Kodi mungakondweretse bwanji tsiku lakubadwa kwa mwana kunyumba, kotero kuti tsiku lino silingaiwalike? Thandizani mwana wanu kukhala mlendo wokondwerera tsiku la kubadwa kwake, ndiye adzakumbukiradi tsiku lino, ndipo lero lino adzakhaladi ake. Musaope chisokonezo ndi phokoso la madzulo amodzi, yesetsani kuti holide ikhale yosangalatsa komanso yosangalala. Pali malingaliro othandiza okhudza momwe mungakonzekere tsiku lakubadwa kwa mwana wanu ndikupanga holide kwa iye ndi abwenzi ake.
Yambani ndi kukonza tsiku lanu lobadwa pasabata milungu iwiri. Panthawiyi, mudzakhala ndi nthawi yolankhulana ndi mndandanda wa ana omwe akuitanidwa. Aloleni kuti adziwe ngati ali ochokera ku bwalo lonse kapena gulu lonse - ndiye mungathe kumusonyeza kuti ali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi alendo, malinga ndi bajeti komanso kukula kwa nyumba yanu. Pambuyo pokambirana ndi alendo, sankhani tsiku la chikondwerero - ndizomveka kupereka mwana wanu kuti azikondwerera tchuthi pamapeto a sabata, ngati tsiku lobadwa la sabata linatha pa sabata. Yesani kufotokozera kuti abwenzi onse apamtima angabwere lero lino. Eya, ngati muitana ana omwe ali ndi postcard kapena mawu, inu ndi mwana wanu, muwonetseni kuti chikondwererocho chidzakhala chiti kwa nthawi yaitali bwanji. Zidzakhala bwino kwa makolo a alendo oitanidwa - ndiye akhoza kuwatenga kapena kudikirira nthawi inayake. Perekani maitanidwe pasadakhale: masiku anayi mpaka asanu ndi awiri asanafike "tsiku lobadwa". Lowetsani adilesi yanu ndi nambala ya foni muitanidwe. Mwana wanu mosakayika adzakondwera kuyesera ndi kupanga makhadi oitanidwa, ndipo abwenzi ake adzakondweretsanso.
Kuchita chikondwerero cha tsiku lakubadwa kwa mwana kunyumba kumakhala kosangalatsa, yesetsani kupanga tchuthi m'mlengalenga - kukongoletsa chipinda ndi mipira, zibironi, mauta, kukoka positi "Mwalandiridwa ku Tsiku lobadwa!". Gwiritsani ntchito ndemanga imodzi yabwino pamapangidwe. Mwachitsanzo, mipira ya buluu imadulidwa pa pepala lopepuka, ndikudula maluwa a buluu. Lolani zakudya zomwe mumakonzekera zikhale ndi mayina abwino kwambiri. Kapena lembani pamabendera omwe amavala, ngati ana angawerenge.
Kuti anawo azisangalala, sungani malo pamalo osangalatsa. Musaiwale kuti zonse zomwe mwana wanu adzizoloŵera - kuti asakhudze kanyumba kakang'ono kapena kutsegula kapu ndi kristalo - ana ena mwachibadwa sangadziwe za izo komanso nthawi yosangalatsa sichizindikira zinthu zimenezi. Konzani tebulo kuti ikhale yochuluka, pangani malo a khoma kuti muthe kusuntha tebulo, ndikupangire malo.
Mwana wanu ndi wofunika kwambiri, kotero kuti amayi anga amawoneka bwino, choncho ganizirani za maonekedwe anu pasadakhale. Dzipatseni mpweya mutatha zokonzekera zonse ndipo osachepera theka la ora musanalandire alendo kuti mubweretse nokha ndi mwana wanu.
Mukakumana ndi alendo makamaka ndi amene anayambitsa chikondwererochi, yesetsani kuwapatsa ana kukhala ndi chidaliro - ndiuzeni momwe iwo amawonekera bwino lero, onetsetsani chinachake m'maonekedwe awo. Onetsetsani tsitsi lanu kapena zovala ngati kuli kofunikira, kuwathandiza kuti asokoneze ndikuwonetsera komwe galasi liri. Ngati mumakondwerera tsiku lobadwa la mwana wanu wamkazi, yesani kuyika malo kapena chipinda chovala kwa abwenzi ake.
Alandire alendo omwe abwera kale ndi zidole za mwanayo, pamene ena akusonkhanitsa. Yesetsani kuti musakhale pansi patebulo, musamapatse ana pasadakhale, ngati n'kotheka, pezani mbale ndi mapepala. Dulani chitseko ku khitchini, musasiye zozizwitsa zomwe mukuziwona. Yambani kusewera masewera ndi ana, pamene ambiri mwa alendowa ali kale pamsonkhano, zidzathandiza ana kuti azikhala bwino ndikudziwirana wina ndi mzake, komanso alendo - kuti azicheza nawo. Pali masewera oti adziwane, ndi othandiza kwambiri kwa ana omwe amadzidalira kwambiri awiriwa. Mwachitsanzo, masewera awa: kudula mitima kuchokera pamapepala osiyana siyana ndikudula iwo theka, pindani pang'ono kuti mukhale chipewa ndi kusakaniza, akuwuzani ana kuti atulutse chidutswa chimodzi ndikupeza hafu yawo. Ngati nambala ya alendo ndi yosamvetseka, dulani mtima umodzi mu zidutswa zitatu. Masewera ena apamtima: Konzani kutalika kwa ulusi wofiira, pafupi mamita 2, kuwafalikira pansi, kusakaniza, aliyense atenge chingwe chilichonse ndikupeza mnzake pa ulusi.
