Zifukwa zenizeni zogwirizanitsa zingakhale mamiliyoni, apadziko lonse - atatu okha. Ubale umene zinthu zonse zinayambika, zangokhala zokha: m'maganizo, kugonana, payekha, chifukwa-ndi-zotsatira. Mudayamba kukumana, chifukwa adagwirizana ndi ufulu wanu, ndipo inu - mwachikondi chake.
Zaka zitatu pambuyo pake zinapezeka kuti mutachoka kuntchito ndi zosangalatsa, mutasintha suti yamalonda kuti mukhale kavalidwe kokometsetsa, ndipo mmalo mwa malipoti a mlungu ndi mlungu, nsomba yokonzekera mukumenya. Koma ndi munthu wofatsa simungathe kukhala pakhomo - amatha kukhala pamenepo, ndi kugona pansi, ngakhale kuphika nsomba. Chimene munasankhira wina ndi mzake, chinadulidwa mchenga kupyolera pa zala zanu ndipo pitirizani ... palibe chosowa. Chinthu china - wina wamvulaza kwambiri mnzanu, ndipo sangathe kukhululukira. Kawirikawiri zimawoneka ngati "adasintha, ndinamuchotsa, sindingathe kumukhululukira ndipo sindikufuna, ubale watha. Zosankha, pamene anasintha, zochepa zochepa, komanso zopweteka. Mulimonsemo, kuti tipitirize kukhala mu chikhalidwe cha kusakhulupirika kwathunthu ndikumangika nthawi zonse. Njira yachitatu - zochitika zimapangidwa motsutsana ndi ubale wanu. Mwachitsanzo, akhala akugwira ntchito ku Moscow nthawi yaitali ndikugwira bwino ntchito, ndipo mumapatsidwa ntchito ku Berlin - ndipo simungakane. Zosatheka, zosatsutsika, palibe chifukwa ... tsopano. Chifukwa chifukwa chokha chogwiritsira ntchito kwambiri mawu oti "konse" chiri m'mawu oti "musataye konse".
Pambuyo pang'ono
Kodi chimachitika n'chiyani atagawanika? Aliyense wa inu amakhala moyo wake: amakumana ndi anthu atsopano, amayambitsa maubwenzi ena, amafanana ndi mikhalidwe yatsopano ndi zochitika ... Mungathe kukhala osangalala komanso osangalala, komanso iye, kwinakwake, kutali. Mpaka nthawi yokwanira ipitirira (chaka, ziwiri, zisanu ...), ndipo zinthu sizidzasintha, ndipo chofunika kwambiri - simusintha. Ndipo, zoterezi zinasintha, - musakumane. Ndipo mukakumana, zimakhala kuti zimagwirizanitsa pakati panu akadakali zofanana, zokopa sizipita kulikonse; nthawi yochuluka yatha kuti zowawa ndi zodandaulirana motsutsana wina ndi mzake zaiwalika; Zinthu zinasintha kachiwiri, koma nthawi ino pokhapokha mukukondwera; inu nonse ndinu okhwima mokwanira ndipo mwakhala ndi chidziwitso kuti mumvetse zomwe zimayambitsa mavuto ndiye kuti musabwereze iwo tsopano. Pamapeto pake, monga kunanenedwa mu mawu amodzi akale: moyo ndi wautali. Ndipo zomwe zikuchitika tsopano, ziripo tsopano, ndiyeno tidzawona!
Gawo 1: Pumulani
Choyamba, nkofunikira kumvetsa zifukwa zomwe mudasokonekera. Ngati izi sizikuchitika, ndiye kuti kuyesa kubwezeretsa chiyanjano mudzakumana ndi mavuto omwewo, koma pokhapokha. Tengani kuti chiyanjano chanu - makamaka mu mawonekedwe awa ndi panthawiyi - chatatha. Ndipo muzitsatira nokha! Gwiritsani ntchito "nthawi-ine" kuti mubwerere kumaphunziro ndi zopangira zomwe munasiyidwa chifukwa cha wokondedwa wanu. Ganizirani za thanzi: kudya, kugona, kuyenda - ndi kuyamba, kumapeto, kupita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi zonse!
Gawo 2: kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake mudasweka
Gwiritsani ntchito "nthawi-I" kuti muzindikire vuto lomwe linawononga ubale wanu. Kungoyambira pamtima, mutha kukhala ndi ubale wathanzi m'tsogolomu. Poganizira za izo, musaiwale kuti muyese zomwe mumachita m'mbiri yonse: kodi mudakhala ndi mavuto ndi kudalirika, kudzidalira nokha, ndikuganiza momwe angagwiritsire ntchito kusiyana kwake. Kumvetsetsa zomwe inu mukufuna komanso zomwe mukufuna, ndikuvomera moona mtima kuti zokhumba zanu zimagwirizana bwanji.
Khwerero 3: Bweretsani ubale
Pambuyo pa mphindiyo ayenera kudutsa miyezi iwiri. Ndipo ziribe kanthu momwe zinaliri zovuta, palibe oyanjana! Onetsetsani pa masitepe 1 ndi 2: ndiye nthawi idzadutsa mofulumira kwambiri. Ndipo patapita miyezi iwiri (ngati simunayambe ubale watsopano), mwachitsanzo, mungatumize kalata yakale kapena CMC kapena muzidziitanira nokha ndikufunsa momwe zinthu zilili. Pakati pa zokambirana, fufuzani mwayiwu ndikupereka kapenanso kumwa khofi. Mukamaliza kukumana ... kumbukirani sitepe 2 ndikuchitapo kanthu!