Ife timapereka moni wachikwati molondola

Palibe tchuthi sitingathe kuchita popanda kuyamikira. Koma moni waukwati, poyerekezera ndi zikondwerero zomwe zimakhalapo, zomwe zimangokhala m'mawu angapo, ndikofunikira kuti mukhale ndi zikhalidwe zina. Ndipo kuti mawuwo akhale omveka bwino, okongola komanso osakumbukika, ayenera kuyamba kuganiziridwa mosamala ndi kupanga. Komanso, pasanapite nthawi kuganizira za kuyamika sikuyenera kokha alendo onse, komanso okwatirana okha. Anthu okwatirana kumene amalankhula mowolowa manja, omwe kawirikawiri amamveka madzulo kawiri - akamayamika makolo awo chifukwa cha chisamaliro cha alendo komanso alendo, komanso nthawi yomwe mkatewo umadulidwa, motero amakwaniritsa phwando laukwati. Kuyamikira kwa alendo - ntchitoyi sizimavuta, chifukwa aliyense amadziwa zabwino zomwe akufuna kuti azisangalala nazo. Choncho, bungwe lovomerezeka likuyenda motsatira njira yoyenera.

Bungwe la kuyamikira
Kotero kuti kuyamikira komweku sikukumveka mobwerezabwereza kuchokera kwa anthu osiyanasiyana, pamene kuchedwa kwa gawo la madzulo omwe wapatsidwa, ndibwino kuti onse omwe alipo apite m'magulu, pamene aliyense wa iwo omwe alipo, ngakhale akuwonetsera mawu amodzi oyamikira, akhoza kulakalaka banja lachimwemwe ndi ulemelero. Mwachitsanzo, chiyanjano cha kusonkhana m'magulu oterowo kungakhale a banja kapena ntchito limodzi. Pambuyo pake, muyenera kuzindikira oyankhula omwe angapereke chilankhulo. Nthaŵi zambiri, ulemu wotero umagwera mutu wa banja, bwana kapena bwenzi lapamtima. Mukhozanso kulemba malemba kotero kuti aliyense athe kunena mawu osachepera.

Kuyamikira kungawoneke m'mawonekedwe a ndakatulo kapena puloseti, khalani ndi khalidwe lachiwonetsero kapena lodziwika bwino, lomveka ngati fanizo kapena dongosolo. Koma zikuluzikulu zomwe ziyenera kukhala zofunika ndizo: msinkhu, kufotokoza, kufotokozera, kufotokozera. Izi zidzatsimikizira kuti onse omwe alipo adzamvetsera mwatcheru. Ndikofunikira kutchula kalankhulidwe popanda kulembera pa pepala lachinyengo, mutaphunzira mawuwo ndi mtima. Pambuyo pake, muvomerezana kuti kuyamika koteroko kumawonekeratu momveka bwino, ndipo pamene mavidiyo akukonza zochitika zoterozo amachotsedwa mwachisoni.

Mchitidwe wina wa moni wachikwati
Ngati nthawi yakuyamikila ndi yochepa chabe pa mawonekedwe ndi malemba a ukwati kapena muli ndi mantha oyankhula pagulu, malemba ovomerezeka aang'ono angakuthandizeni kufotokoza zonse zomwe mukufuna kuzifotokoza. Pachifukwa ichi, kalatayo ikhale yokongoletsedwa bwino, mwachitsanzo, mu mawonekedwe a thaulo losongoka, mpukutu wakale, ndi zina zotero. Mtundu woterewu ukuyenera kukumbukiridwa kwa zaka zambiri ndi okwatirana kumene ndipo amakhala mphatso yeniyeni kwa iwo. Komanso, njirayi ndi yabwino kwa anthu omwe sangakwanitse kupita ku gawo lapadera la phwando laukwati.

Ndikofunika mu moni wachikwati kuti mugwire pa mutu wapitawo (mwachitsanzo, nkhani ya msonkhano wa okondedwa). Panthawi imodzimodziyo, m'pofunika kupitiliza nkhaniyo ndi chikhumbo cha tsogolo losangalatsa, momwe ulemelero ndi mwayi udzapitilira. Ndiponso, monga njira, ndizotheka kuyamikila onse awiri kuti aziwonetsera zochitika za anthu awo, kuphatikiza zoonjezera komanso zosamalidwa.

Mwinanso, mungagwiritse ntchito mau a anthu akulu, ndikupempha achinyamata okwatirana. Mwachitsanzo, mawu odziŵika kwambiri a Abe Lincoln, omwe kale ananena kuti: "Anthu ambiri amasangalala ngati anasankha kukhala osangalala." Kufotokozera mawu a takame akuyamikirika kudzakhala koyenera kwambiri.

Onetsani malingaliro anu, mukulemba mawu okondweretsa, ndipo ndiye kuti mukukhumba zomwe zingakumbukiridwe ndi achinyamata!