa: chinthu chomwecho munganene za iye.
NJIRA YA 5: Musamawope kusintha
Mwamuna wanga anapatsidwa ntchito yodalirika mumzinda wina kapena dziko lina. Sankhani! Mukhoza kubwerera nthawi zonse. Ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu akutsogolera m'banja lanu, mumupatse ufulu wosankha ndipo musamulepheretse kukhulupirira kuti phindu lake likugwira ntchito yokhala ndi ndalama zochepa koma zowonjezera bwino kuposa chiwongoladzanja chakumwamba - palibe amene akudziwa zam'tsogolo mumzinda wakunja. . Akazi a Decembrists, mwachitsanzo, adathandizira okondedwa awo panthawi yovuta.
Timalimbana ndi mavuto. Mwina mayesero ovuta kwambiri m'malo atsopano kwa inu adzakhala opanda kulankhulana. Pezani nokha malonda, kudziwana ndi anansi ndikuyesa kuthetsa chisa cha banja.
NJIRA 6: Simungathe kupulumutsa banja lanu - kusudzulana
M'nthaŵi za Soviet Union, anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti: "Kukhala wosakwatiwa n'kosafunika!" Lero, kusudzulana sikungowonongeka, ngakhale kuti kumaphatikizapo psychotrauma. Ngati mutasankha kuti popanda mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu tsopano mudzakhala bwino kusiyana ndi iye, - asudzulane. Monga Omar Khayyam analemba kuti: "Ndi bwino kukhala ndekha kuposa wina aliyense." Ukwati, umene umabweretsa ululu wokhudzidwa mwakuya, kusokoneza chitukuko chako, sungapindule ndi wina aliyense.
Timalimbana ndi mavuto. Muyenera kudutsa nthawi yandekha, makamaka ngati inu ndi mwamuna wanu muli ndi anzanu ofanana. Koma pa njira yakale yolankhulana, kuwala sikubwere pamodzi ndi mphete! Kumbukirani anzanu akale a kusukulu, omwe machitidwe awo anatayika. Pomalizira, pali intaneti, malo osungirako zibwenzi ndi magulu achidwi - ogwira galu, ojambula, okonda mabuku. Powonjezera gawo la zofuna, ndithudi mudzapeza anzanu atsopano. Izi ndizofunika kukhala osamala: ngati, polemba makalata, munthu amachititsa chidaliro, asankhe tsiku mu cafe. Pamsonkhano waumwini, kodi adakuchitirani chifundo chomwecho monga makalata? Chabwino, chimwemwe kwa inu!
NJIRA 7: Kulimbana ndi kusungulumwa
Mwinamwake muli ndi abwenzi ndi abwenzi, koma pazifukwa zina mumakhala osungulumwa ndikusowa njira zosinthira moyo kukhala wabwino. Mwachiwonekere, mwasintha mkati: malinga ndi kafukufuku wa akatswiri a maganizo ndi madokotala, munthu amasinthasintha mkati mwa zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri - izi zimakhala chifukwa cha kukonzanso magazi. Inu simunapite bwino kapena moyipa - inu munangokhala osiyana. Choncho, njira yoyankhulirana yoyankhuliranso ikukukhudzani.
Timalimbana ndi mavuto. Sikoyenera kugawanika ndi achibale anu a mwazi kuti mupitirize kukonzanso. Yambani zonse ndi magulu omwe amakonda chidwi. Yesani kusintha ntchito. Izi zinali zolemekezeka ndi omwe anali ndi zolembera ziwiri: kulemba ndi kupuma. Malinga ndi chiwerengero, mabwenzi ambiri a msinkhu wokalamba akugwira ntchito. Ndiloleni ine ndikuwulule luso lanu lopanga - ndipo moyo udzawoneka wowala.
Njira nambala 8: Pereka mwana!
Mzimayi amafika pa zovuta pa msinkhu ndipo amadziwa kufunika kobadwira. M'chaka chotsatira kapena ayi! Sitidzalangiza chilichonse: aliyense amasankha yekha. Koma ziwerengero zimati mkazi aliyense yemwe ali ndi mwana amasangalala kwambiri kuposa amene alibe.
Timalimbana ndi mavuto. Konzekerani kusintha kwakukulu pamoyo. Kodi mungathe kusunga mwanayo kwa zaka 2-3 zoyambirira popanda ntchito? Ngakhale ngati simuli nokha ndipo muli ndi mwamuna, agogo anu, kumbukirani, mwanayo ndi "chochitika" chamtengo wapatali. Ndipo popanda ntchito yomwe mumaikonda mungakhalemo? Amayi odziwa kuti zaka zisanu zoyambirira zachotsedwa pa moyo: mayi wa mwanayo si wake. Ganizirani za yemwe angakuthandizeni, ndi kupeza ngati ali okonzekera khalidwe.
NJIRA 9: Sintha nyengo
"Kumpoto ndi koipa kwa ine," Pushkin analemba za iye mwini ku Onegin. Mkhalidwe wosayenera sungagonjetsedwe ndi khama la chifuniro. Thanzi labwino lidzawonongeka, mphamvu zamakhalidwe zidzasokonezeka. Pita mofulumira kupita kumene umakhala bwino.
Timalimbana ndi mavuto. Kuchita kusintha kwa malo osokoneza ndi kophweka - kukhala wosangalatsa! Moyo ndi wokongola mwa mitundu yake. Musati muwope kuti inu simudziwa malo atsopano. Munthu amazoloŵera zonse, ndipo anthu, makamaka, ali paliponse chimodzimodzi.
NJIRA 10: Gwerani chikondi!
Ichi ndi chifukwa chosinthira chirichonse mu moyo - ntchito, mzinda, chipembedzo, dziko komanso dziko lapansi. Pa mapiko a Cupid inu mukuwuluka kwa okondedwa anu! Ayi? Kotero ichi si chikondi.
Timalimbana ndi mavuto. Chinthu chachikulu sikuti aswe nkhuni. Chothandizira chikondi sichiyenera kukhala choyenera chifukwa cha zochitika zomwe mwachita. Mungathe kudzipeza nokha muchitsime chophwanyika ... Yang'anirani momwe mumamvera mphamvu. Ichi, ndithudi, ndi njira zabwino kwambiri zothetsera moyo kuti zikhale bwino, komanso zoopsa kwambiri. Moyo wanu ukhoza kusintha, ndipo kutaya tanthauzo lake ndi chimwemwe.