Choyamba, muyenera kusonkhanitsa maganizo anu ndi kumasuka. Ndikofunika kuti tsiku lisanathe kupyolera pamutu wa nkhani zomwe zimakhala zofala kwambiri, zomwe mungayambe kukambirana momasuka. Choncho mukhoza kupewa manyazi komanso kumasulira zokambirana. Kawirikawiri timafuna kutengera munthu watsopano, kuti tiwoneke bwino kuposa momwe tilili. Musadwale chikhumbo ichi. Poyesera kuthetsa vutoli, musayese kutsogolera zokambirana. Mulole zokambirana zanu zikhale zokambirana zokondweretsa, osati zanu zokha ndi mavumbulutso ndi kuvomereza. Amuna monga utsogoleri, ganizirani izi. Komabe, kukhala pansi ndi wopusa kumawoneka mopanda nzeru pambuyo pa mawu onse ndikugwedeza mutu wako, nayonso, sikuli koyenera.
Musapite tsiku, ngati mukudandaula za mavuto alionse, asiyeni kunja kwa chitseko, musayese kuwawuza ndi chibwenzi chanu, funsani malangizo. Kusankhidwa koyamba ndi nthawi yabwino, osachepera, osati kulandiridwa ndi psychoanalyst. Anthu osadziŵika bwino samasowa mavuto a wina ndi mzake. Mwina adzakumverani, koma mwaulemu.
Kumbukirani nkhani zomwe zinaletsedwa kuti muziyankhula tsiku loyambirira: matenda, ndalama, zanu komanso moyo wake wapamtima, amuna anu akale komanso maubwenzi ake, kunenedwa ndi wina aliyense.
Yesetsani kumvetsera zambiri kuposa kungonena nokha. Ndimomwemonso akazi onse anzeru. Samalani pa zinthu zirizonse zosaoneka ngati zazing'ono muzokambirana zomwe zingathe kuyankhula zambiri. Samalani kuti munthuyo akulankhula za atsikana ake akale. Akawachitira zoipa, ndiye kuti akhoza kunena za inu ngati chibwenzi chanu chitatha.
Musayese kunena usiku wina chilichonse za inu nokha: kumene mumaphunzira, kugwira ntchito, kukhala ndi moyo, kumakhala nawo, ndi zina zotero. Poyamba, simuli kuntchito yofunsa mafunso. Ndipo, kachiwiri, musiyepo zina zokhudza inu nokha pa maulendo achiwiri ndi otsatizana, mudzakambirane chiyani? Kwa mwamuna, mkazi wosamvetseka amakhala wokondweretsa, wosakwanira kwathunthu. Ndipo ngati muli kale tsiku loyambirira pamtundu wa munthu, ndiye kuti mwamsanga amakukondani.
Yesetsani kupeza nkhani zomwe zimagwirizana, zomwe zimagwirizana pazokambirana. Anthu omwe ali ndi zofanana ndi zokonda, amakopeka wina ndi mnzake.
Kulankhula za iwe wekha, kambiranani zinthu zabwino zokhazokha za moyo wanu, koma mwanjira iliyonse yoyanjana ndi anyamata anu akale. Tiuzeni za zozizwitsa zanu, koma popanda kutengeka, mwachidule. Ganizirani za zochitika zina zosangalatsa, zochititsa chidwi kuchokera m'moyo wanu. Amuna ngati atsikana omwe amasangalala kwambiri, omwe saopa kukhala achinyengo. Tiuzeni za kupambana kwanu, zogwira mtima, koma popanda pathos ndi kudzitamandira. Chilichonse chimene mumanena, chitani zabwino, palibe zodandaula.
Pamene tsiku lanu litatha, payekha, kubweretsani zokambirana zanu, kumbukirani zomwe munayankhula ndi mnyamata pa tsiku loyamba. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuti muwonetse chithunzi cha munthu yemwe mwakumana naye ndi kufotokoza tsiku lanu. Komanso mudzatha kuzindikira zolakwa zanu. Ndipo ngakhale ngati tsiku loyamba ndilo lomalizira, mutha kupeza mwayi wopindulitsa ndikupeza yankho la funso: zomwe munganene pa tsiku loyamba ndi mnyamata.