Banja lirilonse, patapita nthawi limayamba kukhala ndi zovuta pamoyo waumwini, zomwe zikugwirizana ndi kusamvetsetsana. Pali zida zonse za makhalidwe oipa zomwe zingawononge ubale. Akatswiri a zamaganizo adaganiza kupereka uphungu kuti asamachite chiyani, panthawi yovuta, kuti asapangitse vutoli.
Osapitirira theka lachiwiri kwambiri
Ngakhalenso chikondi chodziwika bwino chingathe kuchitika mosavuta, ngati chikudyetsedwa ndi kukayikira nthawi zonse. Atsikana ambiri, komanso amuna, amaonanso kuti ndi udindo wawo kufunsa anzawo, kuti ndi ndani komanso kuti ndi ndani. Ena ayamba kufufuza matumba awo ndi zinthu zawo, akuyembekeza kupereka chiwembu ndikugwira manja ofiira. Munthu aliyense amasiya maganizo ake. Pambuyo pake, palibe amene akufuna kukhala chinthu chodandaula chamuyaya ndikudzilemekeza yekha. Chinthu choyamba chimene muyenera kuchita ndicho kuphunzira momwe mungalemekezere mnzanuyo, kumanga maubwenzi ndi kukhulupirira kwa bwenzi lanu. Ngati kukayikira sikukusiyani, mumayenera kukambirana chilichonse ndi diso la diso.
Musamafanizire chinthu cha chikondi chanu ndi ena
Palibe amene angakonde pamene akufanizira ndi munthu wina - wopambana komanso wokongola. Ivash chitetezo ndi chimodzimodzi. Ngati mumayamba kuyerekezana, tchulani ulemu umene ena ali nawo, koma mulibe inu, komanso kuti mumulongosole molakwika - musadabwe kuti ubalewu udzafika pamapeto. Munthu aliyense amafuna kukhala wosiyana ndi wapadera. Ndi zophweka kukwiyitsa mnzanu mwa kupha moyo. Ndikofunika kukhazikitsa wokondedwa wake chikhulupiliro chakuti ndi yekhayo ndi wapadera padziko lapansi. Ngati mulibe malo ndipo simungavomereze zovuta zilizonse - musamang'ambe tsitsi, kuyankhula poyera ndikubwera kuthetsa vutoli.
Zolingalira motsutsana ndi mnzanuyo
Ngati pavuto lirilonse limene lachitika m'banja mwanu, pitani kukauza anzanu kapena anthu omwe mumadziwana nawo ndikulira mu chovala - ganizirani, mukufunikira maganizo awa? Inde, mukukwiyitsa, muli ndi maganizo okhumudwa, ndizovuta chabe izi sizidzasintha.
Vuto lirilonse liyenera kuphunzitsidwa kuthetsa ndi mnzanu, ndipo osati kuthamangira kuthandizira anzanu kapena odziwa. Inde, mudzapatsidwa uphungu wochuluka kuchokera ku zochitika zanu zakale - ndikungoganiza, kodi akutsatirani? Anthu a chirengedwe ali osiyana ndi chikhalidwe, ndipo izo sizikugwirizana ndi zina, ndizo momwe iwo amawakondera. Kuonjezerapo, chiopsezo ndi chachikulu kuti mutayawona zomwe zikuchitika, mutamvera malangizo osiyanasiyana.
Chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe mungachite pa nkhaniyi ndi kukhala pansi ndikukambirana zonse ndi Spartner. Ndiwe nokha, iwe ukhoza kufotokoza ndi kufotokoza zomwe zimasokoneza, ndikuyesera kupeza chiyanjano. Lamulo lofunika - phunzirani kumvetsera, ngakhale mukufuna kuchotsa wolakwirayo. Chiwerengero cha khumi. Mukhoza kuchoka pang'onopang'ono, kenako bwererani ndikupitiriza kukambirana.
Zowonongeka nthawi zonse
Mayi akhoza kuchita zinthu zitatu popanda chilichonse - chovala chokongoletsa, saladi yonyansa. Ngati mukufuna kukangana, simukufuna kumvetsera chilichonse, zimatanthauza chinthu chimodzi chokha: simudziwa amuna konse. Amuna, mosiyana ndi amayi, samalirani zinthu zazing'ono ndipo musadere nkhaŵa za anthu omwe ali nawo. Kodi masokosi amasiyanso kachiwiri? Nchifukwa chiyani simunagwetse chivindikiro cha chimbuzi? Bwanji pa tebulo zinyenyeswazi? Kodi mu firiji muli mbale yopanda kanthu? Nthawi zamakangano, mungapeze zambiri, ndizo zomwe munthu akufuna kuti azikhala nazo zowopsya? Pamapeto pake, iye apita ku zomwe sizidzasokonekera ndi zochepa. Ndikuganiza kuti ndi nthawi yoti mudziwe kudziletsa nokha osati kulumbira pa nthawi iliyonse, ngati kuti maselo a mitsempha sakubwezeretsedwa.
Phunzirani Kukhululuka
Kukhululuka - maere a anthu amphamvu ndi okhululukira, muyenera kuphunzira. Choyamba, nokha. Ngakhale ngati mkangano uli kuthetsedwa popanda kutenga nawo mbali, chirichonse chiri choyenera kulankhulana wina ndi mzake ndikupempha chikhululukiro chonse. Kuyanjanitsa pambuyo pa kukangana kosakhululukidwa, njira imodzi, idzasiya zolemba zolakwika pa moyo wa wokondedwayo. Ndi bwino kukhululukira ndikuiwala mkangano kwamuyaya, kusiyana ndi aliyense kukambirana za izo.
Kusintha pang'ono kwa khalidwe kumabweretsa mgwirizano wokondwa komanso kukhala ndi maganizo abwino, chifukwa tikakhala okondwa, pamene chilichonse chimatikakamiza m'moyo uno, timanyamula chidutswa cha kutentha ndi mphamvu yabwino, yomwe ndi yofunika kwambiri kwa ena ndi ife makamaka.