Banja lililonse lovomerezeka limakhala lokhazikika pamachitidwe a moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku (nkhani za bajeti, kufunafuna nyumba ndi magwero a ndalama), komano pakupanga mgwirizano wa banja - mgwirizano wamphamvu, wauzimu pakati pa mamembala, ndikupanga chiyanjano. Kawirikawiri kupezeka kwa maudindo mkati mwa banja ndikoti mwamunayu akufunafuna chuma, ndipo amakhazikitsa ubale wamtundu ndi umoyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku-mkazi. Koma ngati mkaziyo akuchita bwino mu bizinesi - kufalitsa maudindo akuphwanyidwa, mkaziyo, kumangoganizira za ndalama, nthawi zambiri alibe nthawi yokhazikitsira moyo. Ndani adzayendetsa moyo? Mwamuna uja?
Munthu wamba sangathe kugwirizanitsidwa ndi lingaliro lakuti iye sali woyang'anira komanso wotsogolera banja. Kuwonjezera apo, kupanga chikhalidwe chofanana cha banja ndikofunika kukhala ndi makhalidwe angapo, nthawi zambiri osakhala nawo kwa amuna - kuthekera kugwira ntchito zingapo panthawi imodzi, kukhala nawo nthawi zonse, kukhala okondwa, kufunitsitsa kumvetsera, kumvetsa, kutonthoza ndi kuthandizidwa ndi uphungu.
Pokhala ndi makhalidwe amenewa, munthuyo amaoneka ngati ifefefe, rozhli, ndipo sitingapambane. Ndipo kaya mkazi wamalonda akufuna kumanga banja ndi munthu woteroyo? Ayi, adzayang'ana mofanana ndi iye mwini - mtsogoleri wamphamvu, wogwira ntchito, wodalitsika yemwe sangawononge nthawi pa chinthu chosafunikira ngati banja. Zikatero, banja "laufulu" limapezeka - pamene onse awiri amanga ntchito zawo, ndipo musamakakamizane wina ndi mzake ndi maudindo.
Koma banja lonse lathunthu silingatheke popanda chomwe chimatchedwa "akazi" gawo. Kawirikawiri vuto ngati limeneli limathetsedwa polemba amayi a nyumba - ndipo nyumbayo ndi yoyera, ndipo palibe ntchito imene imasokoneza ntchito. Ngati padzakhala ana - tilandira ngongole! Ngati zikuwoneka kuti wokwatirana wapita chifukwa cha ntchito yake - ziribe kanthu, wokondedwa angathandize! Pano kuchotsedwa kwa mabanja.
Kotero, mkazi wamalonda alibe nzeru zoti asankhe munthu woyenera, kapena kuleza mtima kuti azikhala ndi zomwe ziri. Ndipo timakhala ndi mabanja achikhalidwe, omwe amakumana ndi mavuto, pamene aliyense amayesera kumanga ntchito zawo ndi kumagwiritsira ntchito zowononga.
Machitidwe amakono a zachuma samaloleza mkazi kukhala pakhomo ndikupanga "kutaya nthawi." Tiyeni tiwone kuti ana omwe anakulira akuwona makolo awo ola asanakagone sangawonongeke makhalidwe awo a banja ngati chiwonongeko. Ndizomvetsa chisoni kuti mkazi wamalonda ndi mavuto a m'banja, nthawi zambiri - zosagwirizana.
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