Mkazi, wokhudzidwa ndi chisamaliro chatsopano cha mwanayo, nthawi zambiri amaiwala kuti mwamunayo akusowa chidwi. Mwamuna amayesetsanso kuthandiza pakhomo komanso ndi mwanayo, koma kuyesayesa kwake kosasinthasintha kumakhalabe kosayamika komanso mobwerezabwereza kuposa momwe amachitira kuti amachita chilichonse cholakwika. Kamodzi - osati choncho, nthawi yachiwiri - osati choncho, nthawi yachitatu - osati choncho, koma nthawi yachinayi kale ndipo chilakolako chothandiza sichikuwuka. "Ndichifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kuthandiza, ngati zofanana ndikuchita chirichonse cholakwika, momwe ziyenera kukhalira?" - akuganiza mwamuna wake. Poyamba, zimamukhumudwitsa. Ndiyeno izo zimakhala zachizolowezi.
Sitingaiwale kuti asanakhalepo mwanayo, chisamaliro chonse cha mzimayi chinali choyang'ana pa iye, ndipo tsopano adakhalabe wopanda chisamaliro ndi chikondi. Musaganize kuti ndi kosavuta kwa iye. Iye, nayonso, tsopano ali ndi zovuta.
Mkaziyo amadzikwiyira yekha kuti: "Chump ndi yopanda chifundo, palibe thandizo kuchokera kwa iye simungayime. Ndikuyesa iye ndi mwanayo, ndimayiwala ndekha, koma samayamikira! " Ndipo nayenso ali ndi choonadi chake.
Kotero pakubwera mzere wozungulira. Ndipo kupsa mtima kukuwonjezerana wina ndi mnzake, okwatirana ambiri amathawa.
Tiyeni tiganizire za momwe tingapewere mavutowa kapena osapanga nthawi yopanda phindu ngati mwana atabadwa m'banja.
Taganizirani izi: kuti muyenera kuyang'anira ndi mwana wanu bwino kusiyana ndi mwamuna wanu, ndiye kuti chibadwa chanu chimasungidwa mwachibadwa. Mayi, umayi ndi wobwerekedwa, ndipo mwamuna ayenera kuphunzira paternity. Kotero, nthawi iliyonse yomwe mukufuna kumunyoza mwamuna chifukwa chochita choipa kuposa iwe, pita pamtima pako kuti ukhale ndi chilakolako chimenechi! Ndipo mmalo mwa chitonzo ^ matamando! Tamandani mwamuna wanu nthawi zonse pamene akuyamba kukuthandizani ndi mwana kapena pafupi ndi nyumba. Pamapeto pake, kuti mudziwe chilichonse, mufunika nthawi. Nthawi idzapita, ndipo mwamuna adzaphunzira zonse zofunika.
Ziribe kanthu momwe iwe uli wotopa, ndipo mwamuna amakhalabe mwamuna wako, ndipo iye amafunikira kukhala wachikondi ndi chikondi. Samalani, ngakhale ziri zovuta bwanji kwa inu. Chikondi chochepa - ndipo iwe udzakhala ndi mphamvu kuti usayambe kugwedezeka kwathunthu mu chisamaliro cha chizolowezi.
Mwana wamng'ono akadzakula, zingakhale zothandiza kusiya izo kwa kanthawi pa agogo aamuna ndi agogo ake omwe akuwoneka kumene. Choyamba, mwanayo ayenera kuphunzitsidwa kuti nthawi zina amayi ake ayenera kuchoka. Chachiwiri, mudzakhala ndi nthawi yopuma kuchokera kwa mwana pang'ono ndikupita kwinakwake ndi mnzanuyo. Ngakhale ngati ndiyendayenda maola theka ndi mkono, zidzakuthandizanibe.
Tengani nokha lamulo kuti pali nkhani yeniyeni yokhudza chisamaliro cha mwana, mwambo womwe nthawizonse umachita ndi papa. Mwachitsanzo, kusamba madzulo kapena madzulo kudya ndi bowa. Ziribe kanthu kuti zidzakhala zotani. Ndikofunika kuti iwo akhale, mwamuna wanu ndi mwana wanu, ntchito yamba. Ndipo inu nthawiyi musagwire ntchito zapakhomo panthawi imodzi, koma tangolani. Samalani nokha, okondedwa. Pangani mawonekedwe a nkhope, manicure, pedicure. Kapena ingoyang'anani zosangalatsa zomwe mumazikonda pa TV. Ndipo motero sikofunika kuti tisiye ndikuganiza, momwemo mwamuna wanu: kaya apanga chinachake osati choncho? Pumulani. Ndikhulupirire, amakonda mwana wanu monga momwe mumachitira komanso amamukonda kwambiri.
Musaiwale kuti ziribe kanthu momwe mumakhalira, ndinu, makamaka, mkazi. Musapite pansi, khalani okondwa, werengani mabuku, kuyankhulana ndi anthu. Musatseke kokha pa mwanayo! Ndipotu, mwana wanu ndi wofunikira kwambiri kwa amayi anu okondwa.