Kodi miyambo ya ukwatiwo ndi iti?

Sutu suti, zomangira, nsapato, zonse zatsopano ndi zokongola. Chovala choyera, chophimba, tsitsi, mkwatibwi ndi wokongola komanso wapadera. Ndizosangalatsa kwambiri, pamene patsiku lokha kumwetulira ndi kuseka kosangalatsa kumveka. Aliyense ali wokondwa, koma koposa zonse, anthu awiri apamwamba pa chikondwererochi ndi mkwati ndi mkwatibwi. Anthu anai okha lero adzalira, ndi chimwemwe - makolo atsopano. Chilichonse chidzakumbukiridwa, kuyambira ali mwana, monga ana akukula ndi osowa ndiye, tsopano akuluakulu tsopano akulenga banja lawo lomwe. Kotero mwamsanga anatha nthawi, ndipo tsopano pa nkhope za mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi akusangalala mokondwa, chimwemwe, chifukwa iwo anapeza wina ndi mzake.
Kusakaniza . Miyezi ingapo asanakwatirane, makolo a mkwati abwera kwa makolo a mkwatibwi ndipo amavomereza pa ukwatiwo. Funso likuyankhidwa pomwe chochitikacho chidzachitikire, ndi alendo angati omwe adzaitanidwe, kuti ndi ndalama zingati kuti muwerenge. Azimayi amasankha zomwe zidzagwiritsidwe ntchito. Funso ndi zovala ziyenera kuganizidwa ndi mkwati, zovala ndi mkwatibwi, ayenera kugula. Mu chiyanjano, maonekedwe onse ofunika kwambiri akufotokozedwa.

Ukwati . Chiwombolo cha mkwatibwi. Pamene mkwati abwera kwa mkwatibwi, abwenzi ake, ochita masewerawa amayimilira m'njira yake, ndipo amafunafuna dipo. Malipiro a mkwatibwi akhoza kufunsidwa kulikonse, ndithudi pamabwalo apakati. Wina amafunsa ndalama, ndipo wina ali ndi botolo la mkaka. Ndipo mkwati ayenera kupita ku sitolo kukapanga dipo. Ngati mkwati akwaniritsa zofunikira zonse ndipo adakondweretsa "opondereza", ndiye mkwatibwi akupatsidwa. Mkwatiyo akulandiridwa ndi makolo a mkwatibwi ndi mkate ndi mchere, ataledzera, ndikuyenda paulendo. Kufikira ku ofesi yolembera, anthu okwatirana kumene ayenera kupita kumagalimoto osiyanasiyana. Pali zamatsenga, simungakhoze kuvala wotchi pa ukwati wa mkwati kapena mkwatibwi.

Pambuyo pajambula , okwatirana kumene ndi alendo nthawi zambiri amapita kukakwera kumalo osakumbukika a mzinda, kapena kunja kwa mzinda. Mwamuna ndi mkazi tsopano akuyenda m'galimoto yomweyo. Chizindikiro chikuti tsiku lino palibe chomwe chiyenera kukhala pakati pa okwatirana kumene. Ngati panthawi yokujambula chithunzi kapena kanema, wina amakhala pakati pa okwatirana, izi ndi zoipa kwambiri. Yesani tsiku lino, khalani nthawi zonse palimodzi, gwiranani manja, ndipo musalole kupita. Ngakhale ngati wina wapemphedwa kuti akhale pakati pa inu pa mpikisano kapena masewera, musapereke kwa iwo.
Makolo amakumana ndi makolo, ndi chizindikiro, mkate ndi mchere. Amanena kuti aliyense amene akulira pa chidutswa chachikulu cha mkate adzakhala mwini nyumbayo. Kenaka amamwa mkaka ndi kuponyera magalasi a kristalo paokha, amafunika kukhala zidutswa zing'onozing'ono, akuti "Chifukwa cha Chimwemwe".

Pakati pa phwando , zosangalatsa (zovuta, zokambirana) zikuchitika. Chochitika chachiwiri chachiwiri cha tsiku lino, pambuyo pa ukwati, ndithudi, ndi kuba kwa mkwatibwi. Kawirikawiri achibale kapena abwenzi amalinganiza, ndipo amanyengerera mkwatibwi yekha, kusokoneza mkwati. Koma kwenikweni, muyenera kudandaula ndi bwenzi, popeza ndi udindo wake kugula mkwatibwi. Chochitika chachitatu chofunika, kulanda nsapato, mkwatibwi. Chifukwa cha ichi, bwenzi langa amayankha. Mwinanso ayenera kumwa kuchokera ku nsapato zake. Nyimbo, nyimbo, kuvina, nthawi zambiri zimatha mpaka m'mawa.

Ndi mphamvu yatsopano pa tsiku lachiwiri . Zochita zodzikongoletsera kapena zobisala za amuna m'zovala za amayi (nthawi zambiri Gypsies) zimakonzedwa. Ndipo kuti alowe, aliyense ayenera kumwa "khomo". Pa tsiku lachiwiri la ukwati, munthu wofunika ndi bwenzi komanso bwenzi. Pa tsiku lachiwiri amanyenga bwenzi, ndipo amaba nsapato zake. Koma tsopano dipo liyenera kulipira mkwatibwi (wokwatirana kumene). Choncho, mkwatibwi wosakwatiwa, muzosekemera, yesetsani kuthandiza kukonza moyo waumwini. Iyo imapitirira mpaka mpaka usiku.

Mpaka tsopano , m'midzi muli chizolowezi, kudzala makolo a mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi m'galimoto, ndi kusamba mumtsinje. Ndipo amavomerezedwanso, ngati makolo amapatsa mwana wamng'ono (wotsiriza) ukwati, kuti amange chikhomo pabwalo kapena pafupi, kotero kuti palibe kuthetsa ndi kukwatirana pakati pa ana. Izi zimachitidwa ndi abambo a mkwatibwi.