Kusamvana "ana - makolo" kosatha. Ena samawamvetsa ena, omaliza amayesa kuphunzitsa oyamba ... Ndipo nthawizonse palibe chabwino chimachokera. Ndipo mbali zonse ziwiri zikuganiza, zomvetsa chisoni kuti zimvetsetsana, chodandaula chachikulu ndi chakuti makolo amagwira ntchito, ndipo ana amasangalala ndi moyo ...
Ana amafunikira ziphuphu choyamba, kenako zidole zamtengo wapatali, ndipo atatha masewera awo ndi zosangalatsa zimakhala zazikulu kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, mwana wopitirira muyeso angafune kusewera "m'banja" kapena "mu bizinesi." Makolo, pamene ali ndi udindo, amakakamizika nthawi zonse kuti athandize mwanayo. Choncho mumakhala ndi vuto lomwe simukudziwa kuti makolo amatha bwanji, ndipo ana amasangalala ndi moyo wokhala pa khosi la makolo awo.
Ziri zovuta kuti ana amve zomwe makolo awo ali - ndizoona. Ubwana ndi kudzikonda ndi achinyamata. Ndipo pokhapokha ana atakhala makolo, amatha kumverera udindo wawo wonse. Iwo akhoza kulingalira kuchuluka kwa makolo awo ndi ndalama zawo, nthawi ndi maluso omwe amapatsidwa mwa iwo. Koma kodi anawo ali ndi vutoli, kapena kodi amamvetsetsanso kuti amasangalala ndi moyo wawo wonse pamene makolo awo akugwira ntchito?
Palibe amene ali ndi mlandu
Choyamba, ana amaphunzira kuyenda, ndiye_kumvetsa moyo mu mawonetseredwe ake onse. Nthawi yonseyi, iwo ndi makolo. Poyambirira, amayi ndi abambo - ndi pafupifupi chilengedwe chonse. Ndipo mwanayo amadalira 100%. Kutonthoza ndi ukhondo, chitukuko ndi kulankhulana ngakhale m'chaka choyamba cha moyo - zonsezi ziyenera kufunidwa kuchokera kwa makolo.
Ana akukula, ndipo makolo akufuna kuti awone "ana omwewo," omwe iwo adakula kwa zaka zambiri, omwe amawazoloŵera. Koma ana ali ndi masomphenya awo a dziko lapansi, osiyana, angakhale osamvetsetseka ndi makolo awo, komanso zowonjezera - zokhumba zawo (zosiyana ndi malangizo a makolo "momwe angakhalire bwino"). Choncho, mikangano, mikangano ndi mikangano sizingapeweke.
Ndipo chinthu chowopsya kwambiri mu nthawi yovutayi "yachinyamata" ndi chakuti mwana wayamba kale kukula ndi malingaliro ake ndipo ali wodziimira kwathunthu, koma iye alibe ufulu wa zakuthupi. Kotero chirichonse chimene iye akufuna, iye amafunanso kachiwiri kuchokera ku chilengedwe - kuchokera kwa makolo ake omwe apanga kumudyetsa iye, kupereka ndi kusunga mpaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi zitatu.
Ndipo tsopano, izo zikuwoneka, malire otsiriza. Mwanayo analandira kalata ya kukhwima, adutsa mzere ... koma ayi! Dikirani, tikupitiriza. Anakonzekera "kulowa" (kachiwiri, pakuumiriza kwa makolo - pa dipatimenti ya nthawi zonse) - timaphunzira. Ndipo ndithudi "ife". Kodi kamodzi kalelo kale "timadya" kapena "ife pokakali" ...
Choncho, zaka zisanu za maphunziro, ndipo mwanayo kale ndi wamkulu ... Ngakhale akudikirira! Anapita kuntchito - ndipo potsiriza sanati "tinapita." M'mapiri a m'nkhalango, "mwana" wako ayenera kuthana ndi yekha. Pano pali malipiro okha omwe apumula - ndi malipiro oterowo m'njira iliyonse yomwe simungakwanitse kupeza pogona. Amayi, Bambo, thandizo! Kapena osachepera, musadandaule. Pano muli ndi $ 50. pa chakudya changa, ndi kwa communal - kotero kuti musatseke kuwala kwa nokha, kotero iko kumawotchera!
Ndipo pamapeto a sabata mwana amapita kwa mtsikanayo kapena kusiya mabwenzi ake, kuwononga malipiro ake ochepa. Amayi (nthawi zina amakhala kale ndi penshoni), amapereka kwa mwanayo ndalama zosowa "zodzoladzola" kapena "za pantyhose". Choncho zimakhala zovuta kuti wina asamvetsetse chifukwa chake makolo (ngakhale zaka zapuma pantchito) akugwirabe ntchito, ndipo ana amasangalala ndi moyo phindu lawo ...
Choncho, malipiro awonjezeka, ntchitoyi imapezeka ndikutsimikiziridwa. Ndi nthawi yoti makolo apume paokha ... Koma ana amakwatira ndi kukwatira, ndipo makamaka kuchokera kwa mkwatibwi (ngakhale mkwati akhoza kulipira ndalama zonse), makolo "athandiza". Eya, si kwa msungwana wawo wosauka yekha kuti amusokoneze ndalama zake mwakuya malipiro ake!
Ndiye ana, kenako nyumba, ndiye galimoto sikokwanira ... Makolo sapereka chirichonse - amapereka omalizira, ngati ana awo ali ochuluka ndipo sakusowa. Ngakhale ngati chofunikira ichi chiri cholingalira, motero, "pafupifupi" ...
Nthawi ina, ndipo posakhalitsa, muyenera kunena "Lekani, Nkwanira . " Kuchita izi molondola komanso moyenera, kufotokoza kuti mabanja tsopano ali osiyana, bajeti - nayenso. Inde, ndi nkhanza kubwera ndi maluwa ndi keke pa tsiku lobadwa la mwana wanu wokondedwa kapena mwana wanu, osati kukuthokozani ndi chinachake chovuta kwambiri. Komabe, ngati mwayi wa zachuma wapuma, ndiye kuti n'zotheka ndi choncho. Koma mulimonsemo, nthawi yomweyo iyenera kubwera pamene ana amatha kumvetsa kuti makolo amangogwira ntchito, komanso amasangalala ndi moyo. Makolo angathe kukhala ndi zolinga zawo komanso zosungira zawo, osati zofanana ndi zolinga za ana ...