Miyambo yachikhalidwe: malumbiro aukwati

Malonjezo pa ukwatiwu m'zaka zaposachedwapa akhala zovuta kwambiri. Ndipo ngati pa nthawi ya ukwati mu Tchalitchi cha Orthodox kusinthanitsa kwa malumbiro sikoyenera ndipo sichita nawo mwambo, ndiye panthawi ya kukwatirana mu ofesi yolembera kapena pamsewu, achinyamata akhoza kunena chinthu chofunikira kwa wina ndi mzake, kupanga chikondi.

Lumbiro la mkwati ndi mkwatibwi limabweretsa chikondi ndi malingaliro okhudzana ndi njira ya laonic. Ngakhale alendo osadzimva amafa mtima, akakhudza mawu okhudza chikondi, kukhulupirika komanso chikhumbo chokhala ndi moyo wautali komanso wokongola. Mwambo wokongola waukwati uwu umapezeka m'makomiti ambiri a ku Ulaya, onse a boma ndi achipembedzo.

Mwachibadwa, malumbiro sangakhale ovuta okha, komanso amatsenga. Ndiye amatha kuthetsa mkhalidwe wamanjenje ndikupatsanso mwayi wokamwetulira.

Lonjezo la mkwatibwi

Malumbiro aukwati nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi ziwalo zingapo. Poyamba, achinyamata amalankhulana momwe akusangalalira kuti adakumana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wawo, akuthokoza zomwe zimawachitikira. Ndiye pali malonjezo ndi malonjezo. Mukhoza kuwerenga ndime kuchokera ku ntchito yabwino kapena, ngati muli ndi khutu labwino, imbani nyimbo-lumbiriro. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti mawu onse amabwera kuchokera mu mtima ndikudzazidwa ndi mtima wowona.

Musanayambe kulemba lonjezo laukwati la mkwatibwi, muyenera kukambirana ndi mkwatibwi zomwe malonjezo anu a m'banja adzakhalire: chikondi kapena zokondweretsa, popeza ndi bwino kuwathandiza mofanana. Phatikizani nyimbo yomwe mumakonda kukumbukira bwino wokondedwa wanu, yesetsani kukondana ndipo yesetsani kufotokozera pamapepala kapena makompyuta mawu a malingaliro anu ndi ziyembekezo zanu. Kumbukirani kuti mudzamvekanso ndi alendo, choncho pewani mfundo zosafunika kwenikweni.

Lembalo la lumbiro laukwati siliyenera kukhala lalitali kwambiri. Ngakhale mphindi 2 ndizitali kwambiri. Yesani kukhala mwachidule, koma wokhutiritsa. Pambuyo polemba lumbiriro, moyenera yesetsani kutsogolo kwa galasi kapena pamaso pa chibwenzi kuti mupatse chilankhulo chanu chithunzithunzi komanso chilankhulo.

Mawu a malumbiro a ukwati angakhale awa:

Iwe uli ndi ine m'mawa, iwe uli ndi ine usiku, iwe uli ndi ine mwachisangalalo, iwe uli ndi ine muchisoni, mu malingaliro anga, mu maloto anga, koma koposa zonse, wokondedwa, iwe uli mu mtima mwanga. Kwamuyaya!

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Ndimakukondani. Lero ndi tsiku lapadera kwambiri.

Kalekale iwe unali chabe loto ndi pemphero.

Zikomo chifukwa cha zomwe muli nazo.

Ndidzakusamalirani, ndikulemekezeni ndikukutetezani.

Ndikukupatsani moyo wanga bwenzi langa komanso wokondedwa wanga.

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Pamene ndinakomana nanu, ndinadziwa tanthauzo la chikondi chenicheni. Ndikulonjeza kuti malingana ndi moyo wanga, ndidzakulemekezani ndikukulemekezani. Ine ndidzakhala bwino kwa inu ndipo ndikugwira ntchito kuti ndiwonetsetse kuti ubale wathu chaka ndi chaka ukukhala wamphamvu. Ine ndikulonjeza kukhala woona mtima ndi kumvetsera kwa inu, nthawizonse muzilemekeza malingaliro anu. Ine ndikulonjeza kuti ine ndidzakhala solo yanu yeniyeni ndi thupi. Ndikulonjeza kuti ndidzakhala wanu kwamuyaya.

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Tsopano, ndikuyangТana maso anu, ndimamvetsa momwe ndimakukonderani! Mukadangokhala malingaliro anga, tsopano zakwaniritsidwa. Zikomo chifukwa cha zonse zimene mumandichitira, zikomo chifukwa chodzaza moyo wanga ndi tanthauzo. Ndikupereka moyo wanga m'manja mwanu, moyo wanga ndi mtima wanu ndi zanu zokha.

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Ndimakukondani. Ndiwe bwenzi langa lapamtima.

Lero ndikukwatira iwe.

Ndikulonjeza, ndikulimbikitsani ndikukulimbikitsani, kuseka ndi inu

Ndipo kukutonthoza iwe mwachisoni.

Ndikulonjeza kuti ndikukondani nthawi zabwino ndi zoipa,

Pamene moyo umawoneka wosavuta komanso pamene moyo ukuwoneka wolemera,

Pamene ubale wathu udzakhala wosavuta komanso pamene tidzakhala ndi mavuto.

Ndikulonjeza kuti ndikukutetezani komanso nthawi zonse ndikukulemekezani kwambiri.

Zonsezi ndikulonjeza lero ndi masiku onse a moyo wathu pamodzi.

Zikomo kwa inu, ndimaseka, ndikumwetulira, sindikuwopa kuti ndilota.

Ndikuyembekezera mwachimwemwe kupatula moyo wanga wonse,

Kusamalira inu ndi kuthandizira muzovuta zonse zomwe moyo watikonzera,

Ndikulumbirira kuti ndine woona komanso wodzipatulira kwa moyo wanga wonse.

Zolumbira za mkwati

Amuna ambiri amanyoza malumbiro a ukwati, pokhulupirira kuti kufotokoza malingaliro awo pagulu sizolondola. Komabe, ngati wokondedwa wanu alota kumva kuchokera kwa inu mawu achikondi paukwati, ndiye musamamukhumudwitse. Pamapeto pake, sikoyenera kulembera nokha. Mungathe kutenga malemba omalizidwa kapena kuwerenga ndakatulo yachikondi, kutenga mkwatibwi ndi dzanja ndikumuyang'anitsitsa ndi kupenya m'maso mwake.

Mukulumbira kwa mkwati paukwati, kaŵirikaŵiri amalonjeza kuteteza mkazi ku mavuto onse, kuteteza ndi kukhala bwenzi lokhulupirika nthawi zonse ndi chirichonse.

Zitsanzo za malumbiro aukwati a mkwati

Maganizo anga onse okhudza inu, chikondi changa chosakhoza kufa.

Ndikhoza kukhala ndi inu kokha kapena kusakhala konse ...

Ndikonda ine ndipo usatsutse mtima wokondedwa wako.

Kwamuyaya.

Kwamuyaya ndi yanga.

Kwamuyaya palimodzi.

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Kuyambira pamene ndinayamba kukuwonani ndikupeza kuti ndinu munthu wotani, ndinazindikira kuti ndikufuna kukhala ndi inu moyo wanga wonse. Malingaliro, kukongola, kukhudzidwa mtima komwe mwapatsidwa ndi chirengedwe, kulimbikitsa ndikupangitsa kuti ndikhale bwino. Ndikulonjeza kuti ndikukondani nthawi zonse, moyo wanga wonse. Ine ndikulonjezani kuti ndikulemekezeni inu, nthawizonse mukhale owonamtima ndi okhulupirika kwa inu. Ndikukulumbirirani mwaluso.

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Timalonjezana kuti tili mabwenzi okondana komanso okwatirana.

Kuyankhula ndi kumvetsera, kudalira ndi kuyamikira wina ndi mzake, kulemekeza ndi kuyamikirana wina ndi mzake wapadera;

Sungani ndi kuchita zambiri wina ndi mzake nthawi zonse muzisangalala ndi chisoni.

Timalonjeza kugawira chiyembekezo, malingaliro ndi maloto athu, malinga ngati tili oyenera moyo wathu.

Tiyeni moyo wathu ukhale womangika kwamuyaya ndipo chikondi chathu chimatithandiza kukhala pamodzi.

Tidzamanga nyumba imene mgwirizano udzalamulira.

Tiyeni nyumba yathu ikhale ndi mtendere, chimwemwe ndi chikondi.

Ndikukulonjeza ndikukuyamikirani ndikukondani.

Zoipa zonse - kuiwala, kumvetsa zonse, kukhululukira chirichonse.

Ndidzakuzungulirani mosamala, chidwi, kutentha.

Ndikulumbirira kwa iwo omwe ali patebulo ili

Musamve chisoni ndi inu mawu ofunda achikondi.

Ndikulumbira kuti ndikhale wachifundo, chikhulupiriro, chikondi!

Ndidzakumbukira tsiku limenelo, kuyang'ana kutentha, zopanda pake,

Ndipo mphindi yomwe moto unayamba.

Moto wopatulika umene ine ndikulumbirira kuti ndipitirize!

Musaswe kumvetsetsa kwa ulusi woonda.

Gawani pakati pa ululu, kukoma, kulota.

Ndipo kupita kumalo osakanizika.

Gwerani - palimodzi, ndipo palimodzi muyimitse zovuta.

M'maŵa inu ndi mwana mukupsompsona.

Mwachisoni, mufooka, mwa mantha - sindidzatembenuka,

Sindidzagulitsa, sindidzapereka ndipo sindidzasiya, ndikulumbira!

Malonjezo a Ukwati a Comic

Malumbiro oyenerera kwambiri omwe ali ndi gawo la kuseketsa, ngati ukwatiwo uli nawo. Mwachitsanzo, m'nyanja kapena mwambo wamakono. Zimandivuta kulembera malembawa, ndi bwino kukonzekera kapena kufunsa mtsogoleri wamkulu.

Anali dzulo dzulo (dzina la mayi), lero ali kale (dzina la mkwati). Chabwino, ndikutsatira lamulo m'manja mwanga. Ndipo ndikulonjeza kuti sipadzakhalanso zonyansa m'nyumba mwathu! Ine ndikulumbira kuti ndisakhale capricious, kokha masiku ena okha. Ine ndikulonjeza moona mtima kuti ine nthawizonse ndimapeza mkazi mu nyumba! Mwezi uliwonse, moona mtima, ndilandira malipiro, ndikuwutumiza ku njira yolondola.

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Ndikulonjeza kuti nthawi zonse tidzakhala chakudya chamadzulo ndikudya chakudya patebulo, kuti mgwirizano ukhale wolimba komanso wokondweretsa. Sindidzasiya mwamuna wanga, chifukwa cha ine ndiye wabwino kwambiri. Sindidzapereka kwa wina aliyense! Chabwino, ngati kuli kotheka, ndimumenya ndekha!

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Ine, mkazi, ndimayesetsa kukonda mwamuna wanga

Ndipo kutentha ndi kuzizira, chisoni ndi magawano awiri!

Osatsutsana ndi kusakwiya,

Musadzutse m'mawa kwambiri!

Komanso ndi chokoma kudyetsa tsiku lililonse!

Kugwira ntchito pachabe kuti asayendetse galimoto,

Misonkho nthawi yoti achoke!

Pa maholide - chikho cha zakumwa zoledzeretsa kuti chitumikire!

Ana abwino amataya,

Ndipo musaiwale za mwana wanu wamkazi!

Kodi ndi liti liti kulengeza malumbiro a ukwati?

Ngati mwakwatirana mu mpingo chifukwa cha mwambo wa Chiprotestanti, mukhoza kusinthanitsa malonjezo mwa kuyika mphete wina ndi mnzake. Mu mwambo wa Orthodox, izi ndi zosayenera.

Pofuna kulumbira pa mwambo wa ofesi yolembera, muyenera kuchenjeza woyang'anira wanu pasadakhale, monga momwe ntchitoyi ikuyendera.

Komanso, malumbiro a mkwati ndi mkwatibwi akhoza kutsegulira phwando kapena kusanavina kuvina kwawo koyamba.