Ndipo kotero, onse oitanira ku msonkhanowo - ndi nthawi ya tebulo! Khalani okonzeka, kuti chinachake chidzatsanulira ndikuphwanyika, kusungidwa ndi zikhomo zofunikira. Konzani chakudya chomwe sichingamve chisoni kuti muthe, pokha-kutaya, gwiritsani ntchito magalasi otsika. Ikani mbale zonse momwe aliyense angafikire. Ndipo mkatikati mwa gome, ndithudi, konzani keke ndi makandulo. Mukhoza kudandaula za kukolola koyambirira, kotero konzekerani mapepala, ma makeke ndi mikate yomwe sidzaphwanyidwa kwambiri. Musayesetse kudabwa kwambiri ndi ana ndi zokondweretsa za mbale, chiwerengero cha mitima pa keke, gwiritsani ntchito zonona. Dulani pie ndi mikate muzidutswa ting'onoting'ono kuti tizitha kutenga. Masangweji ayenera kukhala aang'ono. Mulole kuti mukhale ndi zakumwa zokwanira. Mukhoza kupanga madzi kapena kusokoneza kupanikizana ndi madzi, koma onetsetsani kuti zakumwa sizokoma kwambiri. Mukasungunula tiyi, nthawi yomweyo muziganizira kuti zimatengera madzi ambiri kutentha. Khalani mumadzi ozizira ozizira, kuti muthe kuchepetsa tiyi wotentha.
Pambuyo pa "phwando", tumizani alendo kuti adzikonzekere: aphika tsitsi lawo, asambe m'manja. Yesani kuchotsa nthawi yomweyo kuchokera pa tebulo, kuphatikizapo othandizira ang'onoang'ono. Konzani masks kapena mitu yoyenera kuti musangalale, zomwe zingathe kuseweredwe pakati pa ana mu loti yopambana-mphoto mu "chipinda chachiwiri" cha holide yanu. Pa chinthu chilichonse, pezani nambala, pezani makadi oyenera ndi manambala. Masks ndi zipewa zimabisa pamaso pa ana, mwachitsanzo, kuziphimba ndi mpango. Ikani makhadi pa tebulo nkhope pansi, kubisa chiwerengerocho, kapena kuyika mu chidebe. Kujambula khadi, aliyense pa masewerawa amapeza mphoto yake - chigoba kapena chipewa. Ganizirani za masewera omwe opambana atatu omwe angapindule angapindule nawo mphotho, koma yesetsani kusatsegula masewerawo kukhala kufunafuna mphatso. Kuti muchite izi, masewera ena ndi mphoto ndi omwe palibe wopambana. Mphoto ikhoza kuwonedwa penseni, mapensulo, zolembera, puzzles, magalasi, beji, asilikali ndi mphatso zina.
Pa chikondwerero cha tsiku la kubadwa kwa mwana kunyumba, yesetsani kumvetsera kwa mlendo aliyense, musati mukhale ndi munthu wina makamaka. Ngati mmodzi wa anawo sangathamangire kuti alowe nawo kampaniyo ndi kukhala pangodya, musaumirire kuitanidwa, gwiritsani ntchito mwayi wina, mwachitsanzo, mupatseni kukuthandizani kuti mubweretsere patebulo kapena kusuntha mipando. Gwiritsani ntchito mayina ang'onoang'ono, pewani kuwachitira chithandizo ngati "ana". Ngati mukuti: "Ana, tsopano tidzakhala ndi masewera osangalatsa," ganizirani kuti palibe wina wakuvetserani, ndipo mudzatchuka, monga Komrade Dynin mu msasa wapainiya. Ngati pali phokoso lambiri m'nyumba yanu, ndiye kuti tchuthi lidali lopambana. Ngati zaka zafika zaka 12, ndiye kuti konzekerani zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti ana asayime, osadziwa choti achite.
Ndibwino kuti musankhe masewera omwe mumawadziŵa, kotero simukusowa kuti muthamangire. Yesani kusintha masewera ena osasunthika, pamene mungathe kutentha ndi kusewera ndi masewera achitetezo, komwe mungasonyeze kuti muli ndi luso komanso luso. Kusintha pakati pa masewera, ana sangathe kunyalanyaza kapena "kugona". Musaiwale kufotokoza mwatsatanetsatane malamulowo musanafike masewera onse. Chitani nawo pamsewero ngati mtsogoleri kapena ngati wophunzira, koma musaiwale kuti simungapange ubwino kwa timu yomwe mumasewera
Kawirikawiri kwa ana osapitirira zaka 12, maola 4-5 osangalatsa ndi okwanira. Ndipo ngakhale kuti adzakukakamizani kuti muwonjezere nthawi, musapereke! Ngati nthawi ikuyandikira, yambani kukonzekera ana kuti nthawi ifike, pamene aliyense wa iwo adzadikirira kunyumba. Kumapeto kwa tchuthi, kupereka zochitika monga mapepala, mwachitsanzo, onetsetsani kuti ali ofanana. Kapena mukhoza kuwagawa m'maganizo a anyamata ndi atsikana. Ikani masikiti osakumbukika omwe mungathe mu matumba wamba a cellophane. Musaiwale kuthokoza alendo onse omwe amabwera kudzachita phwando la kubadwa kwa mwana wanu kunyumba ndikuyamikiranso mnyamata wa kubadwa, ndikuwonetsani chiyembekezo cha msonkhano woyamba.