Kugwiritsa ntchito chiyamiko sikungokondweretsa zokhazokha zokha, komanso kukhazikitsidwa ndi iye kulankhulana kosangalatsa ndi mgwirizano m'tsogolomu.
Makalata ofunika kwambiri amathandiza pa nkhani za chikondi.
Kwa mtsikanayo, kuyamikira kwake kumamvetsera kumakhala kolimbikitsa kwambiri, kudutsa mwa chidziwitso, kukula, kufika pamakhalidwe omwe adapatsidwa. Mkazi aliyense, osati ngakhale maluwa okongola kwambiri ndipo amakhala wokongola kwambiri, kulandira chitsimikizo kuti ali wofunikira ndipo akhoza kukhala wokonda.
Chikhumbo chokondweretsa amuna, kuwapambana iwo ndi makhalidwe awo apamwamba ndi obadwa mwa akazi mwa chilengedwe chokha. Ngati sichinali, lamulo la kusankha zakuthupi sikungagwire ntchito, kusuntha kusinthika. Chifukwa chakuti mkazi wokongola kwambiri ndiye ali ndi mwayi wosankha olemekezeka, amphamvu kwambiri oimira amuna omwe ali ndi pakati pa ana omwe ali olimba komanso okongola, omwe angathe kukhalabe ndi moyo wovuta kwambiri komanso kubereka kwa mibadwo yambiri.
Potsatira lamulo lomwelo la chisinthiko, amuna amayesa kusankha akazi okongola ndi angwiro, mosamvetsetsa potero kusankha amayi awo kwa ana awo amtsogolo.
Koma zabwino ndi zokongola kwambiri ziyenera kugonjetsedwa ndi kugonjetsedwa.
Ndipo mutenge mphotho yotere, bwanji zosavuta! Wosaka ndi msilikali mwachibadwa amakhala wokakamizika kusonyeza nzeru, kuleza mtima ndi chipiriro ngati amasankha akazi abwino kwambiri. Chifukwa ngati iye ali wankhondo mwiniyekha, msaki, ndiye mkazi weniweni yemwe sanatayike zachilengedwe zachilengedwe zachilengedwe sangazipeze mosavuta. Iye ndi mpanda wolimba, yemwe ndi wofatsa kwambiri yemwe angakhale wofatsa ndi wokhumudwitsa yekha ndi munthu yemwe angakhoze kumutsimikizira kuti ndi iye adzakhala bwino, mosamala ndi mosamala. Pano padzakhala kofunikira kulankhula zokongola kwambiri kwa mtsikana!
Pazinthu izi, mutha kukhala ndi malamulo awo omwe ndi malamulo owonetseredwa mukuchita, zomwe ndibwino kuti musanyalanyaze ngati mukufuna kupambana. Makamaka, popeza bwanayo akufuna kugonjetsa mtsikanayo, kumuuza zokometsetsa zokongola kwambiri, ayenera kumvetsera ndi kuzindikira za maonekedwe ake ndi malingaliro ake. Podziwa chinthu chomwe amachivala kapena chovala chake, chomwe amachiona chofunika kwambiri, muyenera kumusonyeza kuti amayamikira. Komabe, wina sayenera kuiwala za mbali yauzimu ya munthu wosankhidwayo. Muyenera kumamuuza za iye mwini, maganizo ake, nkhawa zake ndikuwonetseratu kuti ali wokonzeka kuchita nawo moyo wake. Pang'onopang'ono, adzizoloŵera zomwe akufunikira ndikuzikonda, ndipo mwadzidzidzi amapeza kuti sangathe kuchita popanda munthu yemwe, ngati kuti akungoyamika mtsikanayo, ndiye kuti ndizofunikira pa moyo wake wonse.
Pezani mawu omwe adzakhale chiyamiko chokongola kwambiri kwa mtsikana - zonse zaluso! Pali ngakhale mapulogalamu ophunzitsidwa, okambidwa ndi okonzedwa ndi akatswiri a maganizo ndi anthu omwe atha kukhala angwiro m'munda uno. Kotero, mwachitsanzo, pogwiritsa ntchito zochitikazi, mukhoza kupeza kuti mayamikowa ndi osiyana kwambiri.
Pali zoyamikila - zofananitsa, pamene munthu akufuna kunena zabwino, poyerekeza ndi munthu wolemekezeka, potero akugogomezera makhalidwe ofanana ndi mawonekedwe apamwamba, nzeru kapena talente. Mwachitsanzo: "Poyerekeza ndi inu, Venus Milosskaya ndi mzimayi wochokera mumudzi wa Gadyukino." Kapena: "Ngati Madonna akamva mawu anu, amatha kudziwombera yekha!"
Nthawi zina, ndizozoloŵera kusonyeza makhalidwe abwino kwambiri pakati pa oyankhulana, kuwatcha powonekera. Chitsanzo: "Mwachita mwanzeru pamfundoyi kuti mwina, sindinathe kuchita zimenezi".
Pali zoyamikira zomwe sizolunjika, pamene makhalidwe a wolandirayo sakudziwika, koma omwe amamulemekeza: "Ndi galu yodabwitsa bwanji yomwe muli nayo. Zikuwonekeratu kuti iye ndi wanzeru komanso wanzeru. Ali ndi maso otcheru! "
Kapena: "M'nyumba mwako muli malo otentha komanso osangalatsa!"
Chisangalalo chikhoza kuperekedwa ngati wina akutamanda zomwe apindula:
"Ndiwe wabwino kwambiri! Kotero ali wamng'ono, koma zambiri zafika kale! Munaliyendetsa bwanji? "
Zomveka zokongola kwambiri kwa msungwana zidzakhala nthawi zonse ngati pali ziganizo zambiri muyezo wapamwamba: "osadziŵika bwino", "Angelo okongola", "amphamvu onse," "odabwitsa," "okoma," "odzitamandira," "okhwima, "Wodabwitsa," "ovomerezeka," "wokoma mtima," "kuyembekezera," "wapatali," "wowona mtima," "wapadera," "mkazi," "wofuna," ndi zina zotero, ndi zina zotero.
Chida chosadziwika kuti chikope chidwi ndi kukwaniritsa zotsatira ngati chiyamiko chokongola chidzawoneka ngati mawonekedwe, ndikudziwitsa mayiyo kuti ali ndi mphamvu zovuta zamatsenga zokopa amuna. Ndikofunika kuti tisapitirize kutero, chifukwa ngati atamva mawu achinyengo, mayamiko onse okongola kwambiri kwa mtsikana angangokhala fumbi m'maso mwake! Ngati munthu amamuwonadi mulungu wamkazi woyera, ndiye kuti, poyankhula mawu otere, sadzawombera konse. Koma ngati mwamunthu wamumtima wamumtima sakudziwa, ndibwino kuti musatenge mwayi.
Palibe choyipa choyamikirika kuposa chiwonongeko chachikulu. Ngakhale pali amayi otere omwe ali okonzeka kumvetsera okha ndi machitidwe awo oganiza mopanda pake, kuti angopeza kuchokera ku zosangalatsa zosautsa. Koma izi ndizosiyana, zomwe zimawalola akatswiri a maganizo. Ngakhale, kuti ovomerezekawa asankhe "mayamiko" sangakhale ovuta.
Ndipotu, zokometsera zokongola sizingatheke chifukwa cha tanthawuzo, chifukwa zingakhumudwitse ndikupatula zomwe zimakonda komanso zoyenera. Kuwona mtima ndi chisomo, kuwonetsa komanso kukhala ndi maganizo abwino pa moyo, pa anthu nthawi zonse zimathandiza kusankha mawu oyenerera komanso olondola omwe mungapambane nawo mtima, ngakhale mtsikana wokongola kwambiri.