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Makhalidwe achikazi amalingalira za psychology ya amuna
Kuponderezedwa ndi mkazi kumenyana ndi munthu nthawi zambiri kumafuna kupeza chinthu chimene munthu sapereka kapena chofuna kuchita kapena chofuna. Chifukwa cha kugwiritsidwa ntchito, munthu akhoza kuchita chinachake chomwe sichikuyang'aniridwa, koma nthawi zambiri amadziwa kuti akugwiritsidwa ntchito, akukwiyitsa ndipo amakhala wosamvana kapena wotsekedwa mwa yekha.
Kunyenga kwachikazi kawirikawiri kumakhala kobisika, kaso ndi kosangalatsa kwa mwamuna. Ndicho chifukwa chake sangamuzindikire konse. Tiyerekeze kuti mukufuna kuti akugulitseni makilogalamu asanu a mbatata. Mutha kuigwiritsa ntchito, kunena kuti mpaka atapita ku sitolo, chakudya sichidzapeza. Ndipo mukhoza kusonyeza chinyengo cha mkazi: funsani kuti agule chimene akufuna - chatsopano chatsopano ndi filimu kapena botolo la mowa, ndipo panjira amulande makilogalamu asanu a mbatata. Mu pempho lotero, pali kugwiritsidwa ntchito pang'ono, ndi kudziyang'anira kwambiri.
Makhalidwe achikazi amathandiza bwino ngati amamupatsa mlingo wa chidwi
Kulingalira kwa mwamuna ndi wandulendo wopulumutsa anthu onse omwe amakulolani kuti mukhazikitse ubwenzi wanu ndi iye nthawi yamtendere, ndikuwongolera pa nthawi ya mikangano ndi mikangano. Pankhani za chisamaliro, akazi ali ndipamwamba kwambiri kuposa amuna. Zoona zake n'zakuti amayi amatha kugwiritsira ntchito molakwika maganizo, zolinga ndi zochitika za munthu. Amachita zimenezi podziwa kuwonjezereka kwa maganizidwe a malingaliro ndi khalidwe, ndipo khalidweli ndilopangidwa mwa iwo, silikufuna khama.
Ngati mukufuna kukwaniritsa chinachake kuchokera kwa munthu, samalirani zomwe akuziganizira kwambiri. Mkazi wodziwa zambiri nthawi zonse amasiyanitsa nkhawa za mchibale wake wa kukhumudwa za momwe akugwirira ntchito. Musamusiye zomwe akukumana nazo, funsani kulankhula ndi kutulutsa maganizo anu panja. Pokhapokha mwamunayo atachepetsedwa, ndizomveka kumupweteka ndi mavuto ake ndi zopempha zake, mwinamwake mungathe kukambirana momveka bwino za ubalewu.
Makhalidwe omwe amaika njira zolakwika
Sizinthu nthawi zonse zomwe zimagwira ntchito ndi anthu. Malangizo nthawi zambiri samvetsa, kotero ngati mukufuna kuti achite chinachake, muyenera kufunsa mwachindunji, pamphumi. Ngakhale zimakhudza nkhani zovuta monga maluwa monga mphatso kapena njira yapadera yochepetsera kugonana.
Kuti musakhale ndi maganizo akuti izi zikusemphana ndi zomwe tazitchula pamwambapa, tifunika kuzindikira kuti nthawi ndi malo si nthawi zonse zowonongeka ndi amayi. Konzani munthu pazokambirana yofunikira kapena pempho lomwe mungathe mothandizidwa ndi zizolowezi za amai, koma pempho lomwelo ndiloyenera kulankhula molunjika. Kotero, posachedwa iye amvetsa zomwe mukufuna, ndipo ngati ali womasuka, amavomereza kukuthandizani.
Zolakolako za mayesero
Amuna ambiri adakali osasamala, ndipo samakonda pamene mkazi akuwongolera. Ndichifukwa chake gawo la mayesero ndilo gawo limene kugwiritsira ntchito zizoloŵezi zazimayi kuli koyenera koposa.
Ngati mukufuna kumunyengerera, chithunzi cholunjika ndi diso diso. Yang'anani kutalika kwake komwe akuyimira, akuyang'ana m'maso mwanu kapena akupewa. Amuna ndi akazi sangathe kubisa chifundo chawo kapena kusagwirizana pazinthu zosalankhula. Kawirikawiri amakuyang'anirani maso, amakupatsani mpata woti ayesedwe.
Njira ina yosonyezera munthu wokonzekera chiyanjano ndi manja apadera ndi kayendetsedwe kake. Ngati mkazi akugwedeza nsapato pa mwendo wake, zikuwoneka ngati zovuta, ndipo amuna ambiri, osadziwa, atengepo kuti ayambe kuchitapo kanthu. Zovuta zonyenga ndi kuyenda kwa manja pamene mkazi akuwombera mutu. Powonetsa mawere ake, amamuuza kuti sakulimbana ndi kugonana, ndipo amuna ambiri omasuka ali okonzeka kutenga. Zayesero zina zimakhudza khosi. Ngati khosi la mkazi liri ndi tsitsi, ndikumuwonetsa ku kayendetsedwe ka dzanja lake, nayenso amamuyesa munthu yemwe amamukopa. Zonsezi siziyenera kukhala zosangalatsa, zisewera, ndipo siziyenera kubwerezedwa mobwerezabwereza. Ngati mukufuna kumunyengerera mwamuna kuti aganize kuti akupusitsani, yesetsani kukhala wachilengedwe komanso kukhala ndi moyo wabwino.
Zovuta za Muse: momwe mungadzetse wamkulu kwa msilikali
Asayansi apeza kuti munthu amapindula zambiri ngati amakhulupirira yekha. Mwamuna ayenera kudzidzimva yekha kwambiri: wochenjera kwambiri, wochenjera kwambiri ndi wochuluka. Chinthu chochititsa chidwi kwambiri ndi chakuti ngati mkazi wokhulupilika ali ndi pakati, amene amamuthandiza nthawi zonse, akhoza kukwaniritsa zambiri kuposa munthu waluso amene amakhala ndi mkazi wokondwa.
Akazi abwino amadziwa bwino kuti amuna olemera ndi otchuka sangakwanitse. Kuonjezera apo, pali zokongola zambiri zokongola zomwe zikuzungulira iwo kuti ndizosatheka kupikisana nawo kuti azisamalira amuna omwe ali kale. Ndicho chifukwa chake amasankha kukhala malo osungirako zinthu zakale.
Kupembedza koyera kwa mkazi wake sikukwanira nkomwe. Mwamuna ayenera kumvetsera mawu akuyamikira nthawi ndi nthawi. Ndibwino kuti, ngati akuyankhulidwa ndi munthu wina. Makamaka amuna amauziridwa powafanizira iwo ndi amuna ena, momwe aliyense woyandikana naye wataya. Chinyengo cha mkazi apa ndi chakuti sangathe kunena zoona nthawi zonse. Azimayi ndi ochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kotero iwo angaphatikizepo zizindikiro za kupembedza nthawi iliyonse ndi chifukwa chilichonse. Chinthu chachikulu apa sikuti chikhale chopitirira malire ndikuyesa kuyamikirira makhalidwe omwe munthu ali wofookera mwa iye, mwinamwake adzakayikira kuti ndinu wosakhulupirika.
Mwachidziwikire, tinganene kuti akazi, pogwiritsa ntchito njira zina pochitira ndi amuna, amatha kulenga dziko lawo mu malotowo. Ndipo ngati palibe akalonga akuzungulira iwe pa kavalo wokongola, iwe ukhoza kukwatirana ndi chifukwa cha tsamba pa maasoni. Chinthu chachikulu - chikhulupiliro chake mwa mwamuna ndi kuthekera kuphatikiza nzeru za akazi, zomwe zingathandize pony pony mu stallion, ndikupanga tsamba kukhala kalonga. Kwa mkazi wanzeru - palibe chosatheka